Three woman murdered in Hertfordshire.

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Absolutely shocking. A 26 year old man named as Kyle Clifford, believed to be armed with a crossbow, is being sought by police.
The dead women are aged 61, 28 and 25.

No one mentioned mean girls in a high school except you though. So you're not really making a drop of sense are you.

Go and make things up on some other thread not this one. Have some compassion for the victims

This was intended as a message of support to another user.

I have no intention of conversing with you. You have nothing to say that I'm interested in engaging with.

People pointing out that "now isn't the time or place" for a comment aren't being cruel. You seem to interpret any form of criticism as cruelty. My mother is like that. I have to be on eggshells around her and it's really really hard to deal with.

I would say that the most cruellest and emotionally damaging gender is female.

Would you indeed, Kellyanne. How interesting.

Still, I think most of us would rather live in a world where unspecified emotional damage and crap bosses affected us as much as triple murders and multiple weekly murders. What world are you in?

It was a metaphor. I was using the trope of high school cheerleaders being the definition of mean girls in any US teen movie to refer to all catty women.

Have some compassion for the victims

Did you read your own first post on this thread? Stating, and I paraphrase, "at least they died together, it could have been worse" and then doubling down when people carefully explained to you that them being together was part of the means of torture is the opposite of compassion for the victims.

Brilliant! Because I feel exactly the same about you.

Bye.

I didnt say the words "it could have been worse".

And I know what i mean and i stand by what I said. I don't feel i should change that.

What did happened is I then left the thread because of bullies on here.

And I thought to myself, I'm going to come back and not let mean bully girls bully me off this thread

And I won't let anyone bully me off. I'm going to stand up for myself this time

I can't help but notice the pattern, here and elsewhere, of posters with double female names whose sole purpose seems to be to minimise male violence and magnify female crimes, or unspecified low level female behaviour, as if they were equal or worse.

Thanks for the tip. I've never heard of EMDR and will look it up.

Of course, ideally we wouldn't need these therapies. And of course, men inflict these crimes but we end up paying 💸💸💸 for the therapy to let us face the world again.

Defensive women don't like to hear anything bad about women, do they.

I was replying to the discussion a few pages ago, where a poster said something like "being a woman doesn't mean you are not bad".

I contributed and added to that discussion.

You are able to go back and READ yes?

You are able to see that another posted first yes.

Yet it is me that gets piled on and picked on again.

Bully girls out in force on this thread.

As I said, you interpret any criticism of you as cruelty and bullying when it isn't.

I've been bullied. I know the difference.

I also hope that you are doing okay

The MRA sure do love picking hyphenated first names for their MN pseudonyms.

Ok, Kellyanne.

Have you ever taken a step back to work out who the common denominator is in all these negative interactions with women?

You don't really get to interpret how other people feel bullied though.

Alot of women report that they feel bullied on mumset. There have been multiple threads about it.

I don't think I would write a post to then saying "you haven't been bullied, I would know".

See that I wrote something kind to you in my last post.

And you wrote something nasty to me.

I wish i hadn't wrote my kind post now

You frame disagreement as bullying. It's not.

It's also nowhere near comparable to male violence. I'd rather far be told I'm wrong on Mumsnet than be sexually assaulted again. Guess which sex does the sexually assaulting?

Kellyanne knows.

Oh being cruel there are you?

How funny that you are trying to say that women are not cruel....by being cruel yourself.

Good one.

Try to write something nice.

Go on. Dig deep . You can do it

Kellyanne is enjoying this. I woulsn't give her more supply.

Is that more or less cruel than being tied up and shot with a crossbow?

Both sexes do sexually assaulting as you well know.

Plenty of female teachers have been locked up for being paedophiles.

Kellyanne feels more victimised by hearing women speak online or being senior at work than by multiple murders of women by men.

Thank you for your kind post.

I don't appreciate you performatively trying to weaponise it to guilt trip me though.

It's a behaviour I associate with men, who think that women are vending machines that they can put a performance of niceness into and sex will be dispensed and will guilt-trip when sex isn't forthcoming. It's a behaviour documented in "The Boiler" by The Specials.

Ah yes, a general discussion, on a thread that is about 3 defenceless women being murdered in their own home with a brutal weapon. Concluding that male violence against women is a real problem in this country and globally…

And you think it’s okay to spout the absolute nonsense of “women can be more emotionally cruel”. Like that’s a fucking helpful statement.

Read the room!