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where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 6)

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sincitylover · 21/03/2009 12:20

thrilled to be kicking off part 6 on a sinful note lol

Blaming the vino for texting samename1 and asking him out - he text right back suggesting early this afternoon but don't think I can make it as am waiting for my brother who is coming down to help me swap washing machines and is always late bless him!

Then had a rather raunchy chat with young guy who have been in touch with for ages - trying to think of a nickname for him - very good looking - lives in your neck of the woods Lou. Think we might meet up soon.

At least resisted the urge to text exbf.

OP posts:
aseriouslyblondemoment · 07/04/2009 20:04

welcome back inthemist!
glad that you had a lovely time in Ireland it is truly lovely over there
don't know whereabouts you went to but i esp.like Kerry
blimey 4 cyber men lady!
do we have nicknames
or do we need to start thinking pronto

aseriouslyblondemoment · 07/04/2009 20:04

lou don't we all

lou33 · 07/04/2009 20:13

is anyone else bored this evening?

inthemistsoftime · 07/04/2009 20:19

we have marathon man aka slow burner
skipy the aussie
my new one is of POF shall call him the gardener, dont know if hes a goer for now, looks a bit like he likes himself to much!
and the old favourite, mr emotionally unavailable, ever since I told him that I was not interested in being a friend with benefits, he seems determined to stay in touch with me!

men I will never understand them

ridingjoker · 07/04/2009 20:19

i'm so bored i cleaned my fridge

glad you had good time inthemist.

i'm off in under a month.

Janos · 07/04/2009 20:21

4 cybermen inthemists? Wow!

I'm absolutely shattered this eve as DS is really playing up a lot. I think he is picking up on the situation between me and his Dad

exbf is still keen on getting back together and I'm getting many emails/texts etc.

rj picks the fabbest nicknames.

Oh yes, BB and Dr Who have disappeared off the horizon but that's fine as I don't have the energy for them right now.

Remotew · 07/04/2009 20:21

Yes me, I don't know what it is about Tuesdays but I've always found them depressing.

I've had 5 messages today on POF every time I look at a profile I think maybe this one might be worth a reply but nooooo. I'm getting seriously hacked off with it.

ASBM I haven't bothered following through the webcam guy. He lived too far away and didn't say hi to me on msn the other night.

lou33 · 07/04/2009 20:22

itm, whats the gardener called , i know one on there you need to keep well away from lol

lou33 · 07/04/2009 20:24

i dont bother with pof atm

Remotew · 07/04/2009 20:25

hmm cleaning the fridge there an idea!

inthemistsoftime · 07/04/2009 20:26

so rj have you planned out your complete wardrobe for the trip? God the suspense of it all must be killing you, it could go one of two ways?

Have you asked him what you can bring out to him, always a good question as it can reveal things about a person that you may not get to know!

When I live abroad I always asked for people to bring me porridge oats, I know I'm weird but I cant live without them.

Remotew · 07/04/2009 20:27

Proper bacon, vacumned packed, is a favourite to take abroad. Everyone had to take some out to my neice when she was in Dubai.

Tortoise · 07/04/2009 20:28

Hi. Haven't really posted on this thread yet!

I have been on single with kids dating for a few months now. Had a couple of messages/winks. Replied to one but he hasn't been online since! Winked at another, he too hasn't been online since.

All the others were either just not right for me or over 100 miles away!

Now today i got winked at so i had a look and thought mmm he looks ok. And not too far away. But then i look at his profile and under smoker it says light. That put me straight off!

Oh well, will keep looking lol!

inthemistsoftime · 07/04/2009 20:29

my profile is hidden on pof, just in case bob the builder contacts me.

however I was bored last week and picked a few good lookers to message not expecting to get a message back, but he replied, he is called Everybodys Gardener, is he the one you're talking about lou?

oh yeh, I have no intention of cleaning my fridge, even if I am bored!

Remotew · 07/04/2009 20:34

Hi Tortoise, if you are such an anti smoker then I guess its something you won't get past. Doesn't bother me as I smoke myself but even when and if I give up again a light smoker would be OK.

Fridge cleaned already. It was only the bottom drawer that needed it.

ridingjoker · 07/04/2009 20:37

i have to bring lots of pork. cant get it over there.in different forms. sausages, bacon and pork chops.

i've got my daytime wardrobe which consists of swimsuits and a maxi to throw over for in the air conditioning of house.

my 2 outfits for dinner are really turning out to be very difficult to find.

ordered some new fitflops to see me through most of the wkd.i'm addicted to them for hols.

i'm starting to get excited now.think it will go well.he's been saying yesterday he's looking forward to it alot.i think we will get on quite good.

Tortoise · 07/04/2009 20:38

Abouteve Am an ex smoker. Stopped 3 yrs ago. I could be tempted quite easily though i fear so best to avoid smokers!

ridingjoker · 07/04/2009 20:42

but i am a light smoker. and put non smoker on my profile as have easily given up for a non smoker in past.

Remotew · 07/04/2009 20:43

How exciting for you RJ. Just one thought for the evening, are you prone to mosquito bites? When I went to Egypt I took nice dresses but learnt after the first night to only wear trousers or had to wear DD's legging with a dress.

I'm allergic to bites and have been biten on my legs here in the beginning of April. One bite has blistered just like a mosquito bite. Haven't a clue what it was.

Sorry to put a dampner on things. I am

Remotew · 07/04/2009 20:45

I can understand the temptation. In fact most of my quits have been spoilt by going out with men that smoke. The adreneline rush, nerves etc just has me reaching for the cigs again.

If I give up again and really want to do it then I would avoid a man who smokes.

ridingjoker · 07/04/2009 20:50

well i'll have dress first night. and may possible make the 2nd evening trousers/crops incase that happens.

no dampner.nothing could spoil 2 blissfull days of peace when everyones working and i have the place to myself.

Original poster
sincitylover · 07/04/2009 20:56

I started smoking again (but not many) when I met up with exbf in mid 07,

Not much news here. Have date no 2 with samename2 this week, Am debating whether to invite him back but my instinct says should find out more about him first.

But I should have an empty house and that's a rarity. Shame to waste it.

OP posts:
lou33 · 07/04/2009 20:57

i will go check itm

lou33 · 07/04/2009 21:01

itm, relax it isnt him

inthemistsoftime · 07/04/2009 21:05

thanks lou, always good to check tho!

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