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where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 20:02

its just a thought which has been pondered upon by a few of us on here
as Lou 33 said if she knew the answer then she wouldn't be on MN

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lou33 · 04/02/2009 23:44

young man who is away told me he will bring ds2 a gift back for his birthday

so i guess he is planning on seeing me again

i still dont know what i feel , we definitely need to speak properly

elmoandella · 05/02/2009 08:01

so excited for both of you .yippee

lou33 · 05/02/2009 09:12

lol i am just going to wait and see, not expect anything

people say a lot of things but they dont usually follow through

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/02/2009 12:20

yes Lou know what you mean
i guess you'll need to chat when he returns from his travels
and i love the way you refer to him as a'young man' reminds me of Harry Enfield
what's the situation with your ch today have you got a plumber coming out to fix it?
cheeky chops(love that name Elmo!)hasn't been in touch since last nite
he lives about 20 miles from me so think we might be meeting half way he said that he would have think
my RL friends are worried and have had the internet stranger talk...again!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/02/2009 13:08

oh dear!
Barry White wannabe has sent me a wink
good job i've a SOH and a good one at that
its a prerequisite with this dating malarkey!

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elmoandella · 05/02/2009 15:42

SOH???

i've got an interview with HMRC next week. just waiting on seeing when my sister free to babysit as you book online from a list of time slots.

i've also managed to squeee in a gym visit this afternoon which felt fab. but think i may regret it at my date(if he shows) tomorrow when i'm walking like a cowboy!!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/02/2009 15:59

Sense of humour lol
lets face it we need it
thats fab news will keep fingers x that job sounds ideal
im getting doubts from you here?
has he said anything to make you think he'll be a no show?
and the john wayne walk?most attractive lol!
have you been in touch today?

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elmoandella · 05/02/2009 18:06

i've not been online today on msn. been set to "busy" since i came home as my sister was here. he's online. i've just changed to "available" so we'll see if he's coming to talk. i've got bath and bed time routine still to do.

re job. i got offered before and couldn't commit to the 3 weeks training as exdp didn't want me working so i withrew my application. not sure how they'll look on that.pretty sure negatively.

he's assured he'll show. but will have to see.

lou33 · 05/02/2009 19:07

i am kathy burke

young man was on msn saying he has a surprise for me when he gets back , and i wont have to do a thing

how fucking exciting!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/02/2009 19:37

way hey Lou
sounds good if he's the type to put a lady's needs first am all for that
Elmo still fingers X
and er hem
who has a date tomorrow then?!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/02/2009 19:38

so girl what you wearing?

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elmoandella · 05/02/2009 19:39

harry enfield is one of my favourite comedy sketches

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/02/2009 19:48

so?
are you a preening for tomorrow then?

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elmoandella · 05/02/2009 20:35

no. he's just cancelled. still msn-ing. he's apologising profusely and trying to get me to arrange another time.he's taken monday off instead. but obviously i have my job interview then.

i may go in a huff shortly or just give up on him all together.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/02/2009 21:05

why has he cancelled(sorry told you i was horribly nosey)
thought he had tomorrow off?

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elmoandella · 05/02/2009 21:09

he said because interest rates changed today he's got a mass of complaints he's had to deal with today and got a meeting at edinburgh from 11-4pm about it.

lou33 · 05/02/2009 21:11

seriously, i really can see me turning into kathy burke in that sketch

he is not a selfish person shall we say , but he wont give me a clue as to what this is all about, and he isnt back for a couple of weeks dammit

elmoandella · 05/02/2009 21:12

thats a pain lou. specially without a clue???

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/02/2009 21:20

well ladies if it helps have not heard from the cheeky chops yet but am cool!
obviouslysome adults out there aren't incarcerated in their homes nearly every sodding nite
elmo have not seen news maybe its true?
are you getting bad vibes here?
Lou all good things etc etc....
..shut asbm yes i know!

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lou33 · 05/02/2009 21:23

i know i know, i will have to try and trick it out of him somehow

elmoandella · 05/02/2009 21:24

not bad vibes at all. just a bit wary of all men. checked it out. and hbos did a press release today that ties in with what he said.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/02/2009 21:26

that was 'shut up asbm!' btw
christ!am only trying to be helpful

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/02/2009 21:29

er hem!
of ye of little faith and all that crap!
have you managed to sort out another time?

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elmoandella · 05/02/2009 21:33

nope. been trying for ages. honestly. our schedules are ridiculous for this weekend. and we've got as far as tues. now working our way past wed. lol. but he's disappeared to do some random thing with dogs. thinking of just going to bed and not replying to him anymore tonight as i'm getting a bit tired and he could be out there running about with dogs for a good 20 mins

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/02/2009 21:44

yeah can see your point there
cheeky chops just text
going on msn now

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