where have all the fit and interesting men gone part.....9? isit 9?

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ooooh i get to start the thread.
unless i'm being thick and cant find it.

lou - go on send me a pic of dark horse i'm so nosey.

ninah - i think thats really rude of your friend. if she didn't have anything nice to say she shouldn't have said anything at all.

oh

blimey it's all go on here!
i'm having a quiet one i need it tbhhave a nice glass of vino on the go tho
welcome back rtp hope you have a good one tonight!
lou no need for overthinking here,you need a nice time aft.all that's happ.recently
scl how are coping with the exbf getting in touch?
frd is working again here but noone interesting let alone fit on there atm.have just spotted tintin tho lol
he's obv doing another 5day mobile thing
nice bloke but just not for me

well if you tell me it's ok asbm, then i guess i have to listen

sorry I'm not expressing myself very well tonite - I meant it was not a double entendre more a description of his personality.

scl i knew that

lou i'm quite sure you don't need my blessing here
a girl has to have options lol

yes indeed, weirdly this has all come about when i wasnt even that fussed or looking

but aren't we always being told that this is often the case

Hi checking in to the new thread.

Old friend came over to see me last night. We were lovers ahh!! when we met years ago but since then it's always been platonic until last night.

Also will confess I am a failure. Three guesses at what.

OH EVE SHAME ON YOU

is that the ciggies eve?

I didnt smoke for over a month when I was ill but must fess up to still having the odd one most nights

Yes it's the cigs. I just couldn't handle the moodiness. I know it was temporary but I'd just quit a job I loved because of problems with the newish manager. Think I knew too much for his liking .

I think most of us are smokers on this thread. Something to do with being single . Even our resident fit one, ITM, slipped up. It's a horrendous drug.

er yes it is
just slipped back in from the garden btw
what's happ.then with work eve?
and what about the old friend?!

He isn't a regular visitor just someone I hook up with when he is in the area. Usually shove him in the spare room but changed my mind last night. Suppose we are now friends with benefits again.

Clashed with new manager so felt I had no choice but to quit for my own security. Increasing my hours at my other job. Shame as I haven't done anything wrong.

So when are you seeing Matlock?? from Dudley. I'm .

I have been feeling a bit breathless as well so should not be smoking really - think it's a hangover from the virus or possibly I am anaemic again (hope not),

exH called a while ago to speak to boys and really got on my nerves - wanted to know why DS2 hadn't gone football training today (exh is obesssed with his weight) and wanted to comment on his speech (DS2 been rereferred to SALT)

Told exh it was because I was ultra tired after a heavy week and had no money - but really don't see why I am answerable to him.

That's the stupid thing about it. The few weeks that I didn't smoke I felt so much better, physically. Even the hangovers were mild. lol. Perhaps the breathlessness may help you to quit again. I think I will try another method as the cold turkey isn't working.

So glad I don't have a concerned other half breathing down my neck about DD. However, that has it's obvious drawbacks. Can he not take him to footie? I used to worry about DD's weight but it's stabalising now and kids are made as they are.

that's sad to hear about work,i've left jobs before thru similar circumstances
and sadly no word from mattlock as yet..
scl oh you and me both
exh was in a foul one when he collected the dc last night,and then sent me an early morning nasty text about dd
SALT is v.normal dd has had it for a couple of years but was recently discharged

eve , sorry about earlier i had a friend turn up with dramas and had to deal with that

Oh Lou don't worry about it. We are all allowed to leave the computer and deal with RL. Hope you managed to sort your friend out. I have to go to bed now, DD is home and wants me out the way.

nite eve x
lou hope nothing to serious
oh fucking hell things not good here have had nasty phone call and texts from my exh
he's been saying really awful things to me and is threatening never to see the dc again

oh blimey asbm

do you have msn? i am online , if you email me your msn address i can add you if you want a chat?

eve, i know but i just left, didnt have a chance to say to you what was going on, didnt want you thinking i was just rude

thanks lou
have mailed you
will try to get some sleep but have a rather beautiful man checking me out
think marco pierre white meets colin firth here
he lives miles away tho
so hey dream on asbm

just read this ASBM - perhaps we should compare notes.

Does your exh have new p?

sorry asbm i had gone to bed, i have added you though