where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone?[part 8]

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

oh jesus lou
it's turn your phone off time
but then why the hell should you have to?

ps my two are off on holiday in July with their dad etc and I am looking forward to it and dreading it in equal measures

i have sleeping pills from my gp, took 2 last night

dd1 got home about 1am, so i went to bed and kind of slept, but i feel shit still

v asked me to go round there tonight to hang out with him and a friend of his, but i am not in hte mood

Yep scl that's just how I feel!

Oh lou how grotty. Really hope you sleep better tonight.

When I say just how I feel, I mean about DS going away! But also about the exbf too.

reckon we could all do with some tlc atm - I do find it hard to admit that or ask for it.

And as single parents you can actually run dry I think

When the woman in the co-op was ultra nice to me today I felt like bursting into tears - I know it's a passing mood but made me realise how I felt.

Felt like that towards one of the midwives after having DS1 - touched that someone was so nice to me. Actually I was married then so maybe not much difference in support levels LOL

Yes you come to expect crappy behaviour don't you. I was alwyas surprised when ppl were nice to me!

God this thread moves fast, i can't keep up.

All quiet again here, except for the toyboy who is still bluffing and still attatched.

I must make an effort to read this thread mor often so I know what is going on with everyone and can comment.

I find it very hard to admit that I need help, feel lonely or anything like that.

'I'm fine thanks' is my default setting and I use it alot.

i just had a friend pop round who hadnt been informed of my dramas this weekend

she was v nice and told me off for not asking for her help lol

Ah it is nice when that happens Lou

yes
my house is a slum tho

she wanted to take me for a drink but i said no, not up to it, aside from the fact my stomach is killing me from the stress of the weekend, i just feel like staying in

I typed a long message before and the PC crashed.

I was saying that everyone seems down atm and sending positive vibes.

It's hard moving on when you have feelings for an ex. I've been there and hurt a couple of people simply because they weren't him.

To Janos, and everyone going through hard time with the fathers of the DC's, how awful it must be having someone trying to interfere with the most important relationships we will ever have. I know they feel they have just as many rights but it's a sad if the DC's are affected.

Yes ASBM the foreigner has bfs. I'm off men atm they are all running away rapidly.

evening all!
nowt from me i'm afraid am def.having self imposed garboesque time atm.phileas well and truly put me off
so i guess its you and me eve here
scl do feel for you here,and still holding out hopes for samename2 if that's what you want
sorry that sounds negative,and not meant to be at all iyswim
still everyone else's antics keeping me amused!
er nutty?is the toyboy the fb one you used to work with?
lou as always

Yup thats him lol.

I have just agred to share a bottle of wine with him, but don't panic, he will either not reply or reply but change subject lol.

nutty???

He has a gf.

what?
when did this come to light?
does he live with her?

Oh he slipped it into the conversation a few weeks ago and when I said he hadn't told me , he said I hadn't asked. He had defaintly had at least one oppurtunity to tell me though.

They don't live together no, and i think he said he'd not been seeing her long.

He still wanted em to go round anyway (or said he did) but I said no.

Anyway we hadn't 'spoken' for a bit and then he mesaged me yesterday so I am calling his bluff.

He won't actually arrange for me to go round for a drink though as we have been over this several times and he never actually gives me his addy or number or anything.

Oh hmm maybe not bluffing then ooops lol.

How much younger is he than you? tbh I wouldn't bother with him if he has a gf, not worth it. I always ask outright from the outset.

Nothing wrong with a bit of fb chat though.

this is all very weird
would you be interested tho?

He is 8 years younger.

He is a really nice bloke, and we got on really really well at work but not sure if anything else would work. If he didn't have a gf then i think going for a drink or whatever would be fine to just see how we got on.

Gonna ask if he does still have a gf.

lol has he given you his address then?

Lol no he still hasn't. I am still not sure he actually will.

are you still in touch via fb or mobiles?