@Chimp58537- Welcome to group and welcome to mumsnet.
My background- TTC 9yrs, 2 losses. After a long battle to get tests done & referred (no cause for sub-fertility found) I saw consultant last year. Told I need to lose weight to qualify for 1 round of IVF before Mar this year. Lost 11kg & the referral back took forever- again issues at GP practice and them not knowing how to refer back!
Finally back at IVF clinic Jan (they shut over Christmas), then told they were booked up till April! I advised that my then, I'd be too old to qualify, so told they'd put me on the pill for almost 2mths! Once I've started treatment, that's all the local authority care about apparently. They called the following day to say a slot did come up to start in Feb/Mar, so only 1mth on the pill.
I was fortunate that I didn't get OHSS, so cant advise on that. 12 eggs removed (some immature), 3 fertilised, 2 embryo put in, and 7 weeks pregnant now with 1 viable heartbeat (scan yesterday). The week we had embryo transfer, we got an email saying our NHS clinic had been shut all week, except those ladies already in the pipeline. I can only assume I was one of the last before shutting, and am so very grateful that they fitted us in before my birthday and lockdown.
Did you have any signs of OHSS the 1st time? Do you have a viability scan booked in? Have you tried emla cream to help with the painful blood thinners? Its a local anaesthetic cream you apply to skin prior to blood tests, tattoos, cannulating kids etc. You can buy it from larger pharmacies or order online. Normally, you'd put a blob the size of a pea on the skin and cover in a plastic dressing and leave for up to an hour. It starts white, but absorbs into the skin and goes an opaque colour. I used it for my stimulation injections, but didn't have the dressings. I'd put a blob on my skin, then sit watching TV for 30mins or so, trying not to touch the cream. It certainly took the edge of them.
I hope your breathing is easing. Did you get a PE?