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A thread to discuss DEVELOPMENTS regarding Maddie McCann

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jampot · 05/05/2007 14:03

We can discuss parenting styles in a few weeks

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toomuchtodo · 08/05/2007 14:29

quietmouse, your post of 14.11pm today

"my life couldn't go on."

so what would you do if you had other children?

bit of a daft statement.

dionnelorraine · 08/05/2007 14:30

oh dear this sounds like bullying to me!

LaCerbiatta · 08/05/2007 14:30

No, no press statements at all during a police investigation. They're only doing them now because they've been advised to by the british police officers or liaison officers or whoever is there, to keep the british press happy. I think they want to keep the brits living there happy, being such a big and respected community in the algarve and being british tourism so important there.

It would be nice though if the british press found a way of respecting the portuguese way of doing things. I'm not saying they shouldn't be criticised, unfortunately some criticism is due for not getting organized, closing the borders and doing a very intense search on the first night when it could have maybe have payed off. But they need to understand that, first of all, the police are NOT allowed to give any information and, second, there is no history of such kidnaps in Portugal. The police force that was first called to the resort have zero experience on something like this. They sent for the investigative (?) police, Policia Judiciaria, but that probably consists of no more than a couple of officers, probably very ill prepared as well. There was no plan because there's no history of such a crime, it took them a long (too long unfortunately) time to get organized.

Someone asked why would a british peadophile kidnapp a girl in POrtugal instead of here. have you thought how easy it is to disapear with a child there? The borders are open... Even with border control, it only takes a small boat to cross the river between portugal and spain in a non-controlled area, 2 hours away from where it happened. It would be so much more difficult here....

ThatBeetroot · 08/05/2007 14:30

I have jsut watched the news and no mention of a mainlead or any new develpments - is there something just happened?

ThatBeetroot · 08/05/2007 14:31

the british press ore follwing the families every move - it must be driving them mad

charlottelouise · 08/05/2007 14:31

honestly first time, charlottelouise is my actual name, thats why i dont understand all the shortenings (dd?)

dionnelorraine · 08/05/2007 14:31

not a daft statement. Its a true emotion! It may fade but im sure those poor parents felt like that at some point and I would feel like that too!

RanToTheHills · 08/05/2007 14:31

well at least CL was being honest in asking what we're all thinking.
However, all this talk about "perverts" and of abductions from doorsteps/parks (wtf?) is tasteless, fairly irrelevant and truly ignorant.

wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe · 08/05/2007 14:31

ey wait a minute why is charlotte being jumped on? she asked a question, which has been speculated on before on this thread so it's not as if she was the only one, and why are people assuming she's been here before, I would imagine there are probably many people who have joined forums to discuss this particular situation - rightly or wrongly people do.

toomuchtodo · 08/05/2007 14:32

tugamommy, thats a chilling thought

quietmouse · 08/05/2007 14:33

I have two children. Honest answer is I don't know but I would find it extremely hard to carry on with my life under those circumstances.

Why is it a daft statement? It's how I feel, personally. Doesn't make it daft just because it might be different from how you would feel.

dionnelorraine · 08/05/2007 14:33

well done wannabe, I agree!

wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe · 08/05/2007 14:34

beaty there's a post further down from tugamommy that refers to a story i the portuguese press (am assuming she's from portugal) saying that the police believe madeleine was abducted by a ring of brittish paedophiles, that it was an organized abduction, that they "ordered a child like her".

ThatBeetroot · 08/05/2007 14:34

anhyone want to answer me?

Heathcliffscathy · 08/05/2007 14:35

this thread does indeed represent a cross section of society and as such contains elements that are abhorrent.

it really does disgust me to see your comment about 'castrating them' charlotte louise.

I'm afraid that there is little point trying to engage with someone that has that mentality. so adios.

toomuchtodo · 08/05/2007 14:35

of course its a daft statement!

if you have other kids they still need their mum and dad, even if the mum and dad would rather crawl into a corner and cry

thats why we have pictures of the McCann family out pushing their twins in their buggy, of course they must be ripped up inside but their youngest still need caring for.

LilyLoo · 08/05/2007 14:35

Thanks tug that clarifies the situation a little better. I know it must be terribly hard for them too as you say they have their own way of dealing with things. Obviously after this they would handle it differently if it (god forbid) was to ever happen again.

charlottelouise · 08/05/2007 14:36

the whole thing about being abducted from parks etc was just my anger running away with me about storys i had read in the news paper.
yesterday my partner was walking the dog down the allyway at the side of the house, where he saw a man with his face up against next doors fence looking through a hole whilst there children played in the garden, the man moved when he saw my partner, and we will be informing our neighbours of this, but its made me really uneasy, about even being in my garden wich is completely riddiculous

quietmouse · 08/05/2007 14:36

Please don't not call how I feel 'daft' toomuchtodo

dionnelorraine · 08/05/2007 14:36

it isnt daft! its a normal human reaction! Ofcourse you would go on but you may not feel like you want to for a while. And to be honest I would be more worried if you didnt feel like that!

LilyLoo · 08/05/2007 14:37

Beety reports of a man loitering at the resort was reportd by people at accomodation and staff were allerted. They are now saying their main lead is a paedophile netwrrok of Brits living in Algarve. They have specialists form Lisbon and Britain helping them.In the portugese papers today.

toomuchtodo · 08/05/2007 14:38

of course we'd all feel like giving up but the choice isn't there is it?

dionnelorraine · 08/05/2007 14:40

If you have other kids of course you dont have a choice but to feel tat way is ot daft. Its normal!!!

wannaBeWhateverIWannaBe · 08/05/2007 14:40

had a friend whose brother was killed in a car accident, his mum really did give up, made his bedroom a shrine to him etc, and the effect on her other two children was devostating. my friend ended up getting his 14 year old girlfriend pregnant and is now unhappily married, and his sister ended up sleeping with married men and ended up pregnant at the age of 16. totally out of character for the family but their mum was in such a dark place that they suffered as a result.

LaCerbiatta · 08/05/2007 14:40

Yes of course Lilyloo, that's how they learn isn't it? Before Sarah Payne and the Soham girls the british police were probably not so well organized as they are now. I also believe that if it had happened in Lisbon it would have been different... The Algarve is so quite and 'crime free'.... Let's hope it's a one off. I love it there, specially the east side. I hope nothing ever spoils it....

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