Where have all the fit and intersting men gone part 10 (part 10...already?!)

[Janos]

Yay, I get to start this one!

Anyways hey to Dee and mousie, the more the merrier I say

sorry deelerious, I have already got the Johnny Depp look alike

dee, email him back and tell him to ask his father cos he could tell him

can i also make a confession on her please?

i have been asked out for lunch by someone who messaged me through fb and lives locally

and i have said yes

lou - have you and darkhorse had a chat about exclusivity yet?

asbm - are you thinking about introducing dc?

llaj - wow, but this isn't uncommon i suppose. one of guy i was chatting to said out of blue "i have an enormous cock", i replied "u wish" and blocked him instantly.

how did you react? have you just blocked or give him some cheek first?

dee - i talk to ones without pics too. and always ask why they dont have a pic.

as for me. still chatting to a few. but MrT is possibly being let back into the pool to freedom. found out he used to be high up in a security firm. in other words a bouncer(hence the nickname tigger). i told him if he was a typical bouncer i wouldn't touch him with a barge pole. he says he was a typical, but no longer works in security. not sure if i can be bothered finding out to see if having sole custody of his daughter has tamed his ways. as you remember i've already had my bouncer fun with diver. i think it would be a bit slutty to play with another.

In the past I've chatted to some without photo's, when they send one they are always not my cup of tea. I can understand why people don't want a pic on their profile but they can send a private image with the first message. The ones who hide usually have a reason.

I would politely suggest to the ones who are wanting to talk dirty to go to a adult chat site, then block them. POF isn't for that, though it does have it's share of 'looking for casual encounter'. Best not reply to the ones who say this unless you are looking for that too.

Lou, no harm in meeting this other guy, is there?

I don't mind a bit of sexual innuendo but have some class FGS. Wait until I make the first sleazy comment. Geez what ever happened to manners!

Keep looking for someone with more class

The last one I was chatting to annoyed me just because he kept texting 'hi sexy'. Didn't bother to meet him as I knew we wouldn't hit if off just by that.

rj kind of yes and no, as in we have agreed not to shag other people

but like i said earlier im not sure now if this is what i want , so maybe lunch is acceptable?

llaj

agree with eve.... class upfront please

lou - i think as long as it wouldn't bother you if he did the same then go for it.

Good advice RJ, even if it wasn't to me. Never thought of it that way.

meeting someone for lunch wouldnt bother me

i meant to add this one i am meeting knows situation with darkhorse, and i have said to him that i am meeting a friend for lunch

can i ask if it was through a dating thing from fb,

i could understand it not bothering you if he was just meeting a female friend he knew through facebook?

but if it was someone that had contacted him from a dating thing, and this was their initial "date", all be it, your calling it lunch, but it would be a date.

would you really be ok with this with someone you are supposed to be exclusive with?

would you not be pissed you were being faithful to him and he was obviously searching for someone else to fill your shoes??

i could be totally off the mark here as i got the impression this guy was from a dating thingy. but if he's a friend your going to meet then that different. just looking it through darkhorses perspective?

Will this be the first time you have met this guy? If so it is to see if there is any potential as in, you are still looking.

You have to do what you want to ultimately. If you are still open to offers then you need to be honest about it. Depends how involved you think DH (ooops) Darkhorse is about you.

tbh i wouldnt have thought twiuce about meeting osmoen else but for a comment darkhorse made a couple of weeks ago when he was here, which has made me reevaluate things

sorry about typos

lou im nosey intrigued

Has darkhorse made any other such comments? Could it have been a one off to judge how you felt? Or do you think that there is some underlying meaning??

oh i dunno but i did talk to him about it and thought at the time that was that, but i am not so sure i can leave it , iyswim

i did say to him my track record at second chances is shit, cos i am no good at them

and is he on a second chance already?

yes from something he said about 10 days ago

i did talk to him about it and he did apologise and ask if we could forget it was ever said etc

i dunno, i really am rubbish at this stuff, the last bloke i gave a second chance to i dumped less than 24 hrs later, and when he started blubbing i handed him a tissue and said he would get over it

hahaha!
oh god are those the tissues you're saving for my ex?!

yes i believe in recycling

exs or tissues lol

tissues