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IVF March/April

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Hopingforbabyd · 23/02/2019 19:02

Hi ladies
I’m hoping to find a cycle buddy or anyone who has been through IVF before. We are due to have our appointment for our plan at the end of next week and I just wanted to hear any stories/advice anyone may have as my mind is very busy with questions.
A little background from me, I’m 28 and been trying to conceive for 3 years now. Last year I was diagnosed with severe endometriosis which sadly affected both of my tubes. I’ve had them removed in November and all endo has been removed. We have been told the chances of conception are against us due to the severity of my condition but I’m holding onto hope. Are there any ladies who have similar stories who can give me a little encouragement? I’m quite nervous to start IVF but excited at the idea this could be our chance!
Thanks 😊💛 xx

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Hopingforbabyd · 16/04/2019 18:57

That’s exactly how mines gone today it’s so bizarre! @wesstywoo I’m not too sure as the clinic didn’t call me back which is annoying I rang them 3 times. I’ll give them another call tomorrow though for sure! How are you doing? X

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Wesstywoo · 16/04/2019 19:03

@Hopingforbabyd yes do - not sure if all clinics are the same but mine was within 4 days of day 1.

I'm doing ok thanks, counting down to ET on Thursday! Currently laying flat for 30 mins with the pessaries!

AliceAbsolum · 16/04/2019 19:10

I rang my clinic to ask about AF and Easter and they said within 4 days as well... How is the possible? How can 3 days of stims not make any difference? I swear they just make it up half the time.

Hopingforbabyd · 16/04/2019 19:52

Oh bloomin hell this af best hurry up! Now it’s completely disappeared! So strange, I’ve never had anything like it before I’m just hoping it comes soon. That’s so silly with Easter!
How are the pessaries going 🙈 my clinic advised 3 in 1 go on a night time...😳 is that what you’re doing? How are you doing @AliceAbsolum? X

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Wesstywoo · 16/04/2019 20:02

@Hopingforbabyd they are messy, stock up on pads! My protocol is slightly different as I'm doing FET so it's 2 at once in the morning and 2 at once in the evening! I'm laying down for 30 mins to make sure they absorb

AliceAbsolum · 16/04/2019 20:12

@Hopingforbabyd How frustrating for you.
I'm not great today actually. For the 1st time in a long time it's getting me down. The endless waiting...
Pessaries. My nurse told me to put them up the bum because then they won't leak Grin
*@Hopingforbabyd change the title to add tmi * then we won't have to keep saying it Grin

AliceAbsolum · 16/04/2019 20:13

even. Forget ** makes text bold in mumsnet land.

Hopingforbabyd · 16/04/2019 20:21

Ahahaha @AliceAbsolum should we make the forum “come join us for tmi” 😄
Oh crikey! Up the butt?! But... 🙈😳 bless you it isn’t nice at all is it. You’re allowed to have a bad day you really are doing so well and it’s a lot of pressure on your mind and body. Just remember how far you’ve come ❤️ X

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Hopingforbabyd · 16/04/2019 20:24

@AliceAbsolum & anyone who may need this today 💛

IVF March/April
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mouse1234567 · 16/04/2019 20:28

@AliceAbsolum sorry to hear you are having a tough day. This journey is so hard and I certainly feel up and down. It’s so hard when really you know the only thing that will make you really happy is a baby but yet no guarantees!

DaisyMay25 · 16/04/2019 20:50

@AliceAbsolum thank you!! I wondered why I wasn't getting any mess from them, I opted for up the bum because I know I'd have a reaction otherwise! Thank you for stopping my worrying that I was doing it wrong

AliceAbsolum · 16/04/2019 21:04

@hopingforababyd Such a nice thing to say thank you. Brilliant quote as well. It really helps to have people that understand. You should be a counsellor :)
@mouse I know :(

@DaisyMay25 haha you're welcome Grin

Hopingforbabyd · 16/04/2019 22:46

How are you feeling @daisymay25 xx

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Hopingforbabyd · 16/04/2019 23:07

She is here!!! That was such a weird start to af but she is finally here and we’re still in Tuesday so hopefully that means I will start stims tomorrow evening 😊 wishing all my cycle buddies the best of luck x

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2019isouryear · 17/04/2019 07:11

Good luck with EC @mouse1234567

Glad that she’s finally arrived @Hopingforbabyd good luck with starting stims.

Hope everyone else is doing ok.

Wesstywoo · 17/04/2019 07:26

@Hopingforbabyd glad AF has arrived!!

ET for me tomorrow, I only have one frostie so I'm desperately hoping it survives the thaw 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

mouse1234567 · 17/04/2019 07:29

@2019isouryear thanks -just waiting in the reception now -we beat the receptionist here so we must be first on the list which I’m quite grateful for!

@Hopingforbabyd so glad AF is here -that’s always an anxious wait at the beginning of a cycle to start

@WesstyWoo best of luck for tomorrow and for your embryo. I will have to get the low down on FETS from you soon so I know what’s in store for me in a few months.

Wesstywoo · 17/04/2019 07:32

@mouse1234567 thank you - it's physically a lot easier you will be pleased to hear!

Wesstywoo · 17/04/2019 07:39

@mouse1234567 just seen you have EC today - best of luck! X

Hopingforbabyd · 17/04/2019 07:44

Thanks ladies! So glad she is here @2019isouryear how are you getting on?
@wesstywoo haha I’ve never been so grateful to see her though this one is extremely painful I’ve been up on and off since 4am 😖 just had a nice soak which usually helps. Counting down the minutes to ring the clinic! Not long now until tomorrow...what time is you ET?
@mouse1234567 best of luck for today! Let us know how you get on
Xx

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DaisyMay25 · 17/04/2019 07:47

@Wesstywoo best of luck with ET today

@mouse1234567 hope they get some good eggs today!

@Hopingforbabyd glad AF has arrived for you! I'm doing fine just tired all the time which is annoying. I'm trying to remain positive though!

DaisyMay25 · 17/04/2019 07:48

@Wesstywoo tomorrow sorry! You can tell I've just woken up!

2019isouryear · 17/04/2019 08:05

@hopingforbabyd not feeling to bad 5 days in. Start 2nd injection tonight. Panicked a bit last night as I must of hit a vein. Starting to feel cramps and twinges (feels a bit like before AF arrives) which I’m hoping is a good sign that they are developing 🤞🏻 Not to bloated tho which makes me overthink things.

2019isouryear · 17/04/2019 08:09

I think I expected to feel more effects, but I know it’s early days. It can so wreck with your head.

Hopingforbabyd · 17/04/2019 08:35

@2019isouryear I know what you mean, when is your first scan? I’m certain things will be working just the way they should. You may be one of the lucky ones with no bloating 😉 oh gosh that sounds scary! How did you know you hit a vien did it feel strange? X

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