@BoomBoomBoomLetMeHearYouSay long reply coming lol I felt just the same. It can feel like such a lonely process, I was so bitter towards the world. I hated everyone who had a baby or announced a pregnancy. Strong I know but that's how I felt. Complete bitterness. I got a lot of clarity once when I went to a psychic medium (big on the old "signs and shiz") it was just after we were referred and he picked up on it and told me "this is your journey and there's a reason why special people like you are picked" it didn't help at the time but I embraced his words and thought Dya know what, we are pretty special and this baby - when they decide to grace our path - will be so loved. I also made a little journal and I write in it my deepest thoughts and feelings and I've addressed it to "our future baby, the one we long for" it gave me a sense of clarity that we WILL get there and one day I'll be able to give them the book. I've never read it back as it's quite dark but it helped a lot. But honestly, you will find so many other people around you on the way whether that be a friend of a friend, a relative, a work colleague or even just someone you end up chatting to that have been through it too. I've met around 5 ladies since I started this journey and it's nice to know we're not alone (I never would've guessed either). You are never alone and we are all here to support you along the way. I hope this gives you some comfort, I so desperately wanted to find someone to talk to when we first were diagnosed and struggled to find anyone who would reply so the loneliness felt even worse, I felt I was going insane. Then I stumbled across these threads, I made one back in March and the support has been incredible x