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I feel a bit sick and over emotional, can somebody tell me what to do now while i calm down.

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fairyfly · 23/08/2005 18:03

My boys were picked up by their dad on Friday. Not a very reliable man and this was probably a very stupid idea. I have not been able to get through to him on his mobile. The landline has been ignored. I have constantly been rining as i promised my children i would check they were ok daily and get them if they felt unhappy or anything.
My x's girlfriend has just answered the phone and said they are not with her, they are in Scotland, they are with their Grandad who they hardly know. I didn't even tell them thats where they were going and im not allowed to ring them.
I feel sick.

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fairyfly · 26/08/2005 12:51

Apparently i am trying to control him and it is quite obviou to him and his girlfriend i want to have sex with him still

I've told him to start his Psychiatry practice as soon as possible as he really is spot on, its uncanny. I'm not sure what it is i love the most, the abuse or the child abduction, phwoooar

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Avalon · 26/08/2005 12:52

Don't know how to say this without it sounding weird - but I think you need a new thread.

Easy to search and find things using that poetry.

fairyfly · 26/08/2005 12:57

ok, will stop posting,

i have just had a text saying he has proposed to her and she said yes

am i suppossed to be devastated now, poor girl

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caligula · 26/08/2005 13:10

Oh thank goodness for that. Do you think you'll be asked to be a bridesmaid?

If she has a baby soon, maybe he'll lose interest in yours and leave you alone. I know that's not a PC thing to say, but it is not unknown for men to do that and it would certainly get him out of your life. And then she'll get to experience the joy of his faboulous parenting methods. Dontcha just envy her!

fairyfly · 26/08/2005 13:16

What i find truly remarkable is that he cannot even splash out on new school shoes for my boys but he can get married in a Castle.

God help her, i actually feel really sorry for her now, she has just set herself up for a crap life.

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Blu · 26/08/2005 13:20

FF, he is mad! What a thing to text to you. He and his gf are of this bizarre opinion, are they? Blimey, Creatures From Another Planet. And so very horribly insensitive.
I am gobsmacked.

fairyfly · 26/08/2005 13:21

my phone is getting turned off, next text is tell your boyfriend i had you first, he needs sectioning

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Blu · 26/08/2005 13:24

Err, that sounds to me as if he still wants to have sex with you think his dratted gf shares THAT opinion, too?

fairyfly · 26/08/2005 13:27

she thinks i still love him yep, they think i give him so much grief as he is not mine and i yearn for him back

Wish they would both just emigrate.

I'm in love with boyf, he is wondeful

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ggglimpopo · 26/08/2005 13:39

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Blu · 26/08/2005 13:41

ggg is that French?

ggglimpopo · 26/08/2005 13:42

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ggglimpopo · 26/08/2005 13:43

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Blu · 26/08/2005 13:45

ooh, I must e mail you...

caligula · 26/08/2005 13:48

That's not remarkable ff that's par for the course.

Getting married in a castle is far more important than his child's shoes.

God, you just haven't got it yet, have you?

I look forward with baited breath to his wedding poems. Followed by his honeymoon pomes.

Shit, must go and lie down, I've suddenly come over all faint and nauseous...

ggglimpopo · 26/08/2005 13:48

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Heathcliffscathy · 26/08/2005 13:52

why the f would he text you to tell you he was engaged to gf? like you give a? he is soooooooo weird......

you are so well shot.

v glad about gd. v v glad about bf.

katierocket · 26/08/2005 14:02

ha, just seen this latest update ff. First thought was, eh? why? as in, like sophable says, why text you about it? Mention it in a conversation maybe but just send a text message -freako.

LOL at the 'wedding poetry' yipeee, can't wait!

Fio2 · 26/08/2005 14:04

what a complete emoptional reprebate

Fio2 · 26/08/2005 14:04

sorry baby on lap

SherlockLGJ · 26/08/2005 14:05

"tell your boyfriend i had you first, he needs sectioning "


First I had a boy, now I have a MAN

katierocket · 26/08/2005 14:07

"tell your boyfriend I had you first" Is that from a 13 year old or what?!

Blu · 26/08/2005 14:12

I think that the MN Poetry Collective should be appointed Poet Laureate to his nuptials. In fact why don't we appoint ourselves as a team of Rude Mechanicals (a la Midsummer Night's Dream) to provide the entertainment?

Heathcliffscathy · 26/08/2005 14:43

i definitely think he is the one that still has a thing about you and is the one not doing the letting go and moving on.....

fairyfly · 26/08/2005 14:46

i just told him he can't get married as he is a bent little shit, definetly turning the phone off now before i get arrested.

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