It's plainly obvious some people are wanting the degree of sympathy to be dependent on how she died No, it is blatantly obvious that some want to know what did happen so that their ire, and possible actions, can be directed appropriately.
Reading many of those posters, myself included, it seems they/we are already actively involved in some form of local community work, may have more expereince in such crap happenings! Far from being nasty and small minded some are waiting, to see if there is anything they can do without getting the thread closed, speculating and "making noise, full of sound and fury"