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It's real now - leaving home to go to uni (part 3)

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user9512736123 · 18/08/2017 10:45

Here you go @Lucysky2017

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HSMMaCM · 16/09/2017 11:52

Hugo Grin I ordered a 99p doorstop and got 5! DD gave 2 to her friends and is taking the others for her flat mates.

Apocalyptichorsewoman · 16/09/2017 11:55

Look at her - it's a very surreal morning Confused

It's real now - leaving home to go to uni (part 3)
Apocalyptichorsewoman · 16/09/2017 11:56

We got two doorstops!! Maybe I should go out and get more Shock

ErrolTheDragon · 16/09/2017 11:58

Well, whatever they do with them, don't use them to prop the door open to make it easier to move stuff in, unless someone stays in the room. Moving back into hall in my second term, I left my door unlocked (but shut) and had my purse nicked. It hadn't occurred to me that it was a perfect opportunity for thievery.

Apocalyptichorsewoman · 16/09/2017 12:01

Jeepers! Shock

Have warned him about fire doors too..

Mytimenow · 16/09/2017 12:03

Car all packed, just waiting for ds1 and dh to finish watching F1 qualifying on TV and then we're off!
See you all on the other side this evening with a🍷🍷🍷

Abra1d · 16/09/2017 12:07

Good luck everyone! We're off at 1330.

Apocalyptichorsewoman · 16/09/2017 12:13

Good Luck Mytime and Abra Grin

Horsemad · 16/09/2017 12:21

Good Luck all Smile

ImListening · 16/09/2017 12:53

Good luck everyone! I remember my first day & drive up - can't believe it's my dc going!

HSMMaCM · 16/09/2017 13:12

Popped out for lunch. Just watching students arriving at Reading with their parents. All looking a bit shell shocked.

Quite funny to see the distinction between the students who are dressed to impress and the ones who look like they've just got off the red eye Grin. I'm interested now to see how DD presents herself on Wednesday.

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 16/09/2017 13:59

He is there

We left him at about 10.30 and popped to town for a coffee

Texted at 12.15 and said do you want lunch before we go or are you having too much fun

He is having too much fun

Apocalyptichorsewoman · 16/09/2017 14:11

That's Great Rufus! Grin

BestIsWest · 16/09/2017 14:12

Well, that was so well organised, fair play to the uni. The had those huge crates on wheels so you could unload your car straight into them and just make one trip. His room is small but nice. He wanted to unpack himself so we left him to it. Out DD lives just one mike away so she popped over with a moving in present for him.

Gave him a big hug and says bye. DH and I bothe shed a tear then went to IKEA a few miles away for coffee only to get a phone call to say he'd left some stuff in a compartment in the boot ... so we had to go back and say goodbye again.

dingit · 16/09/2017 15:23

Dds boyfriend arrived early at reading and there's no one in his halls as they are all 2nd and 3rd years. He's all alone as no one has answered him on the group chat Sad

Sparklingbrook · 16/09/2017 15:36

PFB has been dropped off. DH on his way back. I have sobbed to the point DS2 was looking alarmed. But feel a bit better now.

RedHelenB · 16/09/2017 15:51

Poor dingits dd s boyfriend! Glad everyone else has settled in. Dd can't wait for next Saturday as nearly all of her friends have left already!

Horsemad · 16/09/2017 17:08

Didn't you go Sparkling?

TheMightyMing · 16/09/2017 17:19

Dingit 😢 That's awful.

I have a doorstop, wilko £4.00.

We are all packed up, just fridge food and personal effects to add tomorrow. Going to be a nightmare as accommodation is right in Sheffield city centre no parking ! Just have to fling it out and work out the best way to get it up 3 flights of stairs with no lift! Then find a parking place. Dreading it !!!

OddBoots · 16/09/2017 17:23

Which halls Mighty? We just dropped at Allen Court and found a really good place to park, if you are also going to AC drop me a message and I will tell you where.

TheMightyMing · 16/09/2017 17:29

My son is going to Sheffield Hallam, his accommodation is in the city centre. Thanks though odd boots , hope you got sorted ?

Oldie2017 · 16/09/2017 17:33

Back from taking second twin. Son out at work so a wonderfully silent house for a short while.

Lindor · 16/09/2017 17:36

good luck and well done to all who have waved/dropped off DC. Hope they are all settling in well. ( I'm guessing you can judge this by how little they communicate with you). Not looking forward to packing the car.

Busy week for us: PFB graduates on Wednesday, and we drop DD at uni on Thursday.
DD and I went to visit relatives in Florida and got stranded by the Hurricane and have only just got home. DD was most unimpressed that BA were not prepared to fly her home in 100mph winds so she could finish her uni shopping. So you may have already discussed this ( and right now I don't have the energy to read back through the thread)...how much are people giving their DC for food, books , entertainment per month? with so many price rises I'm unsure what is reasonable.

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Oldie2017 · 16/09/2017 17:38

It all went well. We arrived before any crowds. His room (same university, halls near his twin's hall) is a third of the size of his twin's room - massive contract. Same price of not far short of £8k. Should it be a third of the price as it is a third of the floor space?

However it is modern and very clean rather than circa 1900 so pros and cons. He likes clean new things. His twin will cope with his sink with the chips I thought were dirt orginally but were just about 70 years of wear and tear and it is a massive huge sink like you get in old country houses even bigger than ours in the bathroom.

Small modern room boy seems really glad he has his room not one like his twin's so perhaps they both ended up with what they prefer which is nice, although he will be cramped in there. To go from having a 5000 sq foot house and massive bedroom with en suite and he has a whole downstairs living just for himself etc etc is a huge change.

A father was taking loads of possessions back to his car complaining to me about the lack of space in the rooms.

It's like moving into a monastic or prison cell in a sense - everything is much much worse than at home even in the £8k a year halls. But it is a very important life changing event and terribly good to live away, meet new people, get to study in a wonderful place and with 3 older siblings who already graduated they will definitely be fine.

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 16/09/2017 18:15

I bought ds1 a lock box to lock his money in and hide

He has put all his money in it

Guess where the key is