Hi RJ
Well I seem to be a bit of an imposter. Split with H of 15 years last year - turned out to be a fuckwit to my great sadness . Just recently, encouraged by my sister, and going through an "angry phase" in the aftermath of the split, I registered on a few sites, spent a few nights speaking to a few different men I "met" on said sites (are we naming names of sites?) and generally having a bit of fun. (Re-downloaded MSN which I hadn't had for years because H used to use it as a fuckwit tool...)
Then I got really freaked out by whole thing (I came down with the kids' stomach bug and whilst ill thought "Oh what a fickle crock of shit all that is.." and deleted everything..)
I even had one of them (the "adventurous" one as mentioned) on my Facebook - don't know why I did that.. only real friends on there!.. but deleted him quick smart. He was a bit odd actually.. claimed to be searching for the love of his life and altho I had a laugh chatting to him for 3 hours (!) when I look back on it, it was actually like some weird interview wit strange secual revelations thrown in! He said he didn't do cheap sex but with hindsight I reckon that was exactly what he might have been up to.. and does frequently with the old "searching for the love of my life.." line.. hmmm. Ring any bells to anyone? He is a train driver.. allegedly..
So bit boring really. Mainly I'm lonely, disillusioned and, er, horny.
Will read thread properly now (have scanned) and see what I can learn from you all!