Husband now terminal

[Nifflerbowtruckle]

My 31 year old husband has been today diagnosed as terminal. His cancer which had gone in July has come back rapidly and now there is nothing they can do . How do you move on from here? We had his sperm frozen to hopefully try ivf but he won't even be alive to try that.

I'm so utterly heartbroken

You must be exhausted. How much longer are you going to stay there for? Hope Pils dog is ok. I hope your gorgeous dog is helping you today

I can't collect DH ashes until 27th so I'll collect them and then go home. It's my dads birthday today so I wanted to see him. PIL dog is okay the vet thinks it's just a stomach bug.

Hope you enjoy some time with your dad and family.

Look after yourself and DDog and let others look after you... have a rest Niffler, thinking of you

Oh @Nifflerbowtruckle what a situation for you to be in.

I'm sure (from what you've said) that wherever your DH is, he is with you and trying to send you strength and also very proud of how you are handling this very tense situation with your ILs.

You are an amazingly strong woman.

Take care lovely 💐

You are doing really well at such an awful time.

Still thinking of you and sorry you have to wait to collect his ashes. Hope the situation with MIL has eased a bit. Will be so much better for you once you are back in your own home. Do enjoy the time with your Dad on his birthday.

Thinking of you niffler. I hope you had a nice time with your dad on his birthday. X

Best wishes tonight💐

Best wishes for you tomorrow.

Thank you all. Everything still feels a little surreal and it's only when I talk about it I start to get a little choked up. I think Christmas without him will be hard. I've spent the past 7 Christmases with him and the couple before that we saw each other Christmas eve/boxing day. I'm just not ready to let him go and he's already gone.

Thinking of you Niffler

Thinking of you Niffler

In our thoughts sweetie. Hugs xx

Thinking of you...

Thoughts with you today @Nifflerbowtruckle

I hope it is as easy as it can be but filled with lovely memories of your time together.

I had quite a rude dream about DH last night and it took me a while this morning to realise he wasn't here.

I have no idea how I feel this morning. DH always loved Christmas (as do I) and it's just so weird without him here.

Your feelings will be all mixed up. Just take it hour by hour. Hope you have a peaceful day

Hope you manage ok today Niffler

Thinking of you today Niffler.

Thinking of you today lass xx

I'm doing okay. I took PIL dog to the park and he now has sore paws. We think he's been nettled. He's running around scraping his paws poor boy.

Been thinking about you today Niffler, my best wishes to you

use a solution of bicarb of soda - we had this a couple of years ago. really helped. have followed your thread - hope you are ok. x