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Fledglings marching into spring - the Flylady thread

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TooStressyForMyOwnGood · 28/02/2017 22:11

Hello all and welcome to the March Flylady thread! Welcome to all current posters and also to any returners plus of course anyone who would like to join. The more the merrier. Jump in where you are.

We are a friendly group who (sort of) follow the Flylady system in hopes of a more organised home and life. Some of us manage that better than others :).

Since last month seemed to be ok I'll follow the same format of personals throughout the day (or in the evening if I haven't had a chance in the day) and links in the evening. Please, though, let me know if you want me to change anything or if I have posted anything wrong.

It's my first time running this thread so here we go with links... Please if anything is wrong feel free to correct me. Hopefully it will all go swimmingly this month but I apologise in advance for anything not slick! I'm starting a day early as have work tomorrow and I am slow at this but will try to stay on the old thread until tomorrow. Thanks again SC and Cotswold as I have basically copied your notes again.

Flylady advises decluttering for 15 mins a day. I tend to manage 5 but I know lots of people have great results with 15.

For a summary of what's going on, go to www.flylady.net/c/lp.php or just follow this thread

Newbies, welcome, have a look around the Flylady website www.flylady.net - it can sometimes be a bit disorganised. Unless you want to, beware of signing up for her emails - there are hundreds and all the info is on the website anyway. Here is the getting started link www.flylady.net/d/getting-started/

You can post what we you done (ta das) and any to do lists if you want to- I definitely find this helpful.

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foxessocks · 05/03/2017 15:59

Ta das
Daily routine done
Finally done dd thank you cards but ran out so have 3 left to do which is annoying!
Dinner started

I could do with doing some ironing but not sure if it's going to happen as I'm now stuck under a sleeping baby and drinking a cider!

Cagliostro · 05/03/2017 18:16

I'm sitting on the bed while the Caglets play superheroes downstairs. DH had bought frankfurters and buns so hot dogs it is, DH made them a proper lunch

I have an epically busy week ahead. I have five new piano pupils coming for lessons! Two siblings on Tuesday morning, another two siblings on Wednesday afternoon, and another child on Friday evening! YIKES! The money sure helps though. Not sure if they'll be weekly or fortnightly yet, it's just a tryout kind of thing.

Loads of financial stuff to sort out too which is stressing me out. I am ignoring the housework today, DH had some laundry going when I got back, I shall let him deal with the later stages of it. :o I am achy as fuck this afternoon. Hmm

Stilllivinginazoo · 05/03/2017 18:56
foxessocks · 05/03/2017 19:17

Ta das
More washing hung up
Dishwasher on again
Kitchen cleaned after dinner
Living room and kitchen hoovered
And flop.

TooStressyForMyOwnGood · 05/03/2017 20:33

Ta da:-
DD1 homework
DD1 asleep
Takeaway ordered Grin

To do
Phone call
Get DD2 to sleep
Sew on a badge for DD2- forgot about this Angry
Dishwasher
Rewash muddy running gear as one wash has not been enough Shock
Evening routine
Before bed routine

More enjoyable things:-
Calendar check
Quick declutter

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TooStressyForMyOwnGood · 05/03/2017 22:22

Hello zoo Smile. Cag, good luck for new pupils next week! foxes, I am definitely flopping now. Big wing flaps to all.

Here is the daily summary for Monday...

All information also available on the Flylady website www.flylady.net. The

flight plan
should update every day.

We are in Zone 2 this week: the kitchen

Spend 15 mins (or as much as you can manage if you can't do 15) decluttering in Zone 2.

When you have finished decluttering, the detailed cleaning list (if you are at that stage) for Zone 2 is here

Mission
Dear Friends,

Let's take a close look at the gadgets and small appliances. When was the last time you cleaned out your toaster; opened up the bottom and dumped the crumbs? How dingy or dusty is your coffee maker? Do we even want to talk about the blades on the electric can openers? How about the outside of the microwave?
Wipe them down and make them shine. I am not telling you to drag out every small kitchen appliance you own and to scrub them. Just wipe down the fingerprints, dust, drips, dried food particles on the most used items. Make sure you unplug these items before you clean them!

Don't obsess, set your timer for 15 minutes and have fun!

The daily focus for Monday is: weekly home blessing hour Ugh. Do this in whichever way is less painful for you! Doesn't have to be on a Monday (DH does it here at the end of the week).

Daily reminders (radio show times are probably not accurate for UK but can listen to previous shows/podcasts)

Baby-step no 6 - put out your hot spot (a hot spot is any place where clutter always builds up). I seem to spend my life doing this!!!!

March habit is getting dressed to shoes www.flylady.net/d/habits-of-the-month/march/

Flykids mission: www.flylady.net/c/flykids.php?tzm=0

Happy flying.

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CotswoldStrife · 05/03/2017 22:25
TooStressyForMyOwnGood · 05/03/2017 22:27
Grin
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WhoKn0wsWhereTheTimeG0es · 05/03/2017 22:53

Well, all beds stripped, bedlinen washed, dried and replaced, a load of clothes just about to come out of the dryer and a load of ironing from yesterday's laundry done. Also the week's menu planning and shopping done, with help from DS.

Other than that the day has mainly consisted of nagging over homework. DD has topic homework, this half term it's an "imagine you are" topic rather than a factual one, she hates 1st person creative writing and isn't interested in the subject at all. I'm not much help as it's a weak area for me too.

Congratulations on the arrival of DD2 Castle Smile

BluePheasant · 05/03/2017 23:14

Don't blame you with the run stressy cafe far more appealing, horrible weather today!

Busy week for me coming up, working everyday til Sunday compared to my usual 3 day. Hoping the new routines and habits will help keep on top of things.

Ta das

Ironing
Mended a top
Birthday presents wrapped
Uniform ready for tomorrow
Tidied DDs room
Evening routine done

Out of interest, what is the difference between evening routine and before bed routine? What sorts of things do they involve?

Cagliostro · 06/03/2017 01:01

I flopped too although did stick the dryer on and we just about managed to finish the project I'm doing with the Caglets. It's called a matchbox swap and you post a matchbox to your partner family full of whatever info, activities etc you can fit in from the chosen topic. It's our first one so I've no idea if we've done it right!

Re: flopping maybe flylady should have wing flops as well as wing flaps?

Congratulations castle 💐🌟

Afreshstartplease · 06/03/2017 07:05

Flopped again yesterday although did go to bed leaving no pots to be washed again

The kitchen is my nemesis

PurpleDaisies · 06/03/2017 09:13

Hi everyone.
I've been away for the weekend and the site has been rubbish so not disappeared. Lots of lovely news on the thread-congratulations stressy, foxes and welcome castle. Blue I feel exactly the same about sorting photos. It should be a nice job but it really isn't.

I've got horrible period pain but lots to do so going to try painkillers and hot water bottle for one episode of greys anatomy and then get going. I'm meeting a friend for lunch which will be lovely so I'd really like to get some things done beforehand.

To do...
Weekly tidy
Order print
Order light shade
Write and send cards
Kitchen mission

TooStressyForMyOwnGood · 06/03/2017 09:33

Morning all.

Blue, www.flylady.net/d/getting-started/flying-lessons/routines/
TBH I think the evening routine and before bed routine might be just something I do, sorry! I have split my routines down a bit further (on the website flylady talks about adding in afternoon routines and things if they help).

So, for me, evening routine is the stuff for the end of that day, e.g., tea, dishwasher, laundry check, 2 min declutter. Before bed routine is prep for tomorrow: pack bags, calendar check, check clothes ready. Hopefully that makes sense! I suspect Flylady actually lumps them all together as the wife bed routine from what I've just read.

I find it a bit easier to have smaller routines. Otherwise I am bad for doing that typicslnthjng of thinking that I haven't done lots of stuff so may as well not bother with whole routine. Little routines help as feels like a start a shiny new one regularly so less to screw up Smile.

Purple Flowers, hopefully Greys anatomy will do the trick. Definitely like the idea of wing flops Cag, must remember that! Hello to Afresh, good kitchen work last night! Wing flaps to everyone else.

Ta da:-
School run
Started morning routine
Out a few clothes out on washing line!

To do
Finish morning routine
Make packed lunch for DD2
DD2 activity
Go for run while she does activity

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TooStressyForMyOwnGood · 06/03/2017 09:34

No idea what the wife bed routine is... I suspect that is something else entirely Grin. That was meant to be the before bed routine!

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TooStressyForMyOwnGood · 06/03/2017 09:35

No idea what the wife bed routine is... I suspect that is something else entirely Grin. That was meant to be the before bed routine!

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foxessocks · 06/03/2017 10:29

Completely unsuccessful morning. Tried to go to two different supermarkets but both ways blocked with awful traffic so turned around and went home! Have only managed to get the dishwasher on. Oh and I missed the bin collection by about 5 seconds Angry

Sitting down with tea and a hot cross bun now while I feed the baby.

To do
Kitchen declutter
Small appliance clean
Finish daily routine
Ironing
Go back to supermarket later!!

Castlelough · 06/03/2017 10:46

Thanks for the warm welcome Purple (enjoy lunch - sounds lovely!) and Caglio and the congratulations WhoKnows. We are thrilled with our new arrival! You seem to be on a roll with your laundry - good job! Mine seems neverending!

Thanks for the links TooStressy and I agree about breaking routines into smaller routines.

Ta-da:

  • Dd1dressed, fed, packed lunch/bag and Dh has dropped her to the childminder. She is continuing to go two days a week. It gives me a bit of time with dd2 and it is good for her to maintain a bit of routine. Plus it is good for her to play and socialise.

  • Hmmm does drinking tea and sitting under baby count?

To Do:

  • Ring bank re setting up a regular mortgage OP (excited about this!)
  • Ring Milk Bank re donating.
  • Ring to enquire about WIFI installation. *WHB (at least part of it anyway) *Ironing and laundry reboot *Out after lunch to take dd2 to breastfeeding clinic for weighing. *Grocery shop while in town and without dd1! *Dinner prep *Evening routine
Castlelough · 06/03/2017 10:46

Thanks for the warm welcome Purple (enjoy lunch - sounds lovely!) and Caglio and the congratulations WhoKnows. We are thrilled with our new arrival! You seem to be on a roll with your laundry - good job! Mine seems neverending!

Thanks for the links TooStressy and I agree about breaking routines into smaller routines.

Ta-da:

  • Dd1dressed, fed, packed lunch/bag and Dh has dropped her to the childminder. She is continuing to go two days a week. It gives me a bit of time with dd2 and it is good for her to maintain a bit of routine. Plus it is good for her to play and socialise.

  • Hmmm does drinking tea and sitting under baby count?

To Do:

  • Ring bank re setting up a regular mortgage OP (excited about this!)
  • Ring Milk Bank re donating.
  • Ring to enquire about WIFI installation. *WHB (at least part of it anyway) *Ironing and laundry reboot *Out after lunch to take dd2 to breastfeeding clinic for weighing. *Grocery shop while in town and without dd1! *Dinner prep *Evening routine
Castlelough · 06/03/2017 10:47

Sorry for double post. Can't see how to delete!

Castlelough · 06/03/2017 10:47

Sorry for double post. Can't see how to delete!

Afreshstartplease · 06/03/2017 10:56

Are you using the ap castle I think it does that sometimes

TooStressyForMyOwnGood · 06/03/2017 14:36

Ta da:-
Laundry under control
5 mins decluttering
Calendar check
Went for run

To do
Deal with undefined stain on carpet ? cat related
Do something about the fact that DD2 has drawn all over her face
Pick up DD1 from school

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Sweepingchange · 06/03/2017 14:55

[SC blasts in powered by strong winds and driving rain, riding a huge rustic besom Wink and crash-lands in to thread trailing mud and straw behind her] Grin ] Hope haven't brought too- many agricultural smells with me as well-- Confused

Greetings you lovely lot! Hope everyone ok! Sorry to come to March thread so late!

Thank you so much for running it Toostressy when I couldn't, especially having run Feb's thread too Flowers Cake Gin. Your links are so incredibly detailed; you are doing a fantabulously conscientious job!!

(For general info - we hope to be getting land line and wi-fi within a couple of months's time!)

And [double take] is that Castle I see? Yay! Lovely to have you back!! Many, many congratulations on the birth of dd2!! It only seems a moment since dd1's birth was immiment! How's the horse btw?

And hello to Whoknows (and other oldies) and all "currents", and newcomers!!

Whoknows huge sympathies re:hwk nagging - it is totally soul destroying!

And hope everyone is surviving the stress of school allocations (I remember it well!)

Haven't caught up with thread (just diving in and out) but just back from our first full week in the the country (half-term) and wanted to say "hello". Feeling surprisingly energetic today bearing in mind this constant travelling back and forth lark (not to mention (literally) shed-loads of work required at both ends - have "to do" lists as long as my arms !!) is quite demanding - but definitely worth it! Didn't want to come home! And we are getting better at the food planning/tidying up before leaving and minimal packing etc!

Unfortunately weather was atrocious (didn't stop us from appreciating the lovely scenery though) but quite how all of our shoes and trousers and coats ended up covered in mud (despite keeping two pairs back for house use only) I don't quite know!

Only set-back - it was the first time dd and I had stayed there overnight without dh or another male adult (bil or db or plumber!) and I have to say, despite my best efforts to keep everything calm and relaxed, the atmosphere is definitely a bit, er, well, creepy "atmospheric" and "heavy" so have arranged for a priest to come and bless all the rooms! Obviously didn't say anything to dd for fear of upsetting her, but she was independently scared (ifysim) and we did not sleep well and tbh (although it sounds ridiculous) I felt totally petrified at one point, not helped by the inpenetrable darkness, freezing, damp walls and floors, dripping rooves, creaking wood, strong winds, driving rain, banging barn doors and having to pick one's way down a dark pitch black corridor with a torch, stepping over pipes and cabling to reach the lav at night, all the while feeling one is being watched!!! Mwah, mwah, mwah ... Hmm

Anyway, happily, none of that could dampen general delight at being amongst budding trees, tiny lambs, swathes of snowdrops etc etc Grin And we met some of the neighbours who have turned out to be incredibly friendly - particularly one slightly batty lady sheep farmer in her eighties who very kindly gave us two bottles of her home pressed apple juice. (Going to bake her some ginger cake in return.)

Anyway, having attended office "event" this morning (for which dh and I were in the office until after midnight yesterday printing and compiling hand books), I had better get tackling our humungously tall washing pile, most of which seems to comprise of dog blankets covered in mud!!

Apologies for such a "me" "me" post, but hope to be back intermittently before leaving again on Fri morning and will catch up with everyone then!

In meantime, hope you are feeling better as day goes on Purple

Tally-ho one and all!

mermaidsandunicorns · 06/03/2017 14:57

Hello Hello sorry I haven't posted in a few days had an awful 10 hour shift yesterday so have been not doing much today but I have managed to vacuum do dishwasher and chuck a load of laundry on

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