where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

its just a thought which has been pondered upon by a few of us on here
as Lou 33 said if she knew the answer then she wouldn't be on MN

oh that doesn't sound positive SCL
but at least you know!
so any more updates?
N1 know the wine and dvd combination well
still havent seen POTC Worlds End thru to its finish
it has become something of a joke in my household
and yes i can imagine that as a man being taller helps

I havn't seen any of POTC Worlds End (never heard of it). I don't watch TV, my son does. I rarely watch DVD's because I usually want someone with me to watch a DVD. If that someone isn't a man and if I can, snuggle up close to watch the DVD is my prefered choice.

gosh. Let me jump to add that I am not hinting here.

no i was just quiet because i was busy with kids , dinner, laundry etc!

Its Pirates of the Caribbean!
was that a hint for me N1?
Lou and the rest
oh and scary update time
asbm has another oldie on her case
and this one is seriously wrong
62 and MARRIED
i normally instantly block but sent a stern message

lol @ 62!

honestly, this guy has been sending me v polite friendly messages but hen he asked me out and i just said, hmmm no

i dont know whats wrong with myself

oh no its so not funny
its downright wrong
i mean there are specific sites for his needs
and hmm am getting seriously concerned about you
what's going on?
do i need to give you a good talking to?
and my mojo is working just fine btw

thou its likely to fail if i get any more
filthy OAP's

mine is still working but if samename2 doesn't come good I think I am going to give up for a while till the Spring, warmer weather.

Nothing nice about walking in the rain last night. I also gave him a lift in my little car to his car and I said (almost hysterically by then) are you sure you can fit in - did add that my brother who is 5 10 also had probs. Then couldn't get the car in reverse gear - am so unused to having an adult of any kind in the front seat. LOL

Last night only served to highlight what a good 'fit' me and exbf were imo. Sorry to keeping banging on about him. I am even boring myself with it.

have agreed to see the italian chef next week for lunch, i have cancelled him twice, and for some reason he still wants to meet up

this is not the one i was talking about earlier btw, but someone else i was meant to meet and havent

am sure it's still there lou!! (your mojo that is)

I am in a very weird mood today,at work, but playing 60s music (Love Affair type of thing) plus syrupy sentimental ballads. have no idea why. Feel nostalgic for way back when (prob pre man issues)ie up to age abt 13!!

Am meeting up with someone from Friendsreunited dating this weekend, I will be dipping my toe into the water for the first time.

By nature, I am a bit naive and too generous with my time, any advice to help me toughen up?

inthemist
please can i ask a personal question
could you kindly tell me the age of this man
and which county he lives in?
i am just worried in case hes my exbf
if it is him am warning you now
RUN!!!

inthemist
am not nosey am serious
i feel that it is my moral duty not just to a fellow MN-er but to all women
Im also on FRD btw

My horrible shoe man was from FRD

I have given up with men

He's 43, am not sure about him but reakon meeting on Sat at lunch time can't do much harm!

But watch this space.

what is it about catering staff and me eh?

Am going for platonic drink with catering manager here next week, and guy in snack bar just stopped me in corridor asking why I haven't been to see him please would I go and see him each morning. Yeah right!!

Maybe its the voluptous figure (well it aint the height) - looks like I am well fed.

Well I have paid for 6 months to FRD, but if I have the same experiences as some of you on here I'll give up.

By the way most of my admirers (if you can call them that) are OAP's as well!

inthemist
phew isnt him
i would have had to tell you
hes a bastard and deserves to come with a warning attached to him
was desperate to see what you said
sorry everybody else will look at all these postings in a mo!

I have a friend who I see now and then and would be happy to be a bit more than a s* buddy but he is emotionally unavailable.

God why is it so hard to find someone who I can connect with on an emotional level and not just sexually?

By the it's wine o' clock chez moi.

Cheers

By the way!

PS MAMAZON has some great tips on how to keep a man in the relationship topics!!!

are they all like bloody buses or something?

now the one i was dithering about, then sent him away cos he and i didnt seem to want the same thing, has got in touch from his holiday in south africa and told me he misses me

bloody hell i dont know whats wrong with me, someone slap me

wow amazing lou33, he has contacted you, and of his own volition? you don't need a slap, you need congratulations.