where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone?[part 8]

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

oh jesus lou
it's turn your phone off time
but then why the hell should you have to?

aww eve big (((( ))))) from me
giving up the cigs is hard going
are you using patches or going cold turkey?
lou all the best for tomorrow will be rooting for you,and know that you won't let him get the better of you
llaj welcome to the world of online dating lol.i also received a weird one today from a 55yr oldneedless to say i didn't reply
chancer it's entirely up to you here,remember its cyber space and they cannot see you to get upset so don't worry about it.if you receive a message from someone nice then a light friendly short reply works i find

cheers eve - they definitely showed the worst bits but i guess that's part of the programme or people would wonder why they were they if they showed the nicer areas (ie every other area!). even i thought that if that was what the whole town was like, i wouldn't live here but i pass it every day on the way to work and i don't actually take that much notice.

gs may be a little out of my league but you never know! still got my profile on there so will see.

and you are right - i think you have to have a thick-ish skin and be able to ignore those who you are less compatible with. those who you think might be okay, just reply to say thanks for the email and for taking time to look at your profile and then mention something that's in theirs - maybe 'how long have you played the drums/live in blah town...

dont reply to anyone you dont feel like dealing with, because even a thanks but no htanks will give them encouragement ot keep replying

scuse typos , hada sleeping pill

again another ignorant question. What is GS?

MH nearly forgot to post for you lol
way hey this is good news
i'm assuming you've said yes?!
what's he like?
a brief description here please

Guardian Soulmates
how are you getting on with POF?

Im getting on ok. Lots of very wierd people out there. I am having fun just looking and getting the hang of it. 2 don't appear to be serial killers normal guys have emailed me. I don't know why I didn't do this before. It's kind of fun.

saw samename again last night - still going well. No fuss or stress so far. Should be coming over for the weekend after this one for a more relaxing time. Also may introduce him to some workmates.

As for ex fb/flatmate - he is still in touch with the others we house shared with. I am sure we might have a catch up, I hope he does not still feel anything for me.

Still longing to contact exbf as I really feel the need to talk to him frankly - for closure, I don't know, I can't seem to get closure on my own. I know silence does speak volumes but in his case it hasn't meant the end it has always meant a lull period.

Tho I wouldn't be ever going back to being there for him just when he wanted. I might ring him. Last time I was thinking of doing this he did get in touch.

llaj glad you're enjoying yourself there and yes it is great fun
what are these two poss men like?
scl-am sorry to hear that you're still struggling to have closure
i think it's something that as women we need whereas men just tend to do the burying their head in the sand bit or the protracted silences
do you think he'll be willing to talk?
and do you feel that you will actually have closure from this or is it likely to stir up all those feelings again?

llaj - details please. and you have to think up nicknames so we know who your talking about.

scl - closure is a bugger. have you thought about just deleting his numbers altogether to avoid temptation

well the judge gave him every single thing he wanted, he is in my house now going through stuff saying what he wants and doesnt and has been allowed another 2 days to remove it next week

so much for justice eh?

WTF?

god lou that's awful. I can't imagine anything worse than exH in house routing through stuff - he should have taken it ages ago.

Is the house your ex mh?

it's bad enough having them on your doorstep but god to have them going thru stuff is beyond belief

lou - Not sure of the background but from what I can tell it doesn't seem fair.

Riding - Ooh ok nicknames....lets refer to them as Sideshow Bob and Crazy Dave.

sideshow bob and crazy dave?
so which one do you prefer?
or are we keeping one's options open atm!

Prefer sideshow bob but am keeping my options open. Both a bit different to my ususl choice in men but since it has been such a looooooonnngggg time since anyone I am open to new ideas.

rofl
why bob then?!
and yes i've tried the new ideas thing too lol

Bob is funny. I always seem to attract arseholes or army guys (nothing wrong with cams though )

yes i run in opp direction when i discover a military connection now

Oh no I still love it. Sad but true.
Only ever with the Australian army though..although there was a marine once back in my uni days .

fancy a taste of the brit military now eh?

Well no one has offered so far....

and he still went off complaining about not enough time and how it was all my fault it has come to this

lou - thats poor show he gets to rummage around

jelly - liking the nicknames.