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where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 6)

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sincitylover · 21/03/2009 12:20

thrilled to be kicking off part 6 on a sinful note lol

Blaming the vino for texting samename1 and asking him out - he text right back suggesting early this afternoon but don't think I can make it as am waiting for my brother who is coming down to help me swap washing machines and is always late bless him!

Then had a rather raunchy chat with young guy who have been in touch with for ages - trying to think of a nickname for him - very good looking - lives in your neck of the woods Lou. Think we might meet up soon.

At least resisted the urge to text exbf.

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lou33 · 26/03/2009 19:34

i find it odd too

Remotew · 26/03/2009 19:36

Oh god I've no desire to message any of them just wondered what the point is. I don't have a fav list either.

Janos · 26/03/2009 19:38

I dunno whatthe point is. I suppose you could look at it and go ooh all these guys fancy me I must be hot stuff.

Thats about all I could think of!

lou33 · 26/03/2009 20:02

no i usually think

wtf are they adding me for?

or

they probably want to bookmark me in case they want to message me another time

never do i think its cos i am really hot (you havent seen the type of men who add me )

aseriouslyblondemoment · 26/03/2009 20:12

well who's going to be wearing the cyber men crown then?
inthemist how's it going with marathon man?
did you wink the other fella?
or are you winking lots tonite as your vino'd up

inthemistsoftime · 26/03/2009 20:22

me and marathon man are getting on well, the downside is that he works nights!

I just have to turn that to my advantage, as I am often available during the day time, watch this space!

am not very good at maintaining more than one at a time so the cyber crown is not mine! I nominate lou.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 26/03/2009 20:25

ooh fingers firmly crossed for you here
i don't think Lou wants it tbh
both RJ and I wore it
so i think poss.SV or Janos?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 26/03/2009 20:30

inthemist just mailed you another

sincitylover · 26/03/2009 21:02

evening all. Have been out for a drink with a guy from work - just good friends.

But have texted exbf a sort of goodbye text. He hasn't ss yet responded. Am sure I have done the right thing tho.

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lou33 · 26/03/2009 21:13

me ?
i havent had any dates why would i be wearing it?

Janos · 26/03/2009 21:14

Cyber man crown? He he.

Dunno about that.

Janos · 26/03/2009 21:15

No actual dates yet just some chat.

sincitylover · 26/03/2009 21:21

ok lou I need to get on msn later and tell you what I have said to exbf!

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lou33 · 26/03/2009 21:27

well done, do you think he will just think you are being melodramatic and dont mean it?

FeelingOld · 26/03/2009 21:27

Hi, I am new to this thread so hope its ok to join in.

I was 'persuaded' (bullied!!) by my mates to join POF last year. I was contacted by a few fellas on there but to be honest they seemed to be either weird or only after one thing but then I recieved a message from a fella who seemed very nice although he was a bit older than me. We chatted on msn for 3 or 4 weeks, then decided to meet up for a drink. Looks wise he wasnt particularly my type but his personality more than made up for it and to cut a long story short we are still seeing each other 8 months later!!!

So internet dating can work, it just might take time to weedle out the good ones from the bad.

Good luck to all of you who are 'fishing'.

lou33 · 26/03/2009 21:29

scl i am not about for long, i am not feeling v well today and all i am going to do is watch cold case and then get to bed, but i am online for a short time now

sincitylover · 26/03/2009 21:29

don't know - I will tell you what I said later.

It was not nasty but quite final imo.

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sincitylover · 26/03/2009 21:31

ok well ds1 is on laptop so don't know if I can get on. It will keep.

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lou33 · 26/03/2009 21:32

yes i agree it can work, it has for me (dated one for 9m), but it isnt a sure fire thing

as long as you dont base all your hopes and dreams on it, then it can be fun

Janos · 26/03/2009 21:35

Hiya FeelingOld

I was seeing a nice chap from POF for a few months. There are nice ones on there. Agree about the weedling.

Right I'm shattered so off to my pit. Night all.

lou33 · 26/03/2009 21:36

check if i am about when he is done and if i am at the pc i will reply

inthemistsoftime · 26/03/2009 21:37

asbm, be nice to animals, sounded absolutely lovely, and I succumbed and sent him a message.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 26/03/2009 21:48

SCL big hug for you,you're being very brave
Hi feelingold!you have arrived to inspire us all i hope
inthemist am i getting good at this?

FeelingOld · 26/03/2009 21:53

asbm, I am 44 so not exactly a spring chicken and I managed to find a lovely man so there is hope for everyone!!

kdk · 26/03/2009 21:57

Gah, I am jealous and want to know what I'm doing wrong - only interest I get is from weirdo munter dress-wearing types - who wants to tell me what I'm doing wrong before I give up and buy industrial strength vibrator and take up breeding dogs or something!

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