Where have all the fit and intersting men gone part 10 (part 10...already?!)

[Janos]

Yay, I get to start this one!

Anyways hey to Dee and mousie, the more the merrier I say

i have some news.

suprising back burner fellow, who i wasn't expecting has aranged a date. seeing him on sat. what was the name of tom cruise in "cocktail"? that shall be his nickname.

Wasnt it Brian? So sad when Bryan Brown killed himself in it.

ooooh rj spill..
where you off to?!

well, he's only 5ft 11, so just a bit shy of my 6ft i like to go for. plus he's a bar manager. hence the tom cruise. in cocktail. shall we just call him tom cruise? has that been used already? what about TC?

going on a proper night out on the tiles. either falkirk or stirling. not finalised. but its a definate. depends if i can get a lift over his way. it takes 10-15 mins in car. 1 hr by bus/train.

evening all should be fun rj.

lou sounds like darkhorse might be on the way out?

as for me samename called me tonight about the weekend, he is very stressed with work so told him I would relax him

sorry that sounded a bit bleugh

I said I would make sure he would relax when we met

scl - we all know how you plan to relax him , lucky you.

do you know everytime i read his name i have an image of a bloke waving you off in a towel why oh why oh why did you tell us that. lol.

it's not looking good for darkhorse is it?

No Lou it's not, but don't do anything until you have met your fb friend. You might not fancy him.

Quick update on my non existent dating life.

Had a missed call from friend with benefits tonight. No doubt he is in the area, decided to ignore. Another 'friend' has mentioned he is in the area this weekend. Told him I was going away. Need to ditch these two hangers on.

Not active on POF so it's not looking good for me is it? Have a new cyberman on the go, stumbled upon him on facebook but will probably never meet, enjoying the connection though.

i wont do anything til i am sure about what i want to say/do

i feel he needs to make a bit more effort

i think its good to be cutting off the hangers eve

Yes tbh I'm not that interested in either of them so I need to.

Going to bed now. Keeps us updated. Nite.

lol about waving me off in a towel. I'm sure it was for benefit of neighbours.

Have to go to bed too as had a night out for work last night and am still feeling the effects.

Can't keep up with you all but rj - I think you should actually call him Cocktail - as good a nickname as any! Night everyone.

lol @ cocktail, that it is then.

check out this other guy who is quite insistent on mailing. number

1. he's blonde.. not my thing.
2. why does he put a picture of his car on there.

he's actually very nice, been mailing away several a day, nothing dodgy. can write full sentences.

golddustz

i know he's a bit young for some. but he's quite good looking. so why do i think

mwwwauuh instead of phwoaaar?? not been asked on date,but dont think i would go if he did? i'm sure its the car pic that puts me off. but he's not a knob head like most that have car pics??

Thought I was going to bed but got chatting to 2 pictureless pofers. One wants to join me in bed (that Jordan pic again) & the other was the one I enjoyed chatting to the other day. (He wanted me to call him.) Got their msn addresses now so I'll set it up tomorrow & see what they're like!
Checked out golddustz rj. & I see what you mean. Nice lips. Weird car shot, though - he's not even in it, or draped across it! Perhaps he's a transformer & the car is what he transforms into! Lol.
Discovered can rate my picture & the_boyz rated it an 8! (must have been when I hadn't tweaked my settings & they saw I'd checked them out).

de - oooh an 9 from those boyz pillocks. you must be pleased they took time out their busy schedule for that., so are you going to get photos when they go on msn?

the_boyz sounds like obnoxious c*nts tbh (sorry)

the other one looks quite sweet if a bit young in the face

darkhorse is officially a deadhorse now

Oh Lou, what's happened. No point in flogging a dead horse.

Just mithering about at lunchtime. Very humid and overcast atm, very tired making.

lou - sorry to here that. What's happened with darkhorse?

mousie - if you're about I have your message and I will reply! haven't forgotten you, just ridiculously busy atm.

dee and rj - men and cars, what is it? I don't give a flying eff what car someone drives. they go from a to b, right?

rj - night out in falkirk or stirling? don't forget the riot gear!

i sent him a message saying i didnt think we should see each other and he replied with a v long email like he was the one dumping me lol

i feel relieved tbh

if i go on this lunch date tomorrow i can feel a free agent

he said he didnt want to discuss it face to face as he didnt like confrontation

i told him there was noting to discuss i had already told him what was what, and it wasnt confrontation he was worried about but he was just weak willed and preferred to sidestep issues til i addressed it

and told him to stop thinking he had hurt me because i wasnt going to be crying about it

oh and he said he felt terrible for getting close tot he kids and letting them down and can we stay friends so he can still hang out with us?

jesus lou! it is so not simple
stay close to dc wtf?
if you are relieved then that's good, let's face it if you are looking forward to a date when with him it's not really happening
I'm close to finishing with nm also had a lovely weekend away and got a lot of things in perspective. Then he came over last night on a pretext obv desp for a shg and I just wasn't interested, without sex we have nothing to say to each other, he is v v dull
and like you I am not crying
asbm you sound loved up! sounds like you picked a real genuine good 'un
itm sorry about stuff with ex

ninah i just cant be arsed with pissing about when i know its not going anywhere, what makes me chuckle is how his mail is written like he was breaking it to me gently, like i had no clue

it was me who led up to this and me who said i wasnt wanting to see him this weekend

he also added this to his email as if he was consoling my broken heart

"I know this is no consolation, but this has not been easy & I am & will be feeling really crap for quite a while.

I'm really sorry to have messed you around.

I probably don't know a good thing when it's in front of me."

lol

i told him not to shed any tears for me cos i wasnt shedding any over him and reminded him I INSTIGATED THE BREAK