Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

News

See all MNHQ comments on this thread

Missing Woman Nicola Bulley 2

1000 replies

justgettingthroughtheday · 05/02/2023 15:23

Just thought I'd create a second thread for those following this case.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
20
SirVixofVixHall · 07/02/2023 11:30

Bluekerfuffle · 07/02/2023 11:05

Yes, and he’s also said he does think she was in it at one point. He’s gone from within the hour to a few days. I wonder if his equipment is way better than the usual equipment used, as several people have pointed out that it’s taken weeks to find people that have fallen into rivers before.

How easy it is to find someone who has gone into a body of water is not just dependent on the search team and equipment, it is also very dependent on the type of water and the depth. Very big rivers near estuaries are really difficult, lots of mud and tides (Richie Edwards has never been found) . Deep, large rivers with fast moving water can mean that people are not found for many weeks, and may be found a considerable distance from where they fell in, or sadly never found at all. Deep, large lakes are also hard to search.
But in more shallow and slower moving small rivers, it is usually easier to find people quickly.
Even on land it can be surprisingly difficult, depending on the terrain. An elderly man was found alive who had fallen into a ditch and got stuck. The area had been searched but he had initially been missed because he was under vegetation. One searcher had a gut feeling, went back and amazingly she found him.
DH is in the Coastguard and trained in search and rescue, it is a difficult and painstaking process and it is amazing how easy it can be for people to remain hidden.
A friend of his found a skeleton in woodland as a teenager. That person had clearly been hidden there for some time.

Togoodtobeforgotten · 07/02/2023 11:32

Return2thebasic · 07/02/2023 11:26

He said way too much. Not appropriate. He's not police, but trying to portrait himself better informed than them.

I also agree with this and him acting and saying what he is doing is causing even more confusion and possibly giving the family hope when there is none? However he is really sticking his neck on the line here? To say in all his 20 years he's not come across a case like this and she would have been found within a few feet?

pigsinoodies · 07/02/2023 11:34

Sally090807 · 07/02/2023 11:26

You don’t know that at all. I have a friend with 3 children, she comes across as the most bubbly, happy person when you meet her yet before Christmas she took herself off to a field and wanted to end her life.

Attempting suicide is a bit different from walking away from your kids and deliberately leaving them thinking that you've died when you haven't though. It's highly unlikely that any mother would do that surely?

kirinm · 07/02/2023 11:34

@Togoodtobeforgotten he is going to look like an idiot if they find her today.

countrygirl99 · 07/02/2023 11:36

I've had sad experience of someone who disappeared and had fallen into a river they were walking beside. Tracker dogs followed their scent to a spot where there were slight signs of a slip. Divers searched for a few days but in January visibility in a muddy bottomed river is a few inches at best. Add in junk and weeds and it's an extremely difficult task. Due to the cold it was 4 weeks before sufficient gases built up in the body and caused it to come to the surface where it was found less than 100 yards away by a dog walker. So I'm not in the least surprised that nothing has been found yet.
I also used to work for an organisation that trained accident investigators and part of that course was an exercise to show how unreliable even experts in something are as eye witnesses, so I'm also unsurprised by conflicting accounts. Especially once you add in inaccurate reporting by the press and there is likely to be information being deliberately withheld by the police for good operational reasons if there is the slightest possibility of a crime.

Unicornpoop87 · 07/02/2023 11:38

She probably got tired of life and took off

pigsinoodies · 07/02/2023 11:39

HazardaGuest · 07/02/2023 11:10

Have I imagined it or was it someone from the caravan site who “found” the dog? If it was it is a bit of a coincidence that they own the only route away from the river that isn’t covered by cctv.

There are 2 caravan parks. One's a holiday site and the other's residential. She owned the holiday site, the CCTV wasn't working on the other site.

They've now got CCTV covering both exits. The only path out of the field they've not got it for us the path along the river that she initially entered the field.

crocusfocus · 07/02/2023 11:39

@Plitvice of course it is not statistically negligible for a woman to up and leave her kids. The fact the PP "aunt" did it means people knows she did it! Very different

I am talking about these circumstances- what people are suggesting here is that she covered her tracks. It is absolutely bollocks. That is statist

What is wrong with some people on here

Return2thebasic · 07/02/2023 11:39

@countrygirl99 , @SirVixofVixHall , I was just about to post and ask similar questions. Thanks for the sharing.

crocusfocus · 07/02/2023 11:40

@pigsinoodies statistically almost zero.

pigsinoodies · 07/02/2023 11:40

Unicornpoop87 · 07/02/2023 11:38

She probably got tired of life and took off

Immediately after making a playdate for her kids?

Return2thebasic · 07/02/2023 11:41

crocusfocus · 07/02/2023 11:39

@Plitvice of course it is not statistically negligible for a woman to up and leave her kids. The fact the PP "aunt" did it means people knows she did it! Very different

I am talking about these circumstances- what people are suggesting here is that she covered her tracks. It is absolutely bollocks. That is statist

What is wrong with some people on here

That's right. I don't think she's really capable to do it without leaving any suspicious clues. She's not a master manipulator and I don't think she'd do this to her children.

crocusfocus · 07/02/2023 11:42

@Unicornpoop87 statistically almost zero that a mum would take off and leave her children with open ended questions.

About as likely as Bill Gates trying to poison the world with Covid vaccines

Unicornpoop87 · 07/02/2023 11:42

Return2thebasic · 07/02/2023 11:41

That's right. I don't think she's really capable to do it without leaving any suspicious clues. She's not a master manipulator and I don't think she'd do this to her children.

You never really know what a person is going though I just hope she is found safe for her family so sad

crocusfocus · 07/02/2023 11:43

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Unicornpoop87 · 07/02/2023 11:44

crocusfocus · 07/02/2023 11:42

@Unicornpoop87 statistically almost zero that a mum would take off and leave her children with open ended questions.

About as likely as Bill Gates trying to poison the world with Covid vaccines

Maybe not but it’s been known for people to leave of there own will and not everyone is the same you don’t know what personal struggles people have, I hope she’s safe

Togoodtobeforgotten · 07/02/2023 11:44

Unicornpoop87 · 07/02/2023 11:42

You never really know what a person is going though I just hope she is found safe for her family so sad

I agree and just hope whatever it is she is found safe and well.

confounded234 · 07/02/2023 11:44

crocusfocus · 07/02/2023 11:39

@Plitvice of course it is not statistically negligible for a woman to up and leave her kids. The fact the PP "aunt" did it means people knows she did it! Very different

I am talking about these circumstances- what people are suggesting here is that she covered her tracks. It is absolutely bollocks. That is statist

What is wrong with some people on here

The problem is that if no body is found in the river near the phone, as is looking increasingly likely, then what do they do with that? Refuse to entertain the possibility she just walked off? Because if no body is found, you are left with abduction or disappearance where someone used the phone to misdirect.

Togoodtobeforgotten · 07/02/2023 11:46

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

You can't say that. People are genuinely concerned for this lady and for her family. The fact is you do not know as we do not know that does not make anyone mentally ill.

Unicornpoop87 · 07/02/2023 11:46

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

That does not make someone mentally sick to assume that maybe the outcome

Plitvice · 07/02/2023 11:47

Personally, I think she is in the water but for people who do leave their children and disappear, it may not even be a gradual thing that others saw coming. Some people share their woes, others bottle them up until breaking point and put on a happy act. Mental health can appear change at the flick of a switch no matter how perfect your life seems on paper. I think that is what is terrifying from the point of view of parents of young DC.

Bluekerfuffle · 07/02/2023 11:52

SirVixofVixHall · 07/02/2023 11:30

How easy it is to find someone who has gone into a body of water is not just dependent on the search team and equipment, it is also very dependent on the type of water and the depth. Very big rivers near estuaries are really difficult, lots of mud and tides (Richie Edwards has never been found) . Deep, large rivers with fast moving water can mean that people are not found for many weeks, and may be found a considerable distance from where they fell in, or sadly never found at all. Deep, large lakes are also hard to search.
But in more shallow and slower moving small rivers, it is usually easier to find people quickly.
Even on land it can be surprisingly difficult, depending on the terrain. An elderly man was found alive who had fallen into a ditch and got stuck. The area had been searched but he had initially been missed because he was under vegetation. One searcher had a gut feeling, went back and amazingly she found him.
DH is in the Coastguard and trained in search and rescue, it is a difficult and painstaking process and it is amazing how easy it can be for people to remain hidden.
A friend of his found a skeleton in woodland as a teenager. That person had clearly been hidden there for some time.

That’s what makes me wonder why he is so confident that if she’s there he will find her within the hour/days (depending on which version you choose).

confounded234 · 07/02/2023 11:56

Bluekerfuffle · 07/02/2023 11:52

That’s what makes me wonder why he is so confident that if she’s there he will find her within the hour/days (depending on which version you choose).

I think he's confident because of the years and years of experience working on hundreds of cases. This guy is a close to a defintive expert of bodies missing in water as it is possible to get. There's nothing he hasn't seen before, including a murderer who used a shoe to misdirect the police into believing that someone was in a river when in fact they were buried somewhere else.

it is also worth bearing in mind that this STILL is not a criminal investigation "only" a missing person. Until it is a criminal investigation under the direction of a DCI or such like, then it is going to drift.

ofwarren · 07/02/2023 11:57

confounded234 · 07/02/2023 11:56

I think he's confident because of the years and years of experience working on hundreds of cases. This guy is a close to a defintive expert of bodies missing in water as it is possible to get. There's nothing he hasn't seen before, including a murderer who used a shoe to misdirect the police into believing that someone was in a river when in fact they were buried somewhere else.

it is also worth bearing in mind that this STILL is not a criminal investigation "only" a missing person. Until it is a criminal investigation under the direction of a DCI or such like, then it is going to drift.

What would trigger it to become criminal? They would have to find a piece of evidence?
My worry is what happens if no body is found today. What do the police do then?

Unicornpoop87 · 07/02/2023 11:59

ofwarren · 07/02/2023 11:57

What would trigger it to become criminal? They would have to find a piece of evidence?
My worry is what happens if no body is found today. What do the police do then?

I’ve wondered this too

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.