Can I please make it clear from the outset that I am after legal opinion. NOT moral or lay opinions from non legally qualified people.
My dad died in 2022. He had been ill with schizophrenia most of my life. I have 2 siblings.
He was in an assisted accommodation. He was in receipt of the highest rate of DLA for both mobility and care . To be absolutely clear , I had no influence or control over his money . I was not a POA or an Appointee to DWP. His money , benefits , rent were handled by a 'corporate appointee' (Social Services for the area)
We visited monthly but that was the extent of our involvement.
When he died he had left a very simple WILL.. leaving his 'Estate' to be divided equally between myself and my siblings. I was named as executor as I have a respected job (think nurse/police/ambulance) ..
It took a little while to gather his accounts .
After about 9 months I was in a position to make bequests. A total of £7k each.
1 year and 3 months later - DWP tell me that the estate owes them. £13k. This is because her DLA had taken his savings over £16k and he was no longer entitled.
Therefore owes £13k in UC..
The money was distributed 5 months earlier and spent .
They are pursuing me as executor for the 13k ..
My argument against this is that I had no control or ability to check his income from benefits was correct as social services were in charge of this.
My questions are :
How long should an executor wait before distributing money to beneficiaries when we had no idea there was a debt. ? I understood that as Executor I needed to pay beneficiaries in a 'timely manner'
If dad was not entitled to the money then surely the appointee is the one responsible. ? How could I know there was a debt without having previous knowledge ?
I have no debt. I do not want debt but feel this is unfair. I have written all the above to DWP but still receive the same threats of a debt collector..
Am I liable ? If I am then we (siblings and I have to pay it. But they are far from 'comfortable' .. one spent it on a car to get to work and the other on hip replacement surgery.. (so she could keep working)
What would be your legal advice ?