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Cost of student accommodation, I could cry

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ElbowsUpRising · 24/03/2025 18:35

So Dd has found out today she’s been accepted into Manchester and is looking at accommodation, of course all the stuff she likes is £260 a week. 51 week contract as well! It’s all the fancy, swish stuff though she is adamant the reason she wants the expensive stuff is because she’s prioritising her safety as she wants something close as she’s “terrified of getting raped” if she has to walk back to her digs late at night.

she won’t consider a house share, she won’t consider cheaper halls a bit further out.

so accommodation is looking at 13k a year! She will get minimum student loan so think that’s 5k.

she won’t be able to work partly due to her health- she has fibromyalgia but nowhere near bad enough for PIP. Also she will be doing architecture Masters which if anything like her undergraduate degree will be too full on to be able to work as well.

so we will need to find another 8k a year plus however much she will need per week for food, etc. I’m guessing over £50 a week. Nearer £100 a week? So another 5k. How the fuck do people find 13k a year?

im trying to impress on her the difference that cheaper accommodation will make on her (us) and she’s just going nuts and accusing me of risking her safety and putting her at risk of being raped!

Is £260 a week normal?

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StretfordEnd · 28/03/2025 20:04

Londonmummy66 · 28/03/2025 18:46

In her first year DD was in a flat where almost everyone was an international student from the Far East. I nearly threw up at the state of the kitchen when I dropped her back after the Christmas holidays. Plates of food dumped in the sink, egg shells just dropped on the floor next to the bin rather than in it. Utterly vile.

Years and years ago we had two Malaysian students in our flat. They were lovely people but they kept putting chicken bones in the plughole in the kitchen. I think they must have had waste disposal units at home.

TizerorFizz · 28/03/2025 22:44

@StretfordEnd It’s an Asian trait. It’s not about having a waste disposal unit. At DDs school the student kitchen in the boarding house always had noodles in the sink. Polite reminders usually solve the problem.

ClearFruit · 02/04/2025 07:22

ElbowsUpRising · 24/03/2025 19:12

Oh god don’t start me off on this. So she finished her UG 18 months ago and in December 2023 started working for an architect firm on minimum wage. I suspect she’s saved nothing. She lived at home with no bills and refused to pay board. The company folded and she lost her job early Jan this year so she’s now unemployed. She immediately decided she wasn’t looking for anything else job wise as she’d be leaving in Sept and didn’t want to mess anyone around which was very magnanimous of her. She was also apparently burnt out after working for a year. Shes spending the next few months travelling. She’s off to Europe at the weekend for a month, hosteling so will be cheap apparently. Then off to Canada for two months in the summer. She’s thinking of going to Vietnam or South Korea inbetween.

Too tired to work and study, but not too tired to jetset around the world for months?

She's massively taking the piss out of you OP.

I'd tell she she gets what she's given accomodation-wise.

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