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Fledglings don't makes resolutions in January, they fly and chat through the babysteps.

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BitchytheGreat · 22/01/2014 13:16

Roll up, roll up. Thread two for January is here. You chatty lot Grin

will be back later with linkie poos and a vat of bitchy's special brew...

In the meantime spot markers will be handed a magic rubber and told to clean up after themselves...

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sanschocolat · 24/01/2014 08:43

Morning everyone!

It is so lovely to come back on here this morning and see everyone's cheering messages. Thank you so much for them!

Sorry I didn't get back on here last night. I was too busy balancing buckets of iced water above doors in rooms where dh was about to enter ignoring dh and shredding his ties. Wink

Swan yes it was a very strange thing for him to say - I still don't understand it as he has never, ever expressed that view to me before the meeting - and I've never known him to be intimidated by anyone! He has infuriatingly unshakeable confidence!!

Also, yes, someone else has advised me not to dismiss a psychologist because they are young/don't have dc of their own. I can see I was perhaps a bit hasty in my judements re the first point but still hesitating about second. Fortunately, Toffee has very kindly advised me who I should be ideally looking for and with what training.

Glad to hear you had a bit of time out and a lovely evening Swan and of course that you are coping magnficiently without dh Smile! And looking at the mounds of delicious food you are producing: I really need to up my game and get back to cooking dd some comforting puddings. (She opted for hot dinners instead of packed lunches this term, so I've got a bit slack.)

Sorry to hear your ds1 has had such a difficult week though. As you say, I think any adult would find those organisational logistics difficult to cope with. Hope his violin exam goes well.

Toffee yes it must be incredibly hard to have had a brief window of relative freedom and then for it to be shut again - let's hope only temporarily! Hope your ds1 feels better soon.

And ha! DD and I do that "rewind the video" role-play thing when we have got off on the wrong foot together! It always takes the tension out of proceedings!

Hope you have woken up feeling much better today Goth too!

Blue congrats on your radio interview - you will be able to go on to a career in politics once this particular campaign has reached its conclusion (hopefully in your group's favour)

Dizzy well done on finishing mini-quilt and good luck with your crisis clean today - hope you can catch up on sleep at the weekend!

Feverish doesn't sound good Just. Hope you can get to docs soon. Take care x

Candlelit dinner sounds lovely Engels!! Good luck with your list! Arf at your ds's choice of attire Grin

Sympathies over expensive uniform Bitchy. DD's feet are perplexing. They don't grow for ages and ages and then overnight they've suddenly elongated by a couple of cms. Have just had to give away a load of (relatively new and expensive) shoes that she can't fit in to any more.

Well this morning dd went off to school in floods of tears. She was claiming a headache and sore throat but it transpired that she hadn't done her maths hwk. I did ask her if she'd done her hwk last night, but what with all the dramas with dh, I failed to check up on it. Ho hum.

House in not too bad a state on ground and first floor but oh so much decluttering to do. Don't really feel in the groove atm. Had better go and do something productive such as shredding dh's underpants Grin - makes lovely rabbit bedding don't you know ...

Lovely day here too so think I'll get out of the house and blow the cobwebs off!

Huge waves to Castle and everyone else!!

sanschocolat · 24/01/2014 08:49

PS Castle (wish nickname reflected rl!! Must get back to diet!!!)

BitchytheGreat · 24/01/2014 10:06

ta da
spend half an hour rummaging throught the back bedroom finding a few bits that are needed and taking stock of what is in there.
Deal with a few bits that need dealing with urgently
Spend 15mins in study doing a cursory declutter
spend 5mins in dining room
Put ds' bedding on to wash

Currently eating breakfast whilst doing an impression of a zombie and wondering where the anti-histamines are. Ds woke up with a wet bed at 4am and whilst he went back to bed after he had chatted to me loudly as I stripped it, i didn't manage to sleep for 2hrs and am suffering from it. I also have a medical appointment I don't like. That time of the year again. Smears the bane of most woman's life.

Will post links when i have drunk another cup or 6 of coffee and my brain is able to function

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BlueEyeshadow · 24/01/2014 10:46

Morning all.

Unfortunately radio interview was more of a vox pops soundbite that they then didn't play anyway. DH was interviewed properly this morning though!

So far today I've been attempting to patch up the paint on the car - very badly but hopefully will last a while! - and get some work done. But way too many distractions going on.

Brew anyone?

BitchytheGreat · 24/01/2014 11:17

Please Blue

Friday is clean you car, purse and fun fuck day

babystep is the swish and swipe one and is important

missions

Right next job find out what smells like it is burning Hmm and Oh fuck put a pan of water on to boil a while back for the handwarmers. SHIT

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AliceinWinterWonderland · 24/01/2014 11:23

I'm off for a bit and this: fun fuck day is what I come back to? Shock Clearly I need to read back a few pages and catch up! Grin

Anyway, I think I have life back on a level playing field again. (one can only hope, right?) So hopefully I can now get back to getting things done.

First things first. Nice relaxing bath while DCs are in school. I can make my list while I'm soaking. Grin See? Multitasking already! Aren't I clever?

And then I'll post my list.

ToffeeWhirl · 24/01/2014 11:45

Actually, it started out as fuck fun Friday, Alice, though fun fuck amounts to the same thing, I think . It was incorporated into the babysteps after a typo gave us all ideas Grin.

Managed to have a quick chat with DS2's form teacher this morning. She was very understanding and has suggested a way of dealing with it (ie. dropping DS2 off earlier with a friend's mum, leaving me the time and freedom to deal with DS1).

Then had a long chat with a friend's DH, who has offered to help with DS1 because he had similar problems as a young man. He was incredibly helpful and talking with him about the issues really cheered me up and helped clarify things.

Cleaner has been and gone, so the house is clean again. She even tackled the corner I had been trying to ignore in the sitting room (hidden down the side of the sofa and littered with firelighter boxes, etc. She even found a spider ).

Have had an email from another school we are planning to visit for DS1. They want copies of reports before we visit. As I am also planning on sending off the application for a statement asap, I can see that I'm going to be busy with paperwork this weekend.

Off to work now...

BitchytheGreat · 24/01/2014 11:50

God sorry yes another typo. Blush

I have managed to burn water and blow a saucepan. But not set fire to anything

I considering quiting whilst i am ahead on this flying nonsense. [bad leader]

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AliceinWinterWonderland · 24/01/2014 12:36

Okay. All relaxed now. Grin

ta da
-usual morning routines, school runs
-checked bank
-checked electric and gas meters
-walked to shop and put money on electric and gas keys for meters and put that on the meters
-lovely bath while researching something on the tablet (and points for not dropping said tablet into the water!! Grin)

  • clothes put in washer (new one - yay!!)

to do

  • join slimming world online (eeeek! have been putting this off, but needs must! at least to get myself started!)
  • look at local leisure centre online to find out price of monthly membership so I can swim regularly and do some workouts
  • finish organising budget to include those costs
  • pay tax for car so I don't get a ticket next month for expired tax Hmm
  • order book for my kindle that was recommended to be helpful re my son's disabilities
  • school run this afternoon
  • exercise tonight (after DCs in bed, as I don't really want to provide them with the scary entertainment!) with my Wii Zumba
  • collapse in a heap.......

As you probably have noticed, today it's all about MEEEEEE!! Because while my house needs sorting, and my garden needs to be mowed and the hedge clipped and the car cleaned and my home office organised.... I have neglected my own health and fitness for far too long. So today, I am putting myself first, so that I can then be healthy enough to cope with and take care of everything else.

Feeling very virtuous today as well. Have eaten healthy today, and only had 2 cups of tea, with only 1 sugar instead of 2. Grin Little steps, eh?

JustGettingOnWithIt · 24/01/2014 12:41

Just a quickie to say I managed to get one of the Dr's urgent appointments, and am on my way to Moorfields as an emergancy.

Toffee really glad to hear you're getting some r/l support. As it sounds as if it's all moving swiftly I'll do what I can to complete the pm, am able enough as lng as you work round feverish rambling style!

SC Hope this doesn't sound to rude, but Pavlov's approval seeking dog when faced with female HT and sense that 'excuses' are being profered, possibly? Have had something different but similar and it's what I named it to ensure it wouldn't wag it's bloody tail again!

BitchytheGreat · 24/01/2014 13:56

ta da
spend half an hour rummaging throught the back bedroom finding a few bits that are needed and taking stock of what is in there.
Deal with a few bits that need dealing with urgently
Spend 15mins in study doing a cursory declutter
spend 5mins in dining room
Put ds' bedding on to wash
burn water and blow a saucepan
design and source bits for ds' birthday cake
unravel a bit of crocheting as need wool for finishing blanketgate
work on some blanket gate squares
give opinion on a report
find wool for working on blanket gate
drink far too much coffee and not enough water but still doing an impression of a zombie
post links for thread.
Work out timings for appointment
Spend far too long in google/etsy/pinterest
Check emails
complete 2 squares of blanketgate
Consider half term plans
remove January from the master activity board
Be grateful for the friend who has been distracting me on fb for the last hour or so.

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GoingGoingGoth · 24/01/2014 14:07

I feel much better this morning, thanks SC, thinking of your rabbit and it's comfy bedding makes me Grin

Just good luck at appointment

Alice ME time is good, don't ever feel bad about it.

Toffee hope things are getting better

Done
Beds
Packed lunch
Dd to school
Greengrocers
Dry laundry away
Washing up
Laundry on
Completed Tax Return -yay
Ironing

To do
Collect dd
Prep dinner
Supervise homework

ToffeeWhirl · 24/01/2014 14:58

Just - am so relieved that the dr has finally seen sense and you are going to be seen as a priority at an excellent eye hospital. Best of luck. Please, please don't worry about answering my pm. I welcome your opinion, but in your own good time (which clearly isn't right now!). No hurry!

Ta da

Work

To do

Late lunch
Phone friend to apologise for not having time to meet today
School run
Walk to PO to post parcels for work, then to library to photocopy documents for statement
Home in time to cook dinner (what's for dinner? No idea)

sanschocolat · 24/01/2014 15:09

Thanks for caffeine hit Blue!

Good to hear you are on the mend Goth!

Yes, agree with Goth, you are setting a very good example Alice!! (And good luck with weight loss - am with you in spirit on that one!)

Brilliant you have an appointment with Moorfields Just Smile Hope they can sort everything out!!!

(Not rude at all! And yes, possibly Pavlovian reaction - dh certainly loathes confrontation - but at same time rarely says things just to please that he doesn't mean. I've given up trying to figure it out tbh! He really doesn't understand why I am in such a strop about it as he says he was trying to get the school to take their responsibilities seriously. I see that but it just wasn't helpful to complain about lack of pressure/hwk when I had just that minute described how dd wasn't sleeping/morphed in to a different (spiky) child during term time! We'll just have to agree to disagree on this one. Dh and I have at least exchanged reasonably civil phone calls today.)

What sort of birthday cake are you making Bitchy?

Glad the teacher was helpful Toffee!

Ta da:
morning routine inc dw, wm, ss, rabbits
put away half of on-line supermarket delivery
cleaned out hamster cage (again)
tidied boudoir (again)
put away 3 paniers clean and ironed washing
nipped to chemist and back
researched more psychologists
hoovered downstairs
cleaned bathroom
cleaned kitchen surfaces
re-arranged tutoring appt for tonight
a couple of organisational e-mails
carried a load of stuff upstairs
and another load of stuff downstairs
some work work

Failed to meal plan this week. Must go and sort out something for tonight. I know we have fish in freezer.

Have a great weekend everyone!

Swanhildapirouetting · 24/01/2014 15:36

Another peaceful and lovely day!
Long nap, and read lots of books/newspapers
Up at 6.30am is my excuse again.
Exercise to shops and back for groceries
coffee with neighbour and chat before that

Ds1 has been stomping around the house angrily, in between eating enormous plates of rice pudding and lamb chops. We tried tuning his violin but failed miserably.

MerryBuddha · 24/01/2014 16:22

WARNING A me me post!
Promise I will read back the thread later (when I have time).

But just wanted to pop on and share my great news!!
I was asked in for an second interview this morning for my ideal/dream job and they offered it to me.

Its what I have wanted to do for a very long time, they are going to give me full training and there is scope for me to move into a specialised field, which will be my dream job. Also it fits around the children. Over the moon.

GoingGoingGoth · 24/01/2014 16:28

CONGRATULATIONS Merry Wine Thanks Cake

BlueEyeshadow · 24/01/2014 16:34

Woohoo! Congratulations indeed Merry, that's fabulous!

Glad you got a hospital appointment Just.

Ta da!
Caught up with DH's radio interview
Finished 1st draft of big project
Car repainting x3
Hoovered through
Cleaned bathroom
Rescued landing
Bit more sorted for training next week

To do:
Cook tea
Clean kitchen
Collapse with Wine

EustaciaVye · 24/01/2014 16:43

Congratulations MerryBuddha :)

PS. Can anyone recommend a good vacuum cleaner?

BitchytheGreat · 24/01/2014 17:48

SC an edible one?

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BitchytheGreat · 24/01/2014 17:50

Ds is fragile, i am fragile and very very grumpy in need of my bed needless to say ds is now in tears and I am wanting to lock my door and make the whole world go away. Oh the joys.

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ToffeeWhirl · 24/01/2014 17:58

Congratulations Merry! Wine Flowers Cake

That's fabulous news. You must be on a high Smile.

at Bitchy's response to SC's question.

We have a Miele, Eustacia. Meant to be better than Dysons and it hasn't let us down yet (had it for several years now).

Blue - no wonder you're planning to collapse with wine - that's quite a list!

Swan - glad you had a lovely, peaceful day. Am not envious, oh no.

SC - good to know that you and DH can at least speak on the phone now. Can't believe he's genuinely puzzled by your response to what he said!

Ta da

School run
To Post Office to post several parcels
To bank
To library to photocopy lots of documents on DS1
To off licence Wink
Long walk home under starry sky
What's in the freezer for dinner? Chicken nuggets and chips Blush (but DC will be happy).

Was possibly going out tonight, but am too tired, so am planning a sofa/telly/wine night with DH.

CallingAllEngels · 24/01/2014 18:28

Great news merry !

End of a long week. Have felt so sluggish and exhausted. I really do hate January!

ta da
washingx2
washing up
food shopping
petrol
hoovered downstairs
cleaned downstairs bathroom

now about to open a bottle of Wine and fall asleep on the sofa. Have a great weekend everyone!

GoingGoingGoth · 24/01/2014 19:55

Eustacia I have a Hetty atm, and she's lovely, but would really like a Miele or a Sebo (Mum has one and she's very particular over her vacuums)
I wouldn't have a Dyson , just don't like them.

updated done
Beds
Packed lunch
Dd to school
Greengrocers
Dry laundry away
Washing up
Laundry on
Completed Tax Return -yay
Ironing
Collect dd
2nd load laundry on
Dinner
Made Rhubarb & apple crumble - but too full to have any!
Supervise homework
Washing up (DH assisted)
SS

BitchytheGreat · 24/01/2014 20:02

Ok quick dump of links.

Sat is family fun day. do something fun with the kids/bloke/Misses etc

NO missions it is the weekend

if you can be arsed baby step is a reading one

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