where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

its just a thought which has been pondered upon by a few of us on here
as Lou 33 said if she knew the answer then she wouldn't be on MN

so i went to buy a new top for tomorrow as i got a voucher for next i had to use up........and i bought 6

i have a house warming this wkd which will be lots of single males.

however i will probably not be confident enough to make an impact on any of them

evening, do i have a lot to catch up on?

n1 - i supose i do decide before i go to meet whether or not i'm going to have any action.

evening Lou
hope you had a good day
yes get looking girl!

i braved ikea and lived!

no impulse buying at the checkout?

I braved going out to the park and god freezing cold and lived.

Is the house warming party on a Saturday or Sunday?

Lou. To keep things clear. There is nothing going on (or planned meets (yet) going on between me and anyone).

got freezing cold

that someone being me obviously!

lovely male friend has loaned me money to get a sofa, which is coming on friday, and a rug, which i brought home with me

i picked up a new knife a potty (i need to get a stool sample from ds2, so hence that) and a can opener

am debating curtain colours now, have started a thread in chat

will look in a bit when i have finished doing my mummy things

thanks, noone is replying

I am no good at one night stands.
I tend to want to talk and get to know the person for quiet a while. Given the conflict of intension and the highly probable point that you can't get to (meaningfully) know someone and have sex at the same time, I am no good at one night stands.

As it stands, having meaningful sex with someone you don't know isn't my "cup of tea".

By aseriouslyblondemoment on Sun 01-Feb-09 19:13:54
that someone being me obviously!

Yes.

thats precisely why MSN is so useful i find
i dont want to spend time with somebody i dont already know and can relate to

does sex have to be meaningful?

To me it does, otherwise I loose interest and find myself wanting to watch TV rather than have sex.

sometimes people just want sex for the sake of sex

have done both
definately better when theres something deeper between you

house warming is on saturday. looking forward to it. why ??

just checking in as online on msn. waiting to see if banker comes back online to arrange our meeting for tomorrow.

ikea is very good at the impulse buy thing

oh Christ
that overlykeen bloke keeps on popping up on my MSN
every time i look he's lurking
am surprised that he still wants to chat to me as we have so little in common
he's already slated my taste in music
am confused?
is he expecting it all to miraculously fall into place if i agree to meet him?

I can't imagine having meaningless sex. To me the sex (from me) has a value and I want the value given to someone who enjoys it's value. Meaningless sex is also valueless. Perhaps that's why I am no good at one night stands.

n1 - have you never had a relationship thats great in the sex since but pants in other aspect? then your having sex for the sake of enjoying it?which is meaningless in a way. but very fullfilling if your not looking for any other relationship needs to be met?

sense not since

elmo is he about yet?
hope you're not being stalked like i appear to be
there's interested and plain creepy IMO
thank goodness i haven't chatted to him with webcam on!