Just wondering - How many LP's with 3 or more kids have found a new man ??

[CrackerOfNuts]

Just curious.

I know 1 person with 3 kids who found a new bloke pretty much without even trying, but thats it, don't know anymore.

CC, it happens.
I really thought it was a nonplus, but I was in love, we tried to hide it.
I'm still in love and DD(7) has asked us if she can change her name, for now we've said no, but OMG, it really made me smile.

how lovely vs

buggered that up but

CC, IT'S JUST A TIME AND PLACE.
WE ALL DESERVE IT.
shit caps, but I still mean it.

polietly waits in queue... well done you

Awwww

CC, not really important, but my DP's cousin hadn't spoke to their family in two years.
Big deicide.
Met them sunday, she was in hospital through a proper kicking, locked in rooms and stuff
You know what, she kept it quiet through embarrassment.
If MN can even slightly combat that I'll tell everyone my shit every day.

youve gave us all hope

nutty - i'm not far from you. please let me take you out and cheer you up. you seem a bit down

you do not need to have a one night stand sex only thing. many people don't like the idea of that. i think you need to go on a few dates, realise that men do in fact enjoy your company and want to spend time with you, have a laugh, enjoy yourself and see what happens. it might come to nothing, but after each date you might both decide you want to see eachother again and again and again and again and before you know it you both might want a relationship. no one knows from the off if it's going to end up being serious or not. you need to spend some no pressure time with one another first to discover if you'd actually want it to get serious. i think that's what people are meaning by you needing to have a fling. not necessarily a one night stand but to go on a date for fun and see where natural progression takes you.

yep nappy that is right

oooh i do like being told i am right

CC, my relationship was 6 years, I have scars and all sorts, he has been is nick cos of me.

Anyone I know, mail me, anyone I don't but wants a bit of reassurance fan-fkn-tastic @hotmail .co.uk

I'd love to talk to anyone that needs me.

xxxxx

she wouldnt go out with me

oooh VS - do tell! how did he put himself in nick cos of you?

zippi are you near too then?

not as near as you i think

but you are nearer in age

i am only seeing bf because we just went from date to date we dont have any plan just drifting along

but we have drifted along since october which is starting to seem like some kind of relationship

My ex, was with at your age NA, he beat me, and I ignored his coke habit cos he was alwsy out, sounds mad but if he was out didnt affect the DC's.

Eventually I caught him, cock in some hoes mouth, ended it, got a good few beatings, but finally people stood up for me.

Met DP ONLINE fell in love

Can't wait to get married

oh so you called the police cos he beat you how horrible. i'm glad you met your new dp though. what site was it on? better get over there fast! are people shocked when you say you met online?

Sounds ridiculous, I had 2Dc's with a guy(he was 23) we are now still in love nearly 3 years later.

well ive already had my chance and buggered it up BIG style..
Met my (ex) dh when dd was 2, he was/is drop dead gorgeous and so caring, he took her on as his own.
but i let it all go (i thought the grass was greener, kept fighting with him)and now he has had a baby with someone else and i just want to die.

VS very happy for you!

AGBU you should stop being so hard on yourself, you were fighting with him meant there were problems in your relationship, whether you finished with him or he finished with you you were meant to seperate, and the fact that he jumped straight into another relationship so quick proves that you weren't meant to be, would it have been easier if he had finished with you ?

mybrainaches that guy looks nice, hope he replies to you, good luck

yes it would have been easier if he finished with me, then i could stop hating myself.
He says he jumped into another relationship cos he was lonely and he felt rejected.

VS lovely attitude, and I agree. Tell anyone anything if it will help.

Oh and re the moving in thing, my dp and I are going to tour Britain in a caravan when the kids have left home. So they can't catch us and make us wash their clothes! Until then, we are happy living apart. Anyone who doesn't believe you when you say that you are happy with things the way they are, and you don't want them to move in, is not worth wasting your time with anyway. Fancy not believing what you say. Insulting.