where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone?[part 8]

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

oh jesus lou
it's turn your phone off time
but then why the hell should you have to?

i reckon he just likes the attention

FB, which is odd i think aswell, and adds to my bluffing theory.

I think so too Lou, although then perhaps same can be said for me, especially seeing as I nearly wet myself with excitement when he called me sexy ROFL.

oh nutty so glad you have your soh here

Oh god yeah i realised ages ago that I needed a sof with this one. The whole thing does make me laugh so I am hppay to play along for now

Off to bed now, his 10:30 deadline to reply has gone, my glass is emoty and my bed is calling

Sounds like a harmless flirtation. Tell him to dump the gf then you might be interested. Enjoy it though.

I've just started a thread on teenagers. If anyone wants to give me advice. Lou????? It's painfully slow on there so it's unanswered. Will reply and tell you what my male friend said when I told him. Please don't make me look sad (even though I can be where DD is concerned). lol

oh lol eve
would reply on there but it would be under false pretences tho as you know my dd is acting like one

Hmm well that really backfired, on me.

He is free this Friday.

I need to find out about the gf still don't I.

I don't have any teens yet abouteve, although dd1 could easily pass for one in looks and attitude. Perhaps I should read it anyway to see what I am in for in the future lol.

whats backfired nutty?

Well I played along with meeting up with him cos I was so sure he was still bluffing, but apprently he isn't.

oh what's been said?
and are you actually interested here?

set him up lol

He wants me to have a drink with him on Friday.

When i worked with him, i really really liked him, we had a laugh got on really well and there was definatly flirting going on, on both sides.
He also gave really good relationship advice for his age at the time.
I was still with xp at that point and so nothing ever happened and tbh I didn't think he really really liked me iyswim.

Anyway, 4 years ish later and he thinks I am hot and sexy, which I find hilarious, not because I don't like him but because I can't see why he sees me like that.

In all honesty I don't know if i'd want a relationship with him, but wouldn't completely rule it out.

He has a gf though, although he never actually seems to see her.

well see it as a night out if nothing else and if he thinks you're hot i'd say enjoy the attention
why not lol
see it as your service to this thread
we need a good laugh

find out about the gf before you do anything tho nutty, know where you stand

LOl asbm

I have asked about his gf but no reply as yet. He is probably at work though.

I think he will more than likely reply that yes he still has a gf but he still wants me to go round, in which case we are back to square one.

ooh a rather nice man not far from me just messaged me via fb

ooh lou spill pronto lol
nutty this is becoming hard work here,is he worth the effort?
well i've had two messages from indie man via frd and email saying that he's been working away again,hi asbm etc etc
haven't replied as yet as he's not consistent with contact himself and thinks he can drop me a message when it suits him
bfs is v much me atm lol

tall, fair 30's , hot looking, self employed, about 8 miles away, turns out he knows a friend of a friend

small world eh?

indeed it is
have you replied yet?
short and sweet one liner if you have i guess

yes we exchanged a few messages then i said i had to go

i just got another one from a guy in the same area as well, little bit younger though

blimey lou
it's all go again eh?

no not really, i am only talking on a non flirty level, i feel very flat still tbh, and overly tired

god lou sorry about your exh what an insane situation. Hope it sorts itself out for you.

lou & non flirty
i'm still v.meh too tbh
ninah how's things with you?