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My DD3 has stage 4 Cancer

550 replies

ToddlerMumma · 18/08/2021 21:46

We are in shock, horror, disbelief. Last week she had a sore leg and went to A&E, now she has stage 4 Neuroblastoma and chemo starts on Tuesday.
She's only 3 but she's taking it in her stride. She cried the other night and said 'I don't want to be sick, I just want to go to nursery with my friends' it broke my heart.
The implications are just hitting, our whole lives are turned upside down for at least a year. One of us will have to give up work, how will we cope? Financially, emotionally.
I have a black lump in my stomach and can't believe this is happening to us

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FallonCarringtonWannabe · 15/11/2021 22:47

Thinking of you all. I cannot imagine the pain youre in right now.

Wallabyone · 15/11/2021 23:00

I've just stumbled across your thread OP. Just wanted to send love and all the best wishes your way...the op sounds like a huge one, but hopefully the results will also be excellent afterwards. Will keep everything crossed for you xxx

jobsagudden · 15/11/2021 23:17

Keeping everything crossed for you all OP. Hope the surgery is a complete success. What a brave little girl you have. You must be so proud.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 15/11/2021 23:20

Just found this thread OP and want to say I'm thinking of you and your DD. She sounds very brave x

CPDubs · 15/11/2021 23:29

I’ve been following this thread from the beginning, my girl is four in a few months so it’s really hit home.

I think you are all doing amazingly. I can’t imagine what Wednesday will be like, but think of it as another milestone and she’s done so well to get here so quickly! I’ll be thinking of you all on Wednesday Flowers

pineapplevape · 15/11/2021 23:39

I am so so sorry. Praying for you and your family.

jackstini · 15/11/2021 23:58

Oh goodness that is a massive day for you all

Make sure you share time in and out of hospital, walk outside even if only for a few mins, get food and drink ready.

Let family and friends know ok to be in contact but not to ask for updates - you will text them when you have news/are good and ready

Will be thinking of you all on Wednesday

ExPatHereForAChat · 16/11/2021 00:14

One step at a time OP. You're doing so well for your little girl, I can't imagine how hard this is for you and your family.

madisonbridges · 16/11/2021 00:15

I'm so sorry that she is having to go through all this. It must be positive, though, that her surgeons think that she is strong enough to cope with this and believe there will be a good outcome. Although Wednesday might be the worst day of your life, hopefully Thursday will be the best. I'll be thinking of her, and of you and your family, on Wednesday. x

Strokethefurrywall · 16/11/2021 00:28

You are doing everything you can, all you can do is breathe now.

I’m so sorry you’re going through such horror. I’m thinking of you all.

Asmadasahatter · 16/11/2021 00:32

Thinking of you and praying for your baby 🙏

thaegumathteth · 16/11/2021 00:35

Thinking of you and sending all the positive thoughts I can

MobyDicksTinyCanoe · 16/11/2021 00:36

Aww fingers crossed that everything goes well for your amazing little girl on Wednesday.

TableFlowerss · 16/11/2021 00:42

Thinking of you and your precious daughter. Sending love 💕💞💖

thirdfiddle · 16/11/2021 00:43

Just come across your thread, will be thinking of you on Wednesday x

anotherdaynotanotherdollar · 16/11/2021 00:47

I too will be thinking of you and your family on Wednesday. Having read the thread I wanted to say I think you are the most fantastic mum, and I hope you're lovely DD has a smooth recovery from her op.

Sending love and hugs xx 💐

HotChocAndMarshmallows · 16/11/2021 00:52

I've just come across this thread and didn't want to read and run. I'm so sorry your little girl is going through this. What a horrible thing to go through. Your little girl sounds incredibly strong and brave. I'll be thinking of you and your family on Wednesday x

SoleBlueWhisper · 16/11/2021 00:55

Sending you and your family strength and love. I'm so sorry your going through this ❤️

Blue4YOU · 16/11/2021 01:11

I really hope the operation goes well and you are able to bear the ordeal of it! Will be thinking of you

KosherDill · 16/11/2021 01:14

All the best to your daughter and your entire family!

liliainterfrutices · 16/11/2021 01:18

Thinking of you and your sweet girl xx

mishmased · 16/11/2021 01:20

@ToddlerMumma wishing your family all the best. Will be keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers ❤️

notangelinajolie · 16/11/2021 01:41

My heartfelt thoughts and best wishes to you and your little girl.

5lilducks · 16/11/2021 01:44

You and your little girl are in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing her well❤

ChangeMustCome · 16/11/2021 02:07

I have just read this. Sending strength and live to you all xxx