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where have all the fit and interesting available men gone?

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 27/01/2009 20:02

its just a thought which has been pondered upon by a few of us on here
as Lou 33 said if she knew the answer then she wouldn't be on MN

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 22:31

there you go N1 ticking the right boxes again lol!

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elmoandella · 31/01/2009 22:32

got some weird foreign dude trying to do that connect thing. and he's a midget compared to me. 7 times i rejected before i just logged out of POF which i didn't realise i was still logged into.

why do they try again and again and again??

i like the castles lego

N1 · 31/01/2009 22:35

I have not done any castles lego...yet.

I am not trying to tick any boxes intentionally.

I think I am on POF somewhere. I will have to scout my emails and see if I am, and then see what mane I used.

elmoandella · 31/01/2009 22:37

the castle ones are fab. the mens tools are great. we have mini sword fights in my house. and die a terrible noisy death.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 22:38

oh lordy have had that prob with FRD!
i think ive logged out but actually i'm still er logged in
bet i must look a right sad case!
i am finding it hard to block tho which is a worry
as i get a fair bit of crap
and lego?i think the starwars stuff is great but very expensive

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lou33 · 31/01/2009 22:39

i know a male hairdresser, and everyone thinks he is gay, but he so isnt, him and another friend jointly own a salon together and he is a total sex pest, always grabbing my arse and offering to take me out back

i know full well if i called his bluff he would shit himself, but he is definitely not gay

aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 22:40

i know that you're not N1!
i'm not on POF

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N1 · 31/01/2009 22:43

I have not tried any starwars lego....yet either. When money is tight and my son gets to see me for 4 nights a month, I am better off paying the bills.

I was reading a court bundle a few weeks ago. The mother has a younger child who has a star wars "life slayer". He was attacking me, so I was dieing the loud death, much to the amusement of the child (and mother). All in the name of good fun.

elmoandella · 31/01/2009 22:44

yeah when you close the window on POF it doesn't log you out. you either have to log out/close down or it times out i think. but everytime you get a message or IM it restarts the timer i think.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 22:44

hi Lou!
why dont you

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elmoandella · 31/01/2009 22:45

N1

loud noisy hand flailing death is the best way to go.

N1 · 31/01/2009 22:45

I am not N1 on POF. N1 is a new profile for me.

Remotew · 31/01/2009 22:47

Not all male hairdressers are gay. The ones who aren't tend to be gorgeous.

lou33 · 31/01/2009 22:47

lol oh plenty of times i have said ok then get out back fella, and he laughs nervously and changes the subject
i dont fancy him, but i like to make him sweat sometimes when he messes about

Remotew · 31/01/2009 22:50

Going back to the question where have all the fit etc etc.

Chatted to a friend today and she had a date off Dating Direct. He looked lovely on his profile and the date went great, she is seeing him again.

Must check my bank balance to see if I can afford to go on a pay site.

elmoandella · 31/01/2009 22:52

i wouldn't use a paying site.

lou33 · 31/01/2009 22:52

no they arent all gay, but people assume they are

elmoandella · 31/01/2009 22:52

gives me the heeeby jeebies.lol right i'm off. night ladies.(and N1 of course)

aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 22:53

yes eve you better!
if i can dig deep then so can you
we owe it to ourselves!

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N1 · 31/01/2009 22:55

I don't want any assumption that I consider adverse. Gay is one of the assumptions I want to avoid.

I wouldn't use a paying dating site either. I can see the logic that people paying are less likely to get time wasters, but tI don't pay out of principal.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 22:55

night elmo!
and keep us up to speed with hottie news!

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Remotew · 31/01/2009 22:55

Night Elmo. I would be interested to know why you wouldn't use a pay site.

Too serious about it all, maybe? Not sure it's for me either.

lou33 · 31/01/2009 22:56

i dont pay cos i am skint and cant afford it

aseriouslyblondemoment · 31/01/2009 22:57

might be tempted to go on POF now
what's your name on there
as i'm obviously not going to get your MSN!!

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elmoandella · 31/01/2009 22:58

1)waste of money
2) feels like paying for sex. i know it's not. but thats what it brings to mind
3)too many nude/advertising i hear

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