where have all the fit and interesting available men gone part 5!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

ok we're off!

oh god, i just got called "fit" and "hun" in one sentence from a bloke on pof

But Lou you are a fit hun.

hun doesn't really bother me. Better than babe?

i dont like either scl

ooh OOH i forgot to say!

my friend and her h had their first baby 8 weeks ago, and have decided to have a naming day for her rather than a christening, seeing as they are not religious

ANYWAY, he came to cut my grass today and she came along, and asked me if i would be the equivalent of her dd's godparent

i got a bit tearful

Oh Nice Lou, shows how well thought of you are.

i was v flattered

am dead chuffed

@Lou - hun is one of my pet hates too - that and luv - had one of those before "hows yur weekend luv" - felt like replying "Better before getting your depressing badly-spelt message, thank you" but just deleted it instead.

I know what you all mean about spontaneity and the all-dancing/singing/off to Barcelona for the weekend types - not exactly possible when you've got 4 year olds - suppose they could come with ...

I hate text speak, urgh.

nice one lou.

do you think meeting men is better the "normal" way? with all the strange men and the hassle, is the online way really worth it?

and i know its harder for us to get out and meet them the normal way. but still, just thinking i should leave it to chance and stop trying.

hahah @ normal way

let me just say that the last time i went out in the "normal way", i had to tell 4 tossers to disappear

every bloke seemed to be just out using the place as a meat market and had the social graces of neanderthal man

eww.Table Spider on frd
needs to be strung up and castrated with blunt knife that one

yeah lou i have that problem too sometimes, but at last you know theyre twats in 2 seconds. whereas ive spent 4 weeks talking to someone who doesnt think he is ready to meet women. why join a dating site then? thats 4 weeks of my time wasted.

lol at activity partner eve
do they ALL ski, too? every bloke I ever looked at, one pic drink in hand, one on the slopes like I'm SOOO much fun
saw nm this pm for walk his ds looks totally traumatised and I don't blame him, nm was acting like all normal, still cross couldn't even look at him I was so mad

hi all,

been very busy. was pof surfing again. talking to this guy who said he was a bit of a hot shot. and didn't have a great pic on his profile.

i contacted him btw ladies for all of you not doing it.

so then he sticks his webcam on so i could see what he looks like. and he was hot hot hot hot hot. and he is what he says he was as he was in his office and everyone was working round. turns web cam off again as at his work obviously. so no pervy webcam action.

seems to good to be true.

only couple of yr older than me, but mature headed, and seems genuine.

working overseas just now though. back in few weeks. so shall just be in contact with him via msn/text for a bit. oh and that true as he text me on his abroad number to tell me he was going on msn for free messeging.

he shall be called spiderman.

also talking to another. who we shall call cheeky. as looks very cheeky(not to be confused with asbm cheeky chops)

o we'll see what happens with these 2 victims candidates

have exchanged couple of text with policeman. not sure if it'll just fizzle out or will have to have a chat in future.

and for those who haven't sent messages to men.... go for it. i sent to about 6/7 guys today that i fancied or seemed interesting. some didn't reply. others were weird and didn't email back.

must admit though. pof is pretty busy in my area. with high turnover of new users every day

oh ninah that so horrible for nm ds

i contact htem if i feel like it

i dont consider it as time wasted if someone online turns into a dud, at least i havent had to put up with them pawing me without permission, or breathing beery fumes in my face with a sweaty leery face

am not sitting at the pc purely to find a man, am usually doing other things, so i havent put myself out iyswim

speaking of being called hun here's one I received earlier:

hia hun hope ya ok just come to say morning to ya tc tlk soon gee xxxxxx

wtf? I think I'm going back to selling the contents of my shed on ebay.

Evening RJ!
glad to see you're still hard at it
lordy cheeky chops!
still trying to think up suitable name for my poss.fella off frd

no way rj! you've been busy! spiderman lol at doing it for the girls
I will deffo let you pick my next virtual date if nm doesn't shape up soon, yes was really sad for his ds who I have a real soft spot for
although you might be like my sis and choosing them a bit tooo hot for my present charity shop/welly chic circumstances

thesp just said to me he will buy me lunch when he is back from scotland, to which i replied "if i havent been snapped up"

yeah, well i'n usually mn-ing, selling on ebay or doing research for this ou course i'm due to start. so i dont mind mailing someone. just fancied a wee rake around earlier when dc were at their dads and could face the housework. i usually search for one. and ogle the pics that come up in the mail box. that how i end up mailing others.

I've just been winked on frd and my profile is only 25% complete! Pity he only looks about 14 though

i would be safe to say i think spidey is better looking than me. but he asked me to send a larger picture of myself and he was really pleased. he's super tall again. 6ft 3. so we'll just see if we keep in contact till he's back.

i have dated all heights but i do quite like tall guys

tallest was 6ft 6

ex was 6'4, yes I like too