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Antisemitism

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bubbleandsqueak1976 · 25/03/2024 19:22

I read the posts on here with interest and often the subject of anti semitism comes up. I was brought up in a town in the South East. My mum gave me a book about Anne Frank when I was around 8 and I can remember asking ' what is a Jew?' as I had never met one. When I was about 14 a girl from northern Israel came to my school and I was asked to befriend her and help her settle in. I can remember being fascinated about her life in a Kibbutz and she used to show me
Hebrew writing. I don't recall ever hearing anything anti semitic about her or her brother as the only two Jewish kids - to my knowledge in the school. I also remember in my twenties encountering a group of lads from North London - white something and them having an absolute hatred for Jewish people. I can remember feeling utterly shocked as I'd never heard anti Jewish speak prior to this. Reading some of the recent posts on here it has made me wonder wherever there are pockets in the Uk with Jewish communities that experience antisemitism where the rest of the UK it does not occur as people simply have never met a Jewish person just their life- to their knowledge.Where I live I have only met 4 Jewish people in the Uk in my life and I am 47. The most Jewish people I have met were in Israel when I visited in 2000.

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Bunnyasmyname · 07/08/2024 21:09

Does the UK have any indigenous people?
I joined my work's BAME (yes still using that term) group last month. They sat me next to a Roma lady as we were the only white people there. Didn't exactly bode well, but actually wasn't too bad.

Sometimes I feel it is almost worse to 'pass' as you hear what people, often people who you thought were your friends, really think.

25milesfromhome · 07/08/2024 21:14

Hélène79 · 07/08/2024 19:42

Yes, the riots are a Zionist plot apparently. 🙄

What a time to be alive!

Is it rapidly becoming indistinguishable from all those other times? I can't tell any more.

SpuytenDuyvil · 07/08/2024 21:14

@Bunnyasmyname Ugh, no kidding. My DF was a German-Jew who left at age 17. He worked in international sales and marketing and traveled globally. He didn't read like a Jew as he grew older. He would often, of an evening, go the Rathskellers in various parts of Germany. He said what he heard there into the 80s would curl your hair.

0palfrootee · 07/08/2024 21:14

I don't know! It seems unlikely given what a mix the UK has been historically. But the point is that we're not like the US, ie a colonial nation with an original indigenous population that was treated badly on our arrival. Obviously we have been a colonising nation and done exactly that elsewhere, all over the world. But the BIPOC thing doesn't translate well here is what I mean. It's just thoughtlessly added.

Towerofsong · 07/08/2024 21:15

@Hélène79 I went to a zoom talk by Einat Wilf about 3 weeks back. I am really really hoping she vastly overstated it but three things really stood out.

First, she said that it starts with antizionism, because people think it has better optics than to be antisemites. But a
antizionism basically still always ends with no Jews left. She gave a few examples, including the example of Poland in 1968.

Secondly, she said that when you look at the stops on the way to things being really bad, posters suggesting the world 'Should be cleaned of Zionists/Jews' are the last stop. And she gave the example of people using posters like that in protests in the last few months.

Thirdly, she reinforced that we are in a time of great peril and everything is changing politically, we don't know what will happen next.

Some people are leaving Israel for the west to be safer, some are leaving the west for Israel. Nobody knows what is next and where will going to be safe, but that we should have a Plan B.

Needless to say I didn't sleep well!

0palfrootee · 07/08/2024 21:16

Apologies, have cross posted but my post above was in reply to @Bunnyasmyname

Also totally agree with what you said re you hear when people don't know your heritage - most of the antisemitism I've heard in real life has been that way.

Towerofsong · 07/08/2024 21:16

noblegiraffe · 07/08/2024 19:47

I distinctly remember Tommy Robinson being told to fuck off, he wasn't welcome at the antisemitism march.

Yes, the only violence on that march was the police trying to get him to leave!

Bunnyasmyname · 07/08/2024 21:21

0palfrootee · 07/08/2024 21:16

Apologies, have cross posted but my post above was in reply to @Bunnyasmyname

Also totally agree with what you said re you hear when people don't know your heritage - most of the antisemitism I've heard in real life has been that way.

Yeah I totally agreed with you. Not appropriate as we don't have indigenous people here.

Maybe Finchley used it to make sure they haven't missed anybody out to hate us. Got to be inclusive.

blackcherryconserve · 07/08/2024 21:23

Bunnyasmyname · 07/08/2024 19:51

Good. The brass neck to even consider turning up!

Sadly I've read on MN posts about how he supports Jews. And people believe that shite.

That's the problem. No matter how many times I/we refute it 😡

Hélène79 · 07/08/2024 21:24

Towerofsong · 07/08/2024 21:15

@Hélène79 I went to a zoom talk by Einat Wilf about 3 weeks back. I am really really hoping she vastly overstated it but three things really stood out.

First, she said that it starts with antizionism, because people think it has better optics than to be antisemites. But a
antizionism basically still always ends with no Jews left. She gave a few examples, including the example of Poland in 1968.

Secondly, she said that when you look at the stops on the way to things being really bad, posters suggesting the world 'Should be cleaned of Zionists/Jews' are the last stop. And she gave the example of people using posters like that in protests in the last few months.

Thirdly, she reinforced that we are in a time of great peril and everything is changing politically, we don't know what will happen next.

Some people are leaving Israel for the west to be safer, some are leaving the west for Israel. Nobody knows what is next and where will going to be safe, but that we should have a Plan B.

Needless to say I didn't sleep well!

Oh God that's so depressing isn't it.

Hélène79 · 07/08/2024 21:28

25milesfromhome · 07/08/2024 21:14

What a time to be alive!

Is it rapidly becoming indistinguishable from all those other times? I can't tell any more.

Apparently we financed the riots with all our JeWiShMoNeY.

Humdingerydoo · 07/08/2024 21:28

Bunnyasmyname · 07/08/2024 20:50

@stonecutter i have done that often.
As @Comedycook says, we are not welcome anywhere. Indeed it seems so often if you Venn diagram these groups, hatred of Jews is the one overlapping factor.

I periodically Google countries with the highest Jewish population and lowest anti-semitic attacks, think about if I could move there, then hear of another attack in that country.
On the upside, I now have a beginner's knowledge of Swedish!

Don't go to Sweden if you want to live safely as a Jew 😳

Hélène79 · 07/08/2024 21:31

I was wondering about the Jewish safety in Sweden thing. I haven't heard good things! Denmark sounds a bit safer to me?

MovingBird123 · 07/08/2024 21:35

I would go to Germany to be honest. Wild!

Hélène79 · 07/08/2024 21:40

Yes. Who'd have thought it. I really like Berlin actually.

Comedycook · 07/08/2024 21:41

Hélène79 · 07/08/2024 21:40

Yes. Who'd have thought it. I really like Berlin actually.

I liked it too when I went. It really surprised me.

Bunnyasmyname · 07/08/2024 21:51

I've heard Berlin is great.
Actually met a couple in Corfu who went there as their annual summer holiday the year before and loved it.
Def on my list.

0palfrootee · 07/08/2024 21:51

Sweden didn't create a great impression with the way they treated the Israeli Eurovision singer, I have to say.

Agree that Germany is pretty switched on to antisemitism from what I see - much better than other places in Europe. I wonder whether other European countries defined themselves as being against the Nazis, thus totally letting themselves off the hook for any collaboration and home-grown AS - whereas Germany had no choice but to face up to what it had done.

Humdingerydoo · 07/08/2024 21:53

Hélène79 · 07/08/2024 21:31

I was wondering about the Jewish safety in Sweden thing. I haven't heard good things! Denmark sounds a bit safer to me?

Sweden is definitely not a good place to be Jewish, specially not if you're even remotely practising.

And with regards to Denmark, I'll never forget hearing about Dan Uzan, the guard outside the Jewish community centre who was murdered almost 10 years ago 💔 Murdered while guarding outside a Bat Mitzvah party.

Humdingerydoo · 07/08/2024 22:01

0palfrootee · 07/08/2024 21:51

Sweden didn't create a great impression with the way they treated the Israeli Eurovision singer, I have to say.

Agree that Germany is pretty switched on to antisemitism from what I see - much better than other places in Europe. I wonder whether other European countries defined themselves as being against the Nazis, thus totally letting themselves off the hook for any collaboration and home-grown AS - whereas Germany had no choice but to face up to what it had done.

A Polish Holocaust-survivor relative always said she had absolutely no problem with Germans and would have no issue with ever visiting Germany. It was the Polish people and country she could never forgive as she felt they actively chose to hate and murder Jews whereas the Germans were made to do it.

I'm not saying she was right but that's how she felt about it anyway, even quite soon after WW2 ended.

And with regards to Sweden - Malmö (where Eurovision was held) is basically a permanent no-go zone for Jewish people. It's awful. Which is a shame, as it's meant to be an otherwise lovely city!

Menopausalsourpuss · 07/08/2024 22:30

Bunnyasmyname · 07/08/2024 21:09

Does the UK have any indigenous people?
I joined my work's BAME (yes still using that term) group last month. They sat me next to a Roma lady as we were the only white people there. Didn't exactly bode well, but actually wasn't too bad.

Sometimes I feel it is almost worse to 'pass' as you hear what people, often people who you thought were your friends, really think.

Yes I very much feel like an indigenous person. Can trace my family to 1600s but so what? Why do people feel they have to trash other's identities? If there are no indigenous in England that's area no indigenous anywhere. We are not the US and have only recently had large levels of immigration.

Cattyisbatty · 07/08/2024 22:35

In Finchley the counter-protestors are actually protesting against Zionism - in a predominantly Jewish area. I am actually more sickened about this than the actual riots. The far left scare me much more than the far right at the moment.
Been to Stockholm recently and it was fine, saw one persons/family with pally flags, however I have heard Malmo is no-go for Jews.

Antisemitism
Hélène79 · 07/08/2024 22:40

Hélène79 · 07/08/2024 20:58

It's shit isn't it. Really, really hopeless. I don't feel comfortable in England at the moment. I have dual nationality but the other country isn't much better to be honest.

I just feel like we're on the edge of something really bad happening.
That's my fear.

I'm even sadder about how many people would read that and insist we are being ridiculous because there's "no antisemitism, no far left, no danger for Jews, the far right like Jews".
Yes, the compassion only extends to certain minorities. Well any really, apart from Jews. Until recently I thought these people just resided in fringe groups. Not any longer. But the ones I reserve a particular disdain for are the 'as a Jews' who join the protests (and the MN discourse) and basically feed the antisemites with apparent 'proof' there can't be any antisemitism. Fed up seeing the responses to actual evidence of antisemitism with 'stop lying, because look at those Jews protesting'. Fuck them and the horse they rode in on.

Fed up seeing the responses to actual evidence of antisemitism with 'stop lying, because look at those Jews protesting'.

A few people actively demonstrating this tonight on 'Chat' of all places.

25milesfromhome · 07/08/2024 22:44

Hélène79 · 07/08/2024 22:40

Fed up seeing the responses to actual evidence of antisemitism with 'stop lying, because look at those Jews protesting'.

A few people actively demonstrating this tonight on 'Chat' of all places.

Like a stuck record.

Menopausalsourpuss · 07/08/2024 22:44

I can only offer support as a non Jewish person. These leftist idiots think that Jews are white so don't suffer from racism. I had no idea until recently and thought the fears about Corbyn were overstated - so sorry. Why is KS so weak on this despite being married to a Jewish lady? I suppose he is putting his political career first?

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