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Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 30)

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lilacisinlove · 27/02/2011 22:21

Yay! I did it again!

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elastamum · 10/03/2011 09:19

Fingers crossed for you aurora. Smile

aurorastargazer · 10/03/2011 09:55

thank you elasta Smile i can't cry anyway because my liquid eyeliner is not waterproof Grin

elastamum · 10/03/2011 10:50

Well i have had some interesting news today. Have just got some blood test results from the docs and I am officially post menopausal Confused at 47!!

Well thats that out of the way - do I still qualify to be on this thread??

aurorastargazer · 10/03/2011 12:33

Confused for elasta
of course you do, elasta Grin

aurorastargazer · 10/03/2011 13:19

well, i've been to docs. she ( was lovely by the way) said she coudl see what i was concerned about and said it looked like a 'cystic lesion'(?) but is referring me to local gynae clinic to check properly. i do want a biopsy taken in view of my own personal and family history, i don't like the word 'cyst' (purely from having heard it about less than a year before mom died of oc)Sad but i'll keep my fingers crossed it is just that

Flame · 10/03/2011 16:32

how long for the gynae appointment?

I managed to fck things up. Things weren't a problem before as far as I can tell, but now that I have come across as an irrational stalker they are. wtf is wrong with me? Why do I have no off switch!?!? I feel like I deliberately sabotaged it.

aurorastargazer · 10/03/2011 16:36

i don't know yet flame.

why do you think you have messed thigns up? i will post mroe tomorrow, dd's clas si finishing soon so i should be going. hope you're ok

Flame · 10/03/2011 16:41

I didn't hear back all evening about tonight, so I sent a message saying something along the lines of I can take a hint, but if he ever fancies letting me in on what happened since the weekend then to feel free. He replied with "I was at my mum's you spooner" (well "sooner" but I think that was what he was aiming at). I explained that he is impossible to read and I have no idea if he likes me or not, plus this week being nuts has led to overthinking etc. Have heard nothing since then. :(

I am so pissed off with myself. There was no issue, until I created one. It could be that I magically hear from him later, but doubtful. I've got his birthday present in the car too which is annoying - I think I will move into full on stalker territory if I drop that in!

Snapespeare · 10/03/2011 19:08

aurora - fingers crossed for you. I had a dodgy smear a few years ago and had to go and have a

tookoolforskool · 10/03/2011 19:42

told you . you need to go with the slipping a note into his bag.just put ' call me... from train woman' and your number, of course.
very romantic AND an excellent story :)
well done on the PM front as well. How much has he contacted you?
Ive STILL had no contact with mr b, which takes it to 5 days now. Im doing well.. and ive not cyber stalked ( far too easy when he has his own websites) him nearly half as much.

Aurora. hoping its all ok. Ive had the biggest cyst ever. It was 10lbs in weight.. and was only found by chance when they were cutting abnormal cells of my cervix, which they couldnt do under local as im strangely and typically the one in god knows what that has a highly senstive and un numbal cervix.
great. Anyway. i know what its like.... just, thinking of you.....

elasta. how do you feel about that??

Flame... only you know why you do that?
have you spoken to him yet?

i told buddist i was cancelling out date, and explained why ( lack of childcare...) and gave him my email. he sent me a really nice email saying of course he understood.. and if i wanted to he was keen to meet up when im free. its a long wait ( all of 6 weeks...) but if hes free i will take him up on his offer.

also chatting to the one i gave my msn too.... but again. i am not meeting anyone for the next 6 weeks. and i feel really good about that.

Snapespeare · 10/03/2011 20:12

:)

I had a friend who had a cyst - grapefruit sized. she collapsed in the supermarket on xmas/new years eve and her turd of a bf didn't even visit her in hospital. I miss her - i moved away and have no idea where she might be ( but i live near where her mum lived, so i could knock on her door-type thing..

oh. god. it'll end up being the fucking awful note sceanrio then rejection, then having to get to the train insanely early, for the rest of my LIFE, so i can run down the platform to avoid. it would really be so much easier if i could be drunk at ten to eight in the morning. not knowing is better than rejection. :)

DS2 is singing 'halo'in the shower. and 'oops i did it again'. Grin

Snapespeare · 10/03/2011 20:16

sorry! how do you actually 'slip a note into someones bag' without them thinking you're trying to nick your stuff and some bloody train based do-gooder grabbing your hand, holding it straight up in the air and yeling, 'this woman is trying to steal your sandwiches!!!'

...complicated times.

Flame · 10/03/2011 20:22
Shock

So, being a total lunatic I dropped in a card and present (literally - through post box). Have got back to him sending me a message apologising for being hell and says family stuff is going down. Have I seriously NOT screwed this up?

Flame · 10/03/2011 20:23

(will catch up on the rest in a min when stunnedness wears off)

Flame · 10/03/2011 21:10

Snape - go knock on the door.

The note will be fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiine. (says me who still does girly sniggering when I have to go for coffee where I left my number for cute beardy bloke Blush)

We seem to be back to normal Shock :o He is sorting his stuff out, am leaving ball in his court.

Mzdemeanourunderthemistletoe · 10/03/2011 21:18

Hi all

just place marking ....

and elasta - dont' believe everything docs say about being menopausal - I was told I was - and had two rounds of fsh tests that put me as post- not even perimenopausal - six months later I was pg with twins so wouldn't chuck out your contraception just yet ...

and sponge - fantastic news re weight loss! Though grrrrrrr at arsehole ex

Aurora - how did it go?

Snape - second (third?, fourth?) putting note in bag ... what is the worst that can happen after all?

tookoolforskool · 10/03/2011 21:19

ah snape.. yeah. go knock on her mums door. its so easy to lose touch with people isnt it... i know what thats like, ( have moved lots)
mine was football sized. The couldnt believe i wasnt doubled over in pain. in fact, you could feel it through my stomach.. but i just thought it was a bit of tummy.. you know, you kind of dont think that do you.

i have no idea on the note thing. what about bluetooth.. can you scan phones? or do some link up thing via iphone?

or drop a note as you walk past him.. ah. that could work. something important sounding... with your number on it......
or just ' train man. i want to sit on your lap. call me now'

maybe less embarassing that a note in bag situation.

Flame · 10/03/2011 21:37

OOOooh i like the idea of bluetooth

Snapespeare · 11/03/2011 07:21

ooh! bluetooth! genius! offto the station. again...

aurorastargazer · 11/03/2011 12:22

snape Grin just say hello!!!

thansk everyone Smile
'just a cyst. just a cyst. just a cyst. just a cyst

Snapespeare · 11/03/2011 12:50

just a cyst! just a cyst! Just a cyst!

No train man this morning! i dunno, you lot get me all hyped up and then.....nothing! nada! zilch! Wink Grin

aurorastargazer · 11/03/2011 12:54

sorry Grin

please talk sense into me. vimes has said that hewon't buy flowers cos they're too expensive, yet (now he's started smoking again) he can afford 6.25 for a packet of 20 fags!!!

Flame · 11/03/2011 14:49

I got a photo from Mattarse last night. Alas, he has morals and won't do anything with me with Smurf on the scene.

Ok, I have morals too but alcohol and pretty photos were very persuasive.

No train guy booooooo

lilacisinlove · 11/03/2011 17:04

snape, loving the train man updates :)

flame, don't give up hope yet.

aurora, cigs are addictive, flowers aren't. Does that help?

Taking TLOML to school quiz night tonight, therefore flaunting my love life in front of the parents of kids I teach Blush

Massive cheer and round of applause please...DD1, age 13, found out today that she got an A* in her GCSE maths mock exam she sat on Monday

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aurorastargazer · 11/03/2011 17:27

lilac's dd - congratulations Grin

lilac - yes it does, which i know anyway though when he puts it down tomoney as a reason for not buying me any then buys thigns off ebay for both of us Grin

flame who's smurf?!!!

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