Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 30)

[lilacisinlove]

Yay! I did it again!

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You likie?

I've been lilac something-or-other from the beginning, asbm...joined this thread in Sept last year and met TLOML in November but still like to keep up with everyone else's dating escapades. I think I hold a bit of a record of having managed to have three first dates with three different men on the same day!!

sin, DD1 is 13...now have to tell DD2 (aged 11 and v clingy) what is going on.

fexh pmsl if you're mine or others on here!!
lilac good to hear that you've got your life back on track
i rarely post on this thread now as the humour and support has long gone and for some it's become so self absorbed

ASBM - I've lost track of who is who at times too. Some original posters are: Ninah still Ninah and Hatesponge, Eve (is now Adamschic), KDK (is now Mzdemeanour), Dontouch, is obv now NMN, Sin and most others are as we were. Except for me tonight

It's not the same I agree and its lovely to 'see' you again.

HTH

Terrible hostess, Sponge can confirm that, although in my defence, she's an early riser

you're a bugger!!!
now get off MN and look after my LO's!!!

nomeansno I know who you are now! omg I had been asking after you for ages, lovely you are back (yy I know, but it's nice here at the bar).. really to see you!
but you thought I was preggers by the train man - by 'ready to drop' I just meant tired lol! I had to shunt him into the sidings long ago, for being, let's say, rather economy fare - a bit Apex lol
I don't get fexh what does it mean? I am v confused at name changes. Did suspect adamschic was eve but only by writing style and wasn't sure, in fact the clue's in the name innit duh

i'm presuming it's f*cking ex husband. :) i like :)

i used to be persephonesnape, but got tired of the underworld. :)

dreadful DREADFUL hangover this morning. dreadful. nnnnnnnnnnn.

lilac - so glad it went well :)

haha snape. poor you. bacon sandwich? nice that pm texted you, what did he say? You know i deleted all my profiles. best thing i ever did. They didnt make me feel better, or good or anything. they were just depressing.. the barrage of crap messages from men i wouldnt even look at.. or would activley avoid was awful.
the secondment also sounds amazing :)

Sponge - congrats on the pay rise!!!! thats really quite amazing. and if you want, delete your profile too.

15 days and no mr big.Ive blocked and deleted him on msn... havent quite brought myself to do the same on my phone.
Chatting daily to boatman too.. moved onto texting now.i find him really interesting, which is a surprise.

Not replied to buddists last email yet. still a bit unsure about the whole being a buddist thing. ( thats really un pc isnt it, sorry.. i just dont know if that fits in with me and how i view things.... if hes serious enough to be ordained.. then its not just like hes some half hearted fairweather budist)

in other news my garden is looking amazing. decking is all painted. Boarder all weeded and turned over. new shurbs planted and today, to top of the excitement ( not!) im painting all the fences. joy!
My only consolation is that when dds dad is back.. and ive done all these things already i shall be able to kick back and relax, or have a few mad weekends without worrying about it.

bacon sandwich has been eaten and kept down! PM - general chitchat - he's been busy he's missed me, 'can't wait to catch up' he has been busy with work, i know - still. promised him a steak dinner (pretty sure thats not a euphamism, right?) he's in a play next weekend, so can sit in the dark and drool quietly. :) my pal is coming from manchester for the weekend and there's the anti-cuts demo - so will be fun. :) very excited about secondment. :) something i am so utterly passionate about and i get paid for it! wow!

15 days drought took? how do you feel? couldn't agree more about dating sites. i just keep my OKC up on the very very off-chance there is someone else.

lilac - so pleased about DD1! :)

afternoon all, i am fiding that having the wkds off and no kids is fantastic. i managed to have a lie in till noon today was great! yippee.

fexh - i am still trying to work out who you are??? are you janos?

where is janos? whats she up to anyway?

You never know, we'll get the thread back up and running properly if I need to start reporting how my escapades are going again

there doesn't seem to be many stories of weird and wonderful dates anymore?

was I the only loon who used to go on dates just for the experience of meeting someone new? i liked going even if i didn't think of them as potential.i used to go as long as the chat was good.

pub was fun last night. my friend got an admission of affection from this hot guy who was married. but he had a weird shape nose. poker straight with the end actually looked like he had a pea shaped lump of skin. i found it really difficult not to focus my attention to it with alcohol in my system.

oh and ninah - at baby train.

i am with you on the apex. when people ask why i am spliiting my response is always . "its a false economy this relationship stuff"

i was thinking about this the other day. now sharing your house with a bloke does mean half the bills. but it also means you need to buy bithday gifts and valentines and anniversary crap. and xmas. so you end up worse off. especially if like in my case i end up paying 2/3 of bills as there is 3 of us, and only 1 of p.

ohh yes nmn it's fab to have you back on board,can't wait to hear all your dating stories again
have you signed up for pof yet?!
pmsl that you thought ninah had got preggers from train man...i bet she sprayed her tea across the screen when she read that!
fexh was monty being norty btw!
and no haven't heard from janos in ages thought you might have done

scratches head as to who is NMN - give us a clue

back later

Wow.
Shall not be posting on thread anymore.
Not sure weather that is an intentional or non intentional swipe at the posters currently posting.

but to accuse of being self absorbed, or not funny, or supportive enough ????

lovely, because thats supportive isnt it?

and to say the 'thread is not running properly'
because why exacally?

i didnt,. and im sure most didnt realise there was some critera for joinging?

I just thought it was for lone parents who were dating? no?

i haven't heard from janos. i used to on msn. but i haven't been able to go on there as p gets antsy. you should see the glares i have been getting since yesterday as he keeps watching me go on forum.

i am having "the chat" tonight. i dont think it will be pretty.

scl - how many more clues do you need .. emm....... i was the one who went on the date to cairo! if you dont guess now then you need a new brain. yours is obviously damaged by the and many trips to footy every wkd. hows exh being these days anyway? any better.

did monty tell you we met up? she was up north for a wedding. she's a lovely little sauce pot

NMN - lolol oh its lovely to have you back. OMG more adventures to look forward to. Haven't namechanged back yet but will do in a mo. It was me and ASBM larking around last night as usual lol.

Good luck with the 'chat' I don't envy you that one!

Janos and Lou are still Janos and Lou as well! :)

Of course I said we met up !

ASBM - Am I ahead of you on the chores again? :)

SCL - NMN used to be Ridingjoker in the old days. Yes?

ohh!
thought you'd already booted him out?
does he know it's on the cards?!
will the dcs be home or are they still @ their dad's?
took i wasn't aware that i had named you as such,my comments are mere observations

Head hurts. Hangover bad.

TooK - I am completely lost with what's been said.

took - i'm lost too. i actually thought it was tongue in cheek comment. bit of sarcasm. i think you've possibly took it the wrong way .

flame - want to share my ibrufon?

i'm waiting on p dd going home, and my 2 are just home. i'll do dinner and bed. i have just stumped up for rent. he hasn't as not got his first wage in from job till next week. i will give him the option of paying half rent and having a month to find somewhere else to stay. or just keeping his cash to use for a deposit somewhere else and he can go live with his folks till he gets somewhere. only problem i can see is him sticking head in sand and refusing to move. but i have veiwing of houses set up for next week. soon as i find something smaller i will be handing my notice in here. but we will def be finished. and i will be telling him we need to set about seperating the finances.

and yes, he knows its on the cards, we've had 3 serious chats about things and nothing has improved. i am not a parrot. i have made up my mind. and once thats done, it is done. i've been detaching for about 4-6 weeks now. and he has said he thinks i am getting ready to dump him.

How long have you been together? (Not a fcking clue who you are/were , not sure if I should know though)

I should prob take something... will go find some pills.

oh i didn't realise that he had a dd
how do you think the dcs will take the news?

ASBM - I would agree with your observations the thread's ambiance has certainly changed over the last few months, although I can't quite see why they were taken as they have been

I've got a name for my only latest admirer. Celtic

NMN - oh I so admire your pro-active style :)

I'm holding your hand whether you like it, need it, or not.

We haven't been doing much in the way of dating of late have we? Apart from stalking Train Man.

I seem to have been being slutty, but not actual dates.