I am laughing my arse off at all the "but.... but...." crew, I really am.
Because I've had a bloody gutful these past 18 months of such sayings as "you wanted equality, 'ave it" when I myself spent the first few years of my own kids' lives folding the double buggy habitually because you couldn't guarantee it'd be a bus with without steps anyway and even if it was a level access bus the right thing to do is to fold. My two were 14 months apart in age, DS1 didn't walk when DS2 was born so I found solutions to the problem that didn't prevent disabled people accessing the bus. I wasn't alone in doing that, most mums did too.
Then DS2 and DD needed to use wheelchairs. DS2 fortunately now doesn't need to but I do, and the whole time it's been getting harder and harder dealing with militant parents who won't fold. Who push in front to get in the lift meaning my child has a toilet accident because they can't be arsed to use the stairs. Gaggles of giggling teenage girls taking over the disabled loo for some kind of fashion show when I needed the loo.
Now the bloody trains saying they can't guarantee disabled people the right to board.....
It is so bloody frustrating going through life with people not having the slightest comprehension of how necessary the disability adjustments made on transport, loos etc are to enable us to live a normal life. How it feels like the biggest fuck you ever when someone can't do a small thing which will be a minor inconvenience to them for a couple of minutes to them to enable you to live a normal life when most things are a major inconvenience to you every day because.... disability, you know?
How the hate crimes and snide remarks towards disabled people have increased 2010 and impacted on my mental health and feelings of self worth....
So yes, today I am jubilant and I won't apologise to anyone upset by that. I bothered my arse when I was in your shoes, why can't you?
There is still a very long way to go with improvements to make disabled people's lives easier, this is small stuff and a big thing at the same time.