where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?Part 3...

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

Elm thought you'd like that

Good morning aseriouslyblondemoment. Health is good. Work took a nose dive (sounds like my "safe" job is now lost). I should be getting reasons in a letter...... after the weekend.

Looking for a positive in that - I will have plenty free time, if I am to be without a job soon, so plenty of me on MN then, lol. You just watch how quick this topic grows then....

The CW. We have never met and I just have an idea about what she looks like. I think it's fair to say that she is in good spirits and is happy, just the way she should be. I have managed to talk to her on MSN earlier, which I enjoyed and I am sure she enjoyed as well. The cheek that comes from her sometimes is comical and makes for good conversation. I have to confess that I do dish out cheeky comments sometimes, the conversation is cheekily light hearted.

ooh sounds nice tho far too young for me so you're safe
from what you say he sounds interested anyway
if he comes round and builds the tent then cook him dinner afterwards and take it from there
you can spend time together and talk and i think will get the right result

Welcome Pawslikepaddington, 6ft 5" is tall. One has to assume that you are tall as well.

Um, 5' 6". He seems to like me though, and I like men that give me a crick in the neck! Sorry to hear about your job N1, especially at the mo. V glad that Mr J is safe! Well, at least from us-from other students-not too sure .

am sorry to hear about the work situation that is a real blow for you
esp.as you seemed so positive a few days ago
still on a positive note
CW sounds nice anyway
and i like cheeky light hearted banter too as you've probably gathered
so spill then
what does she look like
do you go for a particular type?

No need to be sorry about my job. I have skills. I can work easily if I want to. Money would be a problem but if need be, I can call in a few favors. There is paid work on offer but the unusual hobby I do I do for free so I don't really want to start charging people....yet.

Mr J?
right will remember that name
i have 4 of the cyber fellas names to remember lol.

Slightly embarrassed cough-what does CW stand for? .

Talking about types of people might just expose me to being criticized. There is a wise saying applicable here...."a quiet mouth gathers no foot". Perhaps I might hint and say the opposite of a 30 stone person is my type. I will leave it at that.

I don't tend to mix with people I don't like so it goes without saying that CW sounds nice.

CW stands for cyber woman, aseriouslyblondemoment terminology.

Oooooooooooh! Had got:

Clever woman
Clear woman (? - I know)
Cranky woman
Crazy woman.

Didn't think of cyber woman tho!

Paws its cyber woman
oh N1 FFS!
we all give out rough indications of types on here myself included
and none of us would look at a 30 stoner
so shes obviously quite hot then?

Paws i like tall fellas too

Have never gone for one this tall though-better get some kind of fitness regime going/hit the fruit/cut out the chocs for a bit. Hmmmm ..... Been ages since I have even bothered to look at a man/put make up on, so makes a lovely change!

well thats all good then
and he sounds lovely esp. as he's child friendly too

ok... type. ( I feel a pick and shovel being placed into my hands here)...

Hair and eye color isn't to critical but they need watchful eyes, so I can watch out of interest (from time to time).

Hight isn't to much of an issue for me, though proportion plays a part. A size 10 standing 4 ft tall looks a bit plump. a size 6 standing 7 ft tall looks anorexic. I think it's fair to say that I gravitate to people who look similar to me, with a degree of flexibility allowing. I don't like sarcasm much. People who use it don't tend to get to talk to me for long.

People who re over jealous are a turn off. I like calm, mellow, relaxed people who are kind and thoughtful.... and have hints of cheek in them.

Finally (and this might be unique to me) The person (type) needs to be patient and allow me to play with their hair and sometimes skin. When I get into the mood of wanting to run my fingers through their hair or rub/brush their skin, then that's a need that wants to be satisfied and it's most unnatural to play with your own hair.

Does that help a bit?

well im finally cyber man'd out so bed for me
nite all

night night aseriouslyblondemoment. Sleep well.

oh lol
just saw that
cryptic as ever
hmm i give up nite!

and im sure i will thanks
have switched off phone so Blackberry not on my case

lol asbm - cant believe you have to switch off your phone due to blackberry man.

n1 - your type sounds quite realistic. i find if someone has a really great look, and facial features that are open, then hair colour and eye colour are irrelevant.

holly and lou - poor you lot getting kept up all night.

paws - i'm a huge fan of tall fella too.

diver text just after i logged off.that was him just getting fed at 10.30pm.after working since 6am. i think thats a pretty hard going job.very long days on empty stomach.cant eat until they're done or they get cramps.

just a couple of text to ask how my day was and say goodnight.

asbm - is blackberry man text just all crude? or is there plenty of thoughtful ones aswell??

Good morning Elmo, diver man sounds sexy, rough and rugged!
Happy Birthday to Lou's DS - hope he has a fun day!
My DD made sure not to fall asleep until I'd switched my laptop off! Still i have to get to bed at a decent time because I have to get up 5.30am for work.
I haven't got an ideal type looks wise, I'm 5ft 5 inches, so someone several inches taller is a minimum, I really don't go for fat guys, just a nice average build, someone you can have a decent conversation with, i.e. who has some personality and intelligence, someone to feel comfortable and relaxed with, calm like me!
Does such a man exist! let me know if you find him! lol

it's a wwe bonanza, and ds is in heaven

he got (from me of course) a wwe elimination chamber, a wwe monster truck, some thumb wrestling hoods and a thumb wrestling ring, a torch that doesnt need batteries (you shake it instead), a rey mysterio dress up outfit, couple of wrestlers

can you tell what he is into yet?

his father called him from thailand/rehab/wherever the hell he is and sent him a card (no gift or money tho)

my soon to be ex sil sent him 50 euros, my aunt sent him a fiver, he has more money than me!

and i finally have blinds up in my bathroom so am off for a bath without feeling chilly

holly, let me introduce you to my best friend, he needs a decent woman!

Well obviously you and DS are a mean match for anyone, with his wrestling skills and your way with words! lol

will bear your friend in mind, hoping fitman is a nice man! hoping he'll call me today.