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where have all the fit and interesting available men gone pt.2

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 11/02/2009 19:58

Elmo he sounds as tho he could be quite civilised
are you going to say yes?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/02/2009 16:06

not too sure on POF as don't go on there unless its too snigger with niceguy2!
on FRD there's a tick box
however,if you look on your settings you can tick a box which makes you invisible when you're online
i think that's pretty pointless tbh as obviously it's a site where you are presumably looking for a date?
the guy who's been messaging me has set this up on his account by the looks of it
uh oh ASBM's alarm bells a-ringin!

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elmoandella · 13/02/2009 16:22

hi all. my internet playing up. any1 got any dates set up yet?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/02/2009 16:27

ok ok
no need to be smug Elmo lol!
i am receiving messages from a local-ish guy who wants to chat so thats a poss
boring is still trying
and who knows what tonite will bring!

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elmoandella · 13/02/2009 16:29

no it's just i skimmed through pages i've missed. there's lot of chatting with prospective dates. just wondering if anyone found a possible valentines....

ninah · 13/02/2009 16:29

I like elmo's diver more each day do hope he lives up to expectation

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/02/2009 16:30

nah!
not me!
unless you count a nite in with my best mate mr chardonnay lol!

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elmoandella · 13/02/2009 16:31

me too.discovered he has motorbike too. not that i'd go on it.but i like the thought of it.

he'll probably be ugly as sin and nothing like his photo and stink of fish

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/02/2009 16:32

hi ninah!
hows loved up you
bet you're hear to tell us about your plans for tomorrow nite
yeah i reckon diver will be a good un

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/02/2009 16:33

i think that sounds quite exciting
hot bloke i dated had one
sadly that was another failed affair

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ninah · 13/02/2009 16:37

Yes still loved up, despite the odd moment of doubt and panic and yes have date tomorrow. Wish this thread had been here earlier on as it would have been great to compare notes
He sounds like quite a man's man elmo. Sounds attractive and funny actually. Did you give up with the banker in the end?

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/02/2009 16:43

oh enjoy!
and you can still come on here and keep us all posted
you are our role model ninah

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elmoandella · 13/02/2009 16:45

still msn the banker. but neither of us has broached the subject of meeting again. i'm put off him by the failed meetings. get the feeling he's also waiting till valentines wkd over before he tries to arrange something. think i may knock him back if the diver is a good catch.

as i've said before i couldn't be dating 2 men at once. will continue to talk to banker till i see whats happening with diver though.

banker could be a little......spoilt or perhaps selfish is right word, i think if i got to know him.i could be wrong.but i get that vibe.

and thats not an attractive quality,

ninah · 13/02/2009 16:48

ah thanks! I certainly want to keep my membership of the fit interesting and available club, despite my recent foray into dull and attached
He's very nice, totally the opposite of my ex which can be disconcerting - I know I'm lucky to have met him without having to kiss the internet toads - have done my time with enough rl toads
and I love the toad stories ...
rhino pmsl

elmoandella · 13/02/2009 16:56

ninah - you are the beacon of hope their is good to come

ninah · 13/02/2009 17:03

ah thanks! touch wood it may continue although I know NOW if it doesn't it's not the end of the world - one BIG difference between how I felt with my ex when I thought I needed him to be a family with us - knowing you can have a happy life and also support dc by yourself puts any relationship in perspective, doesn't it? makes it a choice something to enhance your life maybe certainly not something you need

elmoandella · 13/02/2009 17:20

diver emailed to say he's left address and name of meeting place for sunday at his friends he was at last night.

i have sent him an email with only one word

... plonker

followed by address. think i was maybe having a mischievious day

lou33 · 13/02/2009 18:57

ooh young man who is away just told me he is now back on 16th not 18th and coming to see me on 17th

which is a nice end to my day, which has been bloody hideous

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/02/2009 19:17

ooh Lou how exciting
did you manage ok with your sofa delivery and removal?
Elmo think you let him off lightly i would have said worse tbh!
ninah oh pmsl had forgotten about that specimen from the internet world
RHINO!
which site was this beastie on again?

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lou33 · 13/02/2009 19:31

omg asbm no, see here

lou33 · 13/02/2009 19:31

but yes am pleased he is back early and coming to see me asap

HOLLY23 · 13/02/2009 19:33

Hi guys, seems very quite on this thread tonight?
Lou - did your sofa arrive?

elmoandella · 13/02/2009 19:33

luo - thats good re away man.

asbm - he has now text to say he's got a night out on sat and he MIGHT make sunday..... perhaps another toad which wont be getting kissed.

lou33 · 13/02/2009 19:34

see my link below and post sympathy!

HOLLY23 · 13/02/2009 19:36

sorry Lou, just read your thread re: sofa. Poor you, pour yourself another glass of wine!
Actually I feel like a drink _ i'm going to have a bicardi & coke!

aseriouslyblondemoment · 13/02/2009 19:48

OMG thats terrible
but thats ikea
no wonder you starting the drink early tonite
Elmo aaaagh blaardy men!
have just been on FRD have been messaged by man from hmm Holly's neck of the woods
Wheeler.Dealer to be precise
nice lengthy message
and cheeky chops on there too now lol!

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