where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone?[part 8]

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

oh jesus lou
it's turn your phone off time
but then why the hell should you have to?

wooooooo hooooooo asbm. hoping you have a fab time

ooooh wrap dress?

now there's an idea lol

Hey asbm, you getting a touch excited about this one? Sounds good.

yeah def
how are you getting on with the cigs eve?
and meant to ask you what happ.about the dress for the wedding

How exciting for you ASBM!!

ooh good luck asbm

thanks all!
no news then lou?
llaj how's your pof man?

lost how strange it must have been with exh and dc. You don't seem upset by it though, you seem to have taken it on board really well. I am at the stage where I could just about cope with ex and a gf - never thought I'd say that - but not sure dc. He had the snip anyway so unlikely to happen.
rj some people do get really caught up in work sure superman still feels same about you, but you have to think if you can deal with a workaholic I suppose
AsBM! asbm's got a date! no lurking in carpark/toilet window strategies this time, enjoy
was cheesed off with nm this weekend but he turned up last night with a bunch of flowers and apologies before I even had the chance to complain. which was kind of annoying
have stinking cold
take care all
what you going to wear asbm?

hi ninah, poor you nm being so on the ball you dont even get a wee whinge.

as for workaholic. i can cope. have been there before with exp. and that was one thing i never had an issue with.i actually quite like that. good personality trait as far as i'm concerned.

he got in contact yesterday.day before he worked from 5am.till bed time. got few hrs kip then up at 5am again.he explained when he's working in scotland there's times it can be just as hectic.

not heard from him today yet. but hopefully hear something before the days out. in his own words he "loses days on end". so no big deal if i dont.

Hello everyone, sorry I haven't been on here lately, just got quite a lot on my plate to deal with atm, plus it was a year ago today when it all started to kick off with Ex-H and his family, come this Sunday it will be exactly a year since we split up! I'd like to think I've come a long way since then. Anyway nothing happening with me man wise either.
Hope you guys are all well anyway.

aww you're suffering there too ninah hope it's not the same thing as scl has had for ages
lol at you and nm
am still smiling after your revelations from the week-end,but i kinda think you two are destined to just keep on going somehow despite him p'ing you off
and yeah as i said i'm feeling more interested in indie for sure and don't think i'll be looking for the nearest exit lol
rj has suggested the wrap dress,but don't know where we're going,if weather like this will be more than happy with a nice beer garden tbh

yes holly you've come a long way and the only way is up
not long til absolut time yay

Have been emailing every day and managed to find out who is in real life through some sneaky googling and he is a normal person.
Had lots of emails but figure I can be fussy (most of them too old). Had an email from Crazy Dave today too.
Again thanks for the POF recommendation. Match sucks big time!

no news here asbm

Aaaahhhhh Sideshow Bob just asked me out.
What do I do???????????????????????????

do you want to go?

llaj if you like him why not
tho if you feel you need more time then say you're busy on whatever the day is and hopefully he'll fix another time with you
lou what's happ with those fb guys?

I do actually. What if he looks at me and runs a mile. Oh how do you all do this. It is nerve racking.

er why should he?
he's obv seen your pic and likes the look of you and obv likes what you have to say too
when's the day?

Hi...
i was on one of your other threads a few weeks/month?? ago.
Ive been emailing this guy, who seems ever so sweet for 5 months now. He has actaully sort of asked to meet several times, but been really understanding while ive made lame excusues... then he hadnt asked in ages... and now hes asked me again and ive said yes!!!
OMG!!!!!!
i have not been on a date in over 10 years!
What do i do/say/wear?????
help!
i keep thinking what if i dont like him in rl, or what if he doesnt like me? we email a lot and have recently started texting too.. but not everyday.. and i always make sure i dont reply too quickly
i really like chatting to him, but what if we meet and dont hit it off.. ill miss his emails.. ( god i sound soft dont i!)
HELP!

because the photo didnt show my body???
No idea why really. Just panicking now.
He asked for this week but I cant do it so next week now. have to try and get the evening off now too.
I am very excited though.

lou, i totally know what you mean. My pic is a head a shoulders pic.. not a big lumpy size 14 saggy tummy shot.
Thats what im worried about.

I would kill to be a 14...im an 18/20.
Wear suck it all in pants and you will be fine. I need steel reinforcing.

ah, i had not thought of suck it in pants... good idea!
i was planning on wearing a top that made the most of my boobs and would distract attention from my tum... maybe a good plan for you too?? LOL

( honestly i bet mine is worse that yours.. and though dress sizes small, probably larger.. and im only short)

but you know what.... we have been chatting to these men, they must like us to have asked us out.. im sure they are not perfect either...

its just so exciting/scarey isnt it