where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

its just a thought which has been pondered upon by a few of us on here
as Lou 33 said if she knew the answer then she wouldn't be on MN

i prefer to talk to them before we meet

oh help i'm trying to avoid naught talk with banker. but ben msn-ing since the afternoon . but every answer i have to his questions seems to come out as an unintended double pun.

help. whats the verdict on dirty msn?? is it acceptable? or bad impression?

OMG he just signed into msn
have quickly changed my status to busy
read message
he wonders when we're meeting for a drink!

elmo
depends

how long have you been speaking to the banker and have you already met before?

LOL Lou
you won't get response from Elmo now
far too busy getting dirty on MSN

all in the name of good fun.....

if you havent met and developed some kind of rl relationship and you are getting dirty online, the chances are all he wants is a hit and run or to be brought off by e-wanking

imo

e-wanking, lol. my gosh. If someone has to stoop to that to get something sexual, that's so not a good thing.

i will bet you good money that most men (not all but most)on dating sites wouldnt say no

most of them are opportunists

wouldn't say "no" to what? e-wanking or dirty MSN?

oh goodness me ive missed something here!
and N1 Lou knows what she's talking about
some of her stories...

I am not sure if I should be asking for details or if this is a time to just nod and agree.

i dont know you tell me!
some of Lou's stories are hilarious it has to be said

I do like a good laugh. Is it better to meet somewhere as a group and have a good laugh or is the laugh better on MSN?

a group?!
laughter is best shared obviously in RL
but laughter is good for you regardless.end of IMO

Point taken and I agree, just have to work out the detail to getting that good laugh.

I am off to bed now. Sleep well.

not e wanking. just a bit of dirty talk.not reeeally filthy hard core kind of stuff. just a little bit naught with leaving dot..dot..dot for filling in the blank

banker started it
i tried to resist. but he obviously thought it a challenge to get me join in (not any e-wanking you dirty pups).i tried to pretend i was a "lady" and wouldn't partake in crude behaviour.....
....his didn't believe me.

it was more a good laugh of both trying not to write anything dirty while the other kept posting innuendo.

so i've decided as long as you dont take it too far it's allowed. dont think i'd go any further than i did. i feel that would be degrading and lower his opinion of me.

so who's snowed in?? i'm off to check the main rd later to go to my friends. if its alright i might get snow shovel out and dig us out the drive

I am not snowed in. There is still 4 inches of snow everywhere (which I have to drive through).

Thanks for the update. Good to know that you maintained a better than degrading standard.

oh and i believe laughter is nice on your own. but much better in company to join in and share the memories

n1 - are you being cheeky? did i give tmi??

i managed to dig my car out of the snow and get to sainsburys and back, but it wasnt keen on getting back in my drive

there was a lot of revving and encouragement needed

and a bit of my wiper has fallen off

arn't they all gay?

gay men are not fit and interesting to me. i dont find camp qualities attractive in a man

snow melting here
thou dcs school closed still
that chat sounded interesting Elmo!
you'll be whipping this man up into a right old frenzy
wonder what he'll be like when you meet?
managed to avoid man with pic as changed my msn status when i saw him sign in
he has left me a message on the site asking when we are meeting for drink!
other man got me on instant messenger sadly
he's just got his decree nisi
so wanted to share the good news
was going to use the excuse that he wasnt divorced as my get out clause
will have to rethink now!
god i'm rubbish at letting men down