where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?Part 3...

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

Elm thought you'd like that

hi bluejelly!
i am usually the same as RJ
tho did take while the other night to reply to theonewhogotaway as was so shocked/delighted/busy! and i needed to think it thru
i think men are by far the worst with mobile contact
its either too much or not enough
seldom right

asbm he has been a bit dirty yes which was fine by me and i responded a bit ;)

rj going to text back now

bj if youre keen its hard to ignore, and he is a quick replier too, thats a good sign!

SV does he contact you every day or erratically?

oh he has replied again before i could text back, ha! i wasnt genuinely ignoring him just wondering what to say but it made him text again lol

says "if you had a slot in your diary would you like me to pop down for an hour or two? ;)"

Thanks ladies

I guess I am just analysing my behaviour because i do actually really like him, whilst previously have been a more ambivalent ( and chilled!)

sv - thats ideal. he obviously realised his message was getting taken wrongly. quick reply . get it arranged.

sv that sounds v promising

asm - he is good and usually texts first every day. if i was super keen im sure id text him more.

oh hes keen alright
are you?
and is he keen for the right reasons?

sv - he's very keen if he's first to text everyday. keep in there. might be a keeper if he's willing to travel 1.5hr and texts first everyday. dont doubt it. if he wan't interested he would be doing neither of those things.

Blue sorry nearly said BJ {asbm sniggers childlessly}
how long you been seeing him?

have text back said I HAVE AN OPENING, shit now he will want sex. i sent that too quickly.

bj its nice you really like him

ROFL!!!!
oh SV what a cracking text...!

asbm - did i tell you divers dad seen one of the very slightly naughty texts i sent him...they have same phone.and when message came thru his dad thought it was his phone. he read it. had a heart attack. showed his wife(divers mum) and they all had a barny before diver came thru and realised it was his phone

no point pretending i'm an angel if i ever meet them

im not as keen as him i dont think! i like him but not head over heels.

sorry about the BJ going to call you blue from now on oops ;)

sv - fantastic reply. inuendo's are what we like.

Only been dating about 3 weeks so early days

Yes I didn't think of the BJ thing when I chose my name, now can't be bothered to change

SV:I think 'opening' is fine, he won't presume anything

asbm - he last txt me wed morning - I replied but he didn't reply back.

I do like him but I also know with me it's alot to do with ego and pride. At least I recognise it.

What I mean is I can be quite fickle too

RJ oh lordy thats funny
how weird is that sharing the same mobile no as your dad?!
{asbm goes pale}

not the SAME mobile. the have the same model

SCL - i hadn't heard from marvelman since tues. and he finished texting without a goodbye. only heard from him today as i'd text. otherwise i dont think i would have heard from him till before our actual date on friday.

i think you may also be giving samename2 the impression your not that keen as not commiting to next date as your unsure when you will be free.

i may be wrong. but i thought that was the case with your next date?

oh rj how funny!! is diver the long distance dude?

yes. diver is ldr.

marvelman stays round corner. sort of bumped into him at bar on sat not like me at all.

Blue what is he like at keeping in touch?
and btw what site did you meet him off?
SCL i know its a hard one to call
if you like you could send out a friendly 'hi etc' over week-end

He emails a couple of times a day, pretty regular at the mo. But I still get twitchy in the meantime!

Met via the Guardian website.