Thank you.
Last night, I tried this:
me: cologne blah blah
Nice liberal chap: but that makes you sound racist
Me: No. It makes you sound sexist.
And that is, until you wonderful people can furnish me with a better response, will become my stock in trade answer.
I am sick and tired of being made to examine my (absolutely spotless) conscience for the tiniest trace of racism in the face of such blatant and unchallenged condescending sexism.
Yes, I think a culture that values women and makes them equal is superior to one that sees them as chattels and sex objects.
Racist? Hardly.
Culturally insensitive? Possibly, who fucking cares? Get over it.