Ohhhhhhh a lovely new home for all us OWLS

[ladytophamhatt]

O old women
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L live
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Come on girls.....

wow tasha respect!

will you ask what this one is?

yes i cant wait to find out i didnt find out with ds1 but i did with 2+3 so wont be able to hold back. sorry for so many posts but dps out and kids are all asleep so i think im here for the nite

Ah, that is the joy of MN! Always someone here to talk to - don't worry about how many posts, my DP is out too - 3 of mine have only just gone to sleep!

But I am off too, so nite!

tasha....thanks...I of course think they are gorgeous.

had a peek of your three too.....all scrummy and your little one had the most expressive eyes. the last piccie of him post op (I am assuming) shows off his lovely smile too.

you will see from my profile that I had three girls and then my two boys....you never know, you may do the reverse....!

awww i hope so id love a wee girl to dress up and have loads of pink stuff rather than blue lol but as long as he/she is healthy. yea that pic was after his op i think the sergeon done a really good job. hes due to go in for his next one june/july time im dreading it. well i better go and sort some washing out and then sit down for a cuppa nite everyone

Morning ladies, welcome to tasha who I'm very of. You're so young...you need to carry one have children until at least 35

Ok no#5 is off.

He's not going to change his mind so I told him that if he really doesn't want any more then to go to teh doctors and arrange a vasectomy becaue he's not coming near me until he does.

I'm not going to live like this... wondering if his changed his mind every time we have sex.

I had a thread deleted about me and dh the other day. It felt wrong posting such personal stuff(not just no#5) on here so I'm going to try and not mention it again. He is a good man and I do love him with all my heart so the subject is closed now.

carry on having not carry one have.

You'll get used to my typos eventually.

I dreamt last night I had another one

ladytophamhatt- sorry to hear your dp isnt coming round to number 5. will he not even say in the near future? all mine were accidents or dp would say the same but he says def no more and we havent had sex since we found out lol think hes ttramatised. i think im just really fertile but going for the implant after this one. ok off to clean and tidy my messy house and tear ds1+ds2 appart

awww......LTH.....I feel for you....you never know where you stand right now.

with out meaning to sound trite, but if you are meant to have another, then it will happen, regardless of whether you try or not. I do believe that.

maybe you saying that to him will make him see how you really truly feel and he may still opt for another.......I hope tho that you both get some peace soon

ggglmp......I dreamt the other night that I had twin girls......

seeing as DH has had the snip, AND I have the mirena coil for endo, then 1, it would be a bloddy miracle on the lines of 'virgin birth' and all that, and 2, I think DH would keel over in shock and not recover ever!!!!

LTH, sorry for your disappointment. I feel for you.

I think, for me anyway, I've become so used to having a baby every 2 years or so, I get to the point when they hit 18/24 months and think "It must be time for another". Not having another will throw me into turmoil. I simply won't know what to do next. I'll have to start thinking about my life. Its not just about having another baby. I think in some respects having a baby would be an easier option in an odd sort of way.

Is it just me, or does anyone else feel like this?

foxythesnowfox- i kinda feel like that ive been pregnant more times than not in the last 4 years. im thinking of my life when they all start school and am doing a home course with the OU but i think my body is made to be a breading machine

I think you are in an enviable position Tasha! How lovely to have your whole life ahead of you with your children to share it with!

Blimey, I sound like a granny!

Tasha, I think that's because you have been more pg than not

LTH do you think he will go for the snip?

I gave Dh the same ultimatum, either have another or go for the snip.....and he really didn't want to go for the op, which probably indicates his underlying thought on the situation.

It is very unfair on you though.

Yes, Foxy I understand that feeling completely. I was moving on before I fell PG with DS4. I had a place at college arranged, and a placement for the course. My life was going on to the next stage.

I was so shocked to be PG again. SO totally shocked that it made teh whole prganacy pretty crap (well documented on here!!)

Its so strange because I've never felt that there was one missing before and I do now. I've been broody before, and especially with ds3 - it consumed my whole life and TBH it wasn't a very nice feeling. Thsi time I don't really even feel broody....just that one is missing and without him/her I'll always feel unforfilled(sp??)
Does that make sense?

Sorky, I don't know really. He always said he never would but I can't really see any other way around it.

If teh choice is taken away and he does have it done then maybe it'll make it a easier/better on me.

That makes perfect sense to me lth, in fact that was part of my argument to Dh.
If he went for the snip then that would be the end of that, and I would have no choice but to forget about it, but by not going he was giving me false hope that he would change his mind. He kind of understood that and this opened him up to the possibility that he may change his mind in the future so didn't want to have the op done.

From there we moved to "well I'm not getting any younger and if you were to change your mind in a couple of years I would likely say no, so have a good think because for me it's now or never"

He's reluctantly agreed to now.

hi didnt know what owls stood for thought it sounded bit clever not for me but actually just for me11 i was told today " god you are huge, suppose your muscles have gone after so many thought i looked georgous today actually

actually i would like to add that i am actually pregnant

you have 11 kids!!!

could be a typo, sorky.
I often do 11 instead of !!.

Although 11 would be impressive !!

lth it's not quite a typo

Narkymum is pg with 10!

full respect Nm I think that tops even Juuules

pregnat with 10????

I think you did a typo sorky.....!!!!

nope she posted on the how do you cope with so many pg's thread and said she is pg with no.10

that officially makes her top OWL doesn't it