where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone?[part 8]

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

oh jesus lou
it's turn your phone off time
but then why the hell should you have to?

he was last heard complaining that he has to send me an inventory of all he wants, as he agreed in court, by tonight for me to respond to by 12pm monday

lou sorry you are having such a time of it with ex awful
hope you are ok and bearing up
you have people around you while he was there?
rj what a fab expression 'exclusive to superman'. Does he know about his nickname on here?
asbm you need to rope in some more talent, you deserve someone less inept (don't we all lol)
abouteve I went off cigs some years ago, my mum who was really healthy otherwise but a huge smoke had a heart attack etc and it just put me off, the garage was practically full of her cigs but none of us could bear to smoke them. Very occasionally I have the yearning for a smoke, summer evenings, outside, with a drink but that is say once a year or so. It must be hard to give up when you don't really want to and your head hasn't switched off from it. All the best.

i have now had an email disputing what he was meant to do today as ordered by the court and when he was meant to do it

so even though he has been told by law he still wont do it, but hey, he can just go back to court and tell them its all down to me again and i will be held responsible, so who gives a fuck ?

keep the email and your calm, dispassionate response
breathe ...

lou don't rise to it fgs but keep all emails
evening ninah!
some more talent for me?
IMHO am really relaxed about it all atm.indie still appears keen so will see where that one leads if anywhere
how are things with nm?

that's good asbm although beware because whenever I've been least bothered about men is when I've got landed with one
saw nm in the week, all OK, we get on well when together but is hard as otherwise our lives are separate and the usual irritations occur. He wanted me to go round tonight but just got in and my dc a lot younger than his so really need rest not to jump in car again and pack the full equipment for an overnighter. Maybe will ask him to come here later on. Got to read bedtime stories now etc

hi ninah, how things with nm. still in luuurve?

i go through stages of smoking and not smoking.

em..... he doesn't know about mumsnet. but we call each other superman and superwoman

asbm - indie looking promising for a meet up. when are you free of dc to arrange meet up?

the judge told him today to give me a copy of an inventory for me to look over at the weekend and email him with yes or no by 12pm monday

but now he says i made him remove his stuff fromt eh attic today so he couldnt write one (would have thought he could have jotted it down as he went tbh) and that he cant be expected to get it ready today and will give it to me by sunday, which he says is "more than enough i think anyone would agree"

then goes on to say the court didnt tell him to take it out of the house today

maybe not but if he was up there checking and he has been told there is no access on thurs and fri to the house , then it made sense for him to move it today, as i wouldnt have known what it was or in all likelihood, been able to get anyone to do it for me (plus i cant get up ladders because of my knee)

ninah relax,am chilled here, really, lol
rj am not child free til next w/e so who knows?it depends on his work commitments and whether he asks me of course!
he did ask me about this w/e but i said i had the dc was busy
as i said we'll see!
ninah i guess niggles and day to day stuff is all part of the course,you do sound v coupled up tho
lou this is all the nasty,headgames stuff of divorce and it is hard not to let it get to you i know

we arent even in the divorce courts!

his solicitor said they would not proceed with it until this was dealt with, though in court he denied it, when the judge ordered that the marriage certificate be returned to my solicitor by next friday so it can continue

he said he had signed all the papers and had no clue why it wasnt going through

this case is a stand alone thing, not related to any other proceedings

oh god what can you really do here?

Lou, hopefully out with his stuff and on with the divorce. just testing to see if this works.

I'm doing a cold turkey quit!!! Day 3 nearly over. Anyway don't want to bore you with this. Quitting sex is somehow much easier.

eve only managed cold turkey when i found out i was pregnant
divorce had me back on them
got the pic about the sex situ tho

i cant do anything

he wont give me the inventory til end of weekend when i was meant to have it to think over this weekend about, he has said sunday is enough time for me to think about it

and i am unfair making him take it from the attic

i can to fuck all on a friday can i?

i just have to be shafted again

i may as well just permanently bend over til he has had enough

asbm - you assume right! i am quite into geeky guys at the mo and from what I can remember he fulfills my david tennant fetish!!! am just worrying about what would be the best first date - pub quiz maybe - or is that too naff? haven't done a first date for years so incredibly rusty

Morning

Sorry court went badly Lou, your ex is unbelivable.

No news here, the guy I spoke to on msn the other night hasn't been in touch since. He was on msn last night but I was a bit busy so decided i'd only say hi if he did, and he didn't.

No replies from any that I have messaged and no messages from anyone else nice.

morning all!
mh lol @ david tennant,he fulfills quite alot of fantasies on here i think,i'm assuming he's incredibly tall
bet you'll be sooo excited tho going on that 1st date wherever it is
nutty-yeah give him the treat em mean..treatment here and he'll soon make contact as it always works
lou-words fail me really

words fail me too
i just spent about 20 mins talking on the phone to exex(ex) about it

and we wont have time to meet up again now due to both our commitments , which is a shame but at least we are talking again and will stay in touch

lou glad to hear that you'll stay in touch with him tho it's a shame you can't have that meet
how's things with evil ex today?

lou is exex going out of the country?

let's not talk about exh lol

exex is going back to thailand on the 20th for good

Im trying to keep track of everyones exs but its getting hard but I hope that everyone is having a nice evening.
Well I never heard back from Crazy Dave after I replied to his email and Sideshow Bob has emailed me about 6 times

my mate v keeps calling me asking me to go over to his for a night out

i dont fancy it and couldnt go til after 11 anyway as dd1 is out babysitting

well if nothing else you're popular Lou! don't fancy starting an evening at 11 these days, have to say. Just me and Snr Chianti tonight