@poetryandwine formal exams are hard for me due for various aspects of ADHD. Working memory, memory recall, etc. They’re also hard for students with a wide range other disabilities too, they’re exclusive in a variety of ways. I find them a very old fashioned, hark back to when only rich upper class boys were allowed an education way of testing someone’s knowledge and progress.
Uni offer plenty of exam skill sessions in the libraries and absolutely none of them are relevant to anyone with NDs/SpLDs. Our brains just don’t remember or recall information in the same ways as NT brains.
My ability to write things down during a 2 hour exam in no way reflects my actual depth and breadth of knowledge, particularly when it covers an entire years worth of learning that I’d already had weekly/termly exams on and got a 1:1 every time. Mind you, all of my end of year exams were in the 2:1 range and I genuinely thought I’d be getting Low 2:2s at best.
Childcare isn’t a huge issue (in general…) as there’s usually plenty of day nurseries/childminders/school wrap around care, and 85% of the cost was covered for me (an eye watering £2400 a month when all 3 were in full time childcare).
UK childcare in general is terrible in terms of its 8am-6pm Mon-Fri only. No single parent could fund a Nanny for nursing/midwifery/GEM for example, even with 85% covered as it’s just not enough.
When they’re sick for days on end, also a problem. There’s nobody to step in for me and I’ve often been accused of lying about that. My parents have never met my children, my siblings are as chaotic as my parents so I rarely see them and would never ask them to babysit, my friends all work full time!