where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone?[part 8]

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

oh jesus lou
it's turn your phone off time
but then why the hell should you have to?

honestly don't think that its necessarily a good idea to meet someone so quickly after being in a relationship.

And lots of people settle which is never a good idea.

There is nothing wrong with you, Nutty.

It will happen I promise you.

I didn't go near a man till about 11 months after splitting with exh and that was completely out of the blue.

Oh I know but 3 years, there must be something wrong with me, there must.

nutty i havent had a serious/long term/proper relationship now for 2 yrs

flings only

i wonder if its me sometimes too, but i dont think it is really

although now you mention it ...

nutty i seriously doubt that there's anything wrong with you at all
i've been on my own for just over a year now and only had one short lived relationship which thank god i'm no longer in
incidentally,is it me here or do men seem to have more hang-ups/issues than us women?
and is this esp.true of those online?

Morning all. I need to get my mn fix, missed it this weekend.

Glad to hear all of you are mostly well.

Nothing new to report here.

I have just turned into a running bore

drum roll please..............come NYE it will be 6 years of singledom for me (in every sense of the word). I am not so ugly I have to wear a bag on my head, I am not so fat that I can't fit through doors, I am educated, friendly, employed, have all my own teeth so what is wrong with me??????????????????

hi loulaj, ain't nothing wrong with you, probably just a confidence issue.

I know it sounds like a lot of mumbo jumbo, but I was in a very similar situation confidence wise and those self books were really good, mainly because of the positive affirmation mantras.

Call me silly, but hey I was up to try anything to get me out of the rut!

morning all!
just looking in!
not much news from me really tho indie still in touch
feeling really rough atm.think i'm going down with some dreaded bug
hope everyone else is good

Oh dear asbm hope it isn't swine flu!

Seems to be something going round at the mo funnily enough.

Much sympathy to loulaj (hi there) and nutty. I too have been in relationships that just haven't worked out, yet my XP has happily (well I don't know but YKWIM) remarried. And nuttym without be all stalker-y, I've seen your photos and you look gorgeous!

Nowt new from me either but just wanted to say hello.

"incidentally,is it me here or do men seem to have more hang-ups/issues than us women?
and is this esp.true of those online? "

Oh, yes to both I think.

Really, I can't be bothered with them at the moment. I know it's the point of the thread but feeling faded and jaded atm.

Oh the exbf has been texting me again.

I SHOULD be saying 'get lost' but can't seem to do it. Loneliness, feeling down and self esteem 'issues' I think.

Tell me to get a grip somebody!

you know i can't do that as i know how hard it is

Afternoon
Hi Janos! I still talk to one ex (my first bf ever) and sometimes I think 'what if' but considering he is still in Oz and I am here...makes for a very expensive phone bill. As for your exbf, would you want to be with him again? If so go for it, if not then delete/block his number. I really should listen to my own advice sometimes.

Well Sideshow Bob emailed again today (thats at least 2 a day!!!). Is wrong to get so excited over an email?????????? Am I pathetic??? I think so

Yep it's tough all right asbm

Ah no loulaj that sort of thing can give you a real lift - I don't think it's pathetic at all.

exex(ex) gets called sideshow bob because of how curly his hair is atm

i am awaiting a reply from my exh regarding my response to his inventory

well i can beat that llaj as i've had nine this morning from indie
so there lol

lou bet you're holding your breath there NOT
janos

I'm OK asbm! Just got some stuff on my mind which is not actually to do with exbf. I'm going to start another thread about it (to do with DS).

i had to reply to the inventory by 12pm today, so far nothing back

though i am not complaining, i would rather not have to hear from him

well i guess no news is good news here lou

ooh the suspense lol

where is the wild west music?

oh yes can see lee van cleef as we speak lol
well quick update from me
indie has asked me out and seeing him on sat nite lol
and for the first time in a while am actually smiling about this one!