I guess it's about looking at the motivations behind the practise. I accept that you see it as indoctrinating your children into their religion at an early age, along with whispering in the child's ear at birth. However, if you take gods out of the equaltion and accept that cultures are defined by their practises, it becomes distrubing to the Western eye.
For example, there is a raging argument going on at the moment about whether or not women are partly responsible for rape if they are intokicated. If you look at it dispassionatly, why is it that women are being held to blame for men's actions? What does this say about the society?
I will admit to being disturbed by Islamic attitudes to women. They whole idea of sheilding them from male view underlines their position as a sex object. You let slip that attitude by your comment that even ugly muslims cover up. I am also disturbed by the inferior place women have in the legal system, their testimony being half of that of as male. And yet all my muslim friends insist that muslim women are treasured. The two don't tally in my mind, or in the experience of the muslim women I count amongst my friends. After all, look at what happened to the treasured sisters in Afghanistan.
I'm sorry if I disappointed you on another thread. I'm disappointed that a system of belief that prescribes the dealth penalty for any that chooses to reject it still feels justified in describing itself as peaceful.