Where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 28)

[ninah]

lilac where are you????!

Just catching up. Well blow me down. Had a call from blue eyes whilst driving home, wants to meet up next week. For some strange reason he thought I lived a long way away in essex??!! He was very surprised to find me so close by - lets see if he turns up - he is a bit of a hunk

oooohhhhh. :) :) :) that is exciting. When?

Flame, when you seeing brackets again?

beautician - yep. fades like anything. I have to re red it with colour that my ever so lovely hairdresser sneaks my way, every 10 days. And it still fades to a sort of reddy brown colour. :( I love it when its really red... but my white bathroom is not loving the constant stream of red dye.

Elasta Ooh thats good news hope he does turn up for you.

Im really down at the moment which is very unusual for me.I feel like im just back to my old boring life a single parent again.I am due on so maybe its just my hormones.

probably just hormones.
Im sure your life isnt boring.
I know for a fact my life isnt boring at all, sometimes i might get a bit fed up of being on my own all the time, but its not boring.

ive got a group of friends that ive known for about 6 years. They are all married, bar me. they are all, without exception, having problems, some are in councelling, some have had trial seperations, some just do what their other half wants becasuse they are too scared to leave. Unbelieveably they say they envy me.

How olds your child? go do something fun with him/her... or something crazy. or have somone over in the evening or someting?

Oh... help?!?!
'not-to-be-date' has blown me out! Message:
"
Hiya ? I hope you are ok? At least it is Friday Yippee!!
I am really sorry but I need to change our date for Sunday ? My friend is having a bad time at the moment and I need to go to Leicester to help him out.
Are you free next week? I can do any day except Wednesday.
See you soon x"
Soooo... what's the verdict? Shall I just not bother with this guy?

is it the first time hes done that?
If so, make another date.... he has asked if you are free again.

if its the 2nd or more time hes done that, then dont bother.

no, this was supposed to be the first date. this was the guy who asked whether we should stay in or go out... although once i looked at the other text messages, he seemed genuinely pleased about us going out so i reckon that should have been a joke... anyway, poop!

thank you btw! gosh, how old am i? 15?!?! yeah, i wish... :)

I got blown out last weekend too, not met up yet, he said it was car trouble. Did get an apology and he said he wants to rearrange. Might text tonight to see if he can make it over the weekend. So Stella I would give it one more go.

done. poop. i am certain 'teacher' would never have done something like this! he's still smilling at me from his pedestal... actually, he did wave at me yesterday but waving is hardly going to get me a date, is it now?

ps. must stop 'mumsnetting' whilst at work!

ps2. a great weekend to you all!!! :)

well. a wave is something.. can you not get to chatting with him???

Id still go, even if hes the one who said about staying in.. but if he balls up again, then dont.

I think we all need advice, thats why we are here. or to squeel like a 15 year old about a date, or to go over it all once it has happened ;) lol

Thanks tookool my ds's are Four and six.I will have to think of something fun to do this weekend.Would like to go out just need to find somewhere warm.

Stella sometimes people get nervous or have a genuine excuse.I would give him the benefit of the doubt and rearrange.However,if he does it a second time then i would be likely to leave it.

cinema???
followed by pizza tea? or pizza hut?
or ( sad, but DD loves this) pet shop... then a floor picnic?
trip to the shops to find the best thing in the world.. with a budget of £1.50 each. ( DD LOVES this game, shes 5)

or failing any of that, cheer yourself up by planning fab stuff to do over the summer. ( ive got a ton of stuff booked, becuase its a bit crap in jan)

Yes i was thinking cineama.No to the pet shop as DG has promised the boys a cat and its all im hearing about haha.

i bet. We are getting guinea pigs soon. We go a lot, to quote DD ' because we need to check they still look the same'

We have a dog. These will be the last pets. i cant end up the mad pet woman!

Isnt yogi bear on at the cinema??

I just checked the listings and marmaduke is on tomorrow at our local one movies for juniors.The boys were desperate to see it first time around but we missed out.

Thank you again i have something to look forward to now well we all do.

arent they only about £1 as well?

i think they are at our local one, on a saturday morning.

:)

Yes only a pound so i save some money too.

Will take them for something to eat after as well im sure they will choose pizza.

Im not seeing DG this weekend and probably not next weekend either now so im just feeling sorry for myself need to give myself a kick up the bum.

Carrot freaks and cancels first dates apparently (except mine... odd) so i would say its nerves and still rearrange.

Seeing Brackets tomorrow. Going for a meal and drinks. Have told him he can stay at mine (distance issues) but that i am ONLY offering a place to sleep.

Might be seeing Matt late tonight.

Hoping there is some huge spark with Brackets tomorrow.

one of dd2's hamsters died a couple of days ago, so we are now down to 3 dogs, one cat and one hamster, though i have promised chickens once we have moved and settled in (was a birthday prmise for dp last sept)

eek

definitely no more pets for us!

Ahh Lou sorry to hear that.See thats why i have put off having pets as it would be sad for us all if anything happened to them but more so for ds1.I don't know how i would explain that to him.

Got to love DG for kindly promising them a kitten to go with the new house without discussing it with me first.New house is now a few months off so between now and then im going to put up with daily questions about the cat.It already has a name 'Jerry' and has to be ginger

Flame Good luck with brackets hope it goes well and that you get the spark and hope you enjoy seeing mattsarse

that was supposed to be crossed out grrrrr

lol. new name mattarse.
haha

not had a text from stardust so far today. which ive noticed... so that means im bothered.

am also contemplating doing a fire walk.
im not sure why.
Just need to see if i can get sponsors.. if i can get enough, then ill do it ( WHy??? lol)

Lol not heard from matt's arse so not sure if that'll happen

Firewalk?