now we have to know what the pic was like!
eve, dd1 has a habit of going for lanky drippy gay looking types so i generally ignore her suggestions now
not that she does now i am with dp
oh and exh sent me an email tonight saying for the sake f the kids we need to talk respectfully, and he has "great concerns" about dd2 and ds1, esp ds, and would like to talk about it, and not to tell the kids
i wonder why he couldnt have just told me int he email instead of telling me he wants to tell me, so replied asking him to send his concerns to me and i will read it and digest it before replying
i know what it will be about, he will say it is about ds and his attitude towards him, and he thinks dd is unhappy
i will tell him the attitude is because of how he is with ds and dd is not unhappy but a nearly 14 yr old
of course he wont consider that his in and out parenting when it suits him may have some impact on how they are with him, it will be everyones fault but his