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IVF March 2025

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Banksl92 · 07/02/2025 19:20

Hiya. I’m due to start IVF in March and just wanted to find some people who were going through the same so we can support/ advise eachother! I’m 32 and have been trying to get pregnant for 8 years now and just wanted to meet some people in the same boat!

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lovelivelaugh64 · 26/03/2025 11:37

@Twofromanotherkindi am in the same situation as you. I just want to start but no sign of period unfortunately

OneQuirkyPanda · 26/03/2025 11:48

@Twofromanotherkind I know that feeling, we are doing a FET and I’ve been spotting since Saturday, but no actual period yet, every day I’ve been thinking today will be the day, but just more spotting! I found the waiting around and uncertainty the hardest part of this whole process.

Twofromanotherkind · 26/03/2025 12:37

lovelivelaugh64 · 26/03/2025 11:37

@Twofromanotherkindi am in the same situation as you. I just want to start but no sign of period unfortunately

How late are you? Now I’m thinking probably won’t get it for ages fml

Twofromanotherkind · 26/03/2025 12:37

OneQuirkyPanda · 26/03/2025 11:48

@Twofromanotherkind I know that feeling, we are doing a FET and I’ve been spotting since Saturday, but no actual period yet, every day I’ve been thinking today will be the day, but just more spotting! I found the waiting around and uncertainty the hardest part of this whole process.

Yep I just want to start so badly it’s just so uncertain and stupidly I thought I would be able to do egg collection when on leave but that won’t happen now.

lovelivelaugh64 · 26/03/2025 12:38

@Twofromanotherkind almost a week, I hate it. But I do have irregular periods, I just want to start already

Twofromanotherkind · 26/03/2025 12:53

lovelivelaugh64 · 26/03/2025 12:38

@Twofromanotherkind almost a week, I hate it. But I do have irregular periods, I just want to start already

It’s torture isn’t it hugs fingers crossed we both come on soon

OneQuirkyPanda · 26/03/2025 13:13

Twofromanotherkind · 26/03/2025 12:37

Yep I just want to start so badly it’s just so uncertain and stupidly I thought I would be able to do egg collection when on leave but that won’t happen now.

Yes we had it all planned out nicely, annual leave booked then it’s been nothing but bad news, delays and setbacks ever since last year. I just expected it naively to be so much easier than it has been.

I know it sounds stupid but I had all these ideas of being pregnant by certain dates and events, like Christmas, my dad’s birthday, Mother’s Day, my cousin’s wedding etc and with each date coming and going I get more down about it and feel like it will never happen. We started our journey last August (after saving for years as there is no funding for same sex couples in our area) and we are now almost in April and finally have our first (and hopefully last) egg collection booked for tomorrow.

I’m grateful we are able to do this, but finding it much harder than I thought.

Twofromanotherkind · 26/03/2025 13:51

OneQuirkyPanda · 26/03/2025 13:13

Yes we had it all planned out nicely, annual leave booked then it’s been nothing but bad news, delays and setbacks ever since last year. I just expected it naively to be so much easier than it has been.

I know it sounds stupid but I had all these ideas of being pregnant by certain dates and events, like Christmas, my dad’s birthday, Mother’s Day, my cousin’s wedding etc and with each date coming and going I get more down about it and feel like it will never happen. We started our journey last August (after saving for years as there is no funding for same sex couples in our area) and we are now almost in April and finally have our first (and hopefully last) egg collection booked for tomorrow.

I’m grateful we are able to do this, but finding it much harder than I thought.

omg me too I feel like I’m spiralling a bit but glad it’s not just me that feels like that

captainsmal · 26/03/2025 14:12

@Banksl92 I was the same one moment convinced then was sure it hasn’t worked! Actually the only reason I tested Monday was I was SO convinced it hadn’t worked cos I had quite bad AF type pains and cramps all day it felt like I was about to come on! Was so shocked when I saw that second line 😅 I’ve still got them today coming and going and keep rushing to toilet to make sure there’s no 🩸 😱 apparently it’s all normal cyclogest side effects/growing uterus etc.

captainsmal · 26/03/2025 14:15

@OneQuirkyPanda @lovelivelaugh64 @Twofromanotherkind i really hope you guys get your AF soon!

SlinkMcSlink · 26/03/2025 17:55

Well today I haven’t sat down. Work has been crazy as usual. Bit panicky now in case I’ve overdone it but what will be will be.

One DPT. hahaha so long to go!

captainsmal · 26/03/2025 20:08

@SlinkMcSlink dont worry I dragged a heavy suitcase up my hill (like 45 degrees so steep!) to get home after my ET and then did loads of stuff at work last week! When’s test day?

OneQuirkyPanda · 26/03/2025 20:16

SlinkMcSlink · 26/03/2025 17:55

Well today I haven’t sat down. Work has been crazy as usual. Bit panicky now in case I’ve overdone it but what will be will be.

One DPT. hahaha so long to go!

I read that studies have shown walking an increases the chance of success, our clinic advises against resting and says to go back to normal activities as soon as you feel ready, so I think if anything you have boosted your chances!

SlinkMcSlink · 26/03/2025 21:15

@captainsmal Saturday 5th April.

Wander how long I’ll last not testing? Hmmm

@OneQuirkyPanda That’s good to know. Also, just sitting around makes you think too much I find.

captainsmal · 26/03/2025 21:18

@SlinkMcSlink well I swore I wouldn’t test early and now look at me 😅

lovelivelaugh64 · 26/03/2025 22:17

Hi all, are you all having acupuncture treatments?

I’ve never had it before but I’ve been told it increases your chances of success. Not sure if I should get it

Miraclemuma03 · 26/03/2025 22:29

@lovelivelaugh64 @OneQuirkyPanda @Twofromanotherkind I hope your period starts soon so you can start your stims. I had the opposite issue, we planned for a late period but it came early so had to rush around with a plan and organise my meds, I thought we were going to miss this cycle but we have scraped in.

Miraclemuma03 · 26/03/2025 22:39

captainsmal · 26/03/2025 07:09

Morning everyone, hope everyone’s doing okay??

3rd test this morning and still all positive and I can see definite line progression now so I’m really hopeful! Period would be due today if this was a normal pregnancy. Otd isn’t for another 4 days though.

Annoying isn’t it like if this was a natural pregnancy I’d just be like “oh I’ve missed my period, do a test, there’s a line even if it’s faint I must be pregnant” whereas ivf makes you question everything! I’m going to keep doing these cheap ones every day til Sunday to see progression then I might get a digital for otd or something. I’ve attached the image but hidden it as may be TW for some. (Hope I did it right!)

This is looking great on these cheapie tests. How exciting.

Miraclemuma03 · 27/03/2025 01:39

Have been to the clinic this morning, had my first shot in clinic. Ahhh it has begun!! I just couldn't stop kissing and thanking my husband for going along with my craziness to do this again and for making it happen. I'm so very grateful and so happy.

Miraclemuma03 · 27/03/2025 01:41

Thought I'd update quickly . Here in Queensland Australia its still morning so when I send these updates it's at 11.40am on the 27/3 . We are currently heading home.

lovelivelaugh64 · 27/03/2025 02:13

Aww good luck @Miraclemuma03
wishing you all the best and sending lots of baby dust to you. If you have any tips to share please do with us 🤍

expat321 · 27/03/2025 04:54

@Miraclemuma03 I'm in Dubai so my posts also show up at like 4am UK time 😂
Very exciting for you to start again!

Miraclemuma03 · 27/03/2025 05:03

lovelivelaugh64 · 27/03/2025 02:13

Aww good luck @Miraclemuma03
wishing you all the best and sending lots of baby dust to you. If you have any tips to share please do with us 🤍

Not really much advice. Though I must say while going through these ivf cycles you must give yourself some grace, find times to enjoy yourself and love your partner and do things together and talk about things that doesn't involve ivf.

Twofromanotherkind · 27/03/2025 06:04

lovelivelaugh64 · 26/03/2025 22:17

Hi all, are you all having acupuncture treatments?

I’ve never had it before but I’ve been told it increases your chances of success. Not sure if I should get it

I am but no idea if it is helping and it’s so expensive!!

Twofromanotherkind · 27/03/2025 06:05

AF has arrived!! So happy here we go!!

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