where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?Part 3...

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

Elm thought you'd like that

oh you little minx you
have you heard from him since?

SCL is exbf seeing anyone else besides you that you know of?
and out of interest have you both ever had the talk?

inthemist - guess you went for the gut instinct reaction rather then the 3 date rule!

SCL - I soemtimes feel I could write a story about my life. Understand how you feel about life, I have always had the feeling of not feeling quite content, and even though people loved my last house, it never truly felt like home IYKWIM. What I crave is stability and wanting to feel settled as much for my DCs as myself. Maybe I felt unsettled because of issues between me and X - who knows!
Have u arranged the next date with Samename2?

another thought SCL
who initiates the contact you or exbf?

no not since this morning but he's on a course today. That's fine I feel at ease with that.

Re exbf we do talk of course but we are really friends with benefits IYKWIM. That has been defined at the beg. I do know he feels alot for me tho and me for him. Not sure he is up for full committment (esp DCs) and nor do I know if I want it either. Confused you will be!! LOL

SCL im not confused just a touch intrigued tbh
there is obviously something there which bonds you both
i just wonder how you manage when you feel the need for contact when you havent heard from him
do you text him or wait for him to come back to you?

SCL - great news about samename2 - and you minx on the first date

suppose it depends on how comfortable you are with the person is you find yourself able to go further.

and of course if you meet in the daytime or nightime

as for exbf - can i ask why you continue to have "benefits" with him if it's never going to go anywhere.?? if he's not sure about commiting to a relationship due to your dc. surely he doesn't even deserve the chance?? and your energy would be better spent elsewhere??

i'm just intriged as to what keeps you going in that direction...

RJ i think its inthemist who is the foxxy minx

usually wait for him to get in touch tho sometimes I give him a bit of a nudge !!

oh i'm so flaming confused skimming through to catch up now that we're on so many dates these days

SCL obviously once you do he keeps up the convo etc?
RJ keep up lol
and yes we're all out on dates it seems
lucky us lot

asbm - have i missed something??you organised a date too now?

asbm - sent you an email!

yes he's an avid texter.

excellent!! he's obviously keen

RJ hmmm well..
and Holly have replied lol.

well...what? have you or haven't you got a date?

possibly it just needs tbc

fantastic. this really is a lucky thread.

i'm hoping so

all quiet i see
has anyone else seen those two funny threads on relationships re:dating
i loved Lous post
and saw SCL's too
if you havent looked then do!

I'm loving the one about the man with dragon posters. In fact I'm loving it so much I feel like going back on match just to have some funny stories

hi ninah
i ROFL when i read it
there are two other dating threads on there too from the same MN-er
both are funny
you must take a look

Ah found you. Erm, hello?

my arse lol.
come on then want to hear all your internet dating experiences
promise we don't bite