I ahve a ten year old but wouldn't want to expose him to the truth of that crime, that would be wrong, esp. for the sake of MN.
I know what he would say- despicable. I am not aware anyone has arguies otherwise.
However, as I have posted earlier my ten year old has an SN that means had he not had intensive input from us he may well have gone on to this sort of thing IMO- he still is prone ot violence and aggression. he knows right from wrong, but has no empathy and a complete lack of understanding of societal expectations of behaviour, and an inability to control himself inc ertain circs. As a result he ahs constant 1-1, there's a good chance he may learn much better behaviour. I pray so (and more practically am slogging my guts out).
But not long ago DH and I fervently beelive not only that he would up in priosn, but I also believed that he would cause my death for a while. We begged for help, but got none. All referrals were ignored and pleas for ssd help were sent back refused with 'Mum is intelligent and caring' just wroitten in every box.
the only way I am making headway is becuase I am studying for an MA in his condition, clearly that option is available to very few.
So you see- whilst I also totally understand from the perpsective of someone losing their toddler, mine is only 5ft from me now eating lunch (I was with him but he was shoeing off and throwing it at me!), I also know the system on the otehr side all too well.
Which is why I won't dismiss the hmanity of any child when I know the help that mayn well have made a massive difference and prevented everything at a far earlier point isnt there.
I had a look at the law on this; it#'s not possible for someone who commits a crime under age to be given a lifelong term. Ever. So, these two will not be locked up for life for the killing of poor JB. They may well be if they reoffend. if you loatthe that campaign for a change in the law (I won't be backing you) but it can't be retrospective.
Or do we support a government and system allowed to act beyond the law? Where would that end?
If it wasme used the poor term- can't remember- it was in reference to poor childhoodsnot the killing. I don't think I have said anything to suggest I put their victimhood above JB's, becuase I do not.